Jul,
I sure make noise if I were you. I'm definitely not those submissive daughter-in-law. my worst period was the confinement period. my mil bought all those herbs for soup which were yucky, bought 90 eggs expecting me to finish them, and some herbs for me to clean myself telling me never to bathe, cannot drink water & only eat food cooked wif sesame oil. i din finish the herbs, sold away all the chinese bath herbs, bathed & washed my hair, fed my dog wif the eggs and stop doing confinement after 1 week. haha!