lamagier,
my hubby never asking me to join him as he knew i wont be interested to it. wow, u hv exp hobby.ya, hubby play pc game can save a lot, as wont go out to drink/shopping. and he has no other hobby at all, other than play game and watch tv. so very saving. but later u will sure complain when bb come out and there's a lot house chores to do like wash bb's milk bottle, changing diapers, shower for bb, entertain bb when she cry, etc. if hubby still like that then u will suffer unless u hv a good helper. though I hv parents to help me with my #1 but I still complain sometimes. now with #2 on the way and my parents die die want to back hometown, I'm sure later hv a lot conflict with hubby.