Mashy, what you doing for your bb's 1st mth?
Princess, my hubby decided long time ago to make all our wealthy friends donate to charity under Yoda's name, that's why I did not register for any gift for Yoda, and for the full month, I initially dun want to celebrate but last night, there is a thought that come into my mind that I want Yoda to have the blessings from my relatives cos I did not have when I marry my hubby since I made my wedding v v small.
Elijah'smummy, you have such sweet parents!! I think I will do full month and not the 100days or 4th months since I wil have help from nanny, plus I think I may shed lotsa hair since I have not now.. Thank you and Mashy for the info on looking more tired after full month..
Coolkero, faint spell due to low sugar? I realized I started to like sweet drinks with my meal woh.. last time my girlfriend told me to avoid sugar during last tris cos bb will grw too big and becomes difficult to deliver..
Sherryl, I was thinking of having the celebration in Straits Rooms in Fullerton, but I wonder if it's abit too much for full month celebration???
MIL... When I had my episode, my MIL came to stay with me for about 3weeks, and I think it's really better idea to have them not staying under the same roof.. She insisted she will help me with confinement, but told me she doesn't know where to buy the ingredients for making confinement food or even Asian dinners. When I took her to the wet market, her eyes, nose, mouth all squeezed together cos she thinks the sight is disgusting (so I can forget about the fish and green papaya soup lor)... I sound her out on the night feed which I may need help with, her facial expression changed immediately.. I am here trying to save money for my hubby since I only earned 40% of what I used to after preg, she wont even wash her water glass, and everything is to be done with dish washer.. and on the day the cleaning lady come to clean the souse, she decided that "it's not nice to have her wash the dishes" while all these while I have been picking up the washing after her!!!
And because my SIL is a medical doc, everything is "ask Erin" (my SIL's name)..
After all said, I still love her (she is like my own mom, I love and get angry with her). I called her last night and we chatted for almost 1hr..
And she won't visit until Yoda is more than a month, so she'll miss the full month celebration (sad..)
My hubby is the last "man" standing in his family line.. I guess that's why he love to have a son, so the pressure is off..