<font color="0077aa">sorry, it's a long one!
re pupsik, think it's the cheaper version of hotslings and few other US brands. would suggest u buy 2nd hand from another mummy cos it takes abit of getting used to, especially for baby cos it's so snug. Alya was screaming when i put her inside it. just mind that pupsik got sizes so maybe u can go to mothercare and try first, get the right fit then buy 2nd hand. haha! but now im using MIM sling, i find it's better cos when i put her in it's quite loose then i slowly tighten. i only use 1 style which is what my hubby taught me. when she's bigger maybe can try other styles cos this crossing of legs..Alya doesnt really like so much.
re sterilizer: createjoy, you said sterilize once a day and then keep in ziplock bag in fridge? how abt if after use? can just wash and keep is it? right now im sterilising like all the time! i bought medela microwave bags from another mummy, can use each bag 20 times so will use that when i go back to work. pack of 5 bags is abt $25 at taka baby fair. just put water and microwave, takes abt 3mins.
re walker/exersaucer: ahnet, taka fair got good deal. saw one selling for $169 (evenflo brand). another one mummies like to buy is jumperoo. i think for babies to learn to walk on tiptoes cos their feet initially is curved inwards and will slowly open up. my niece used walker and for few mths after that was still walking on tiptoes so not so good. jumperoo some ppl say the impact on toes not so good and exersaucer can injure baby with all the twisting. so nothing's perfect but it keeps baby occupied and as long as we keep an eye on baby should be ok i think. i also wanted to buy the exersaucer, but now not sure if my mum can take care of her. if send to infantcare like no point get exersaucer, cos nobody will monitor her and think it'll be underused.
btwn jumperoo and exersaucer i think serves different purpose. jumperoo is more fun and not much activity, just jump and play. exersaucer got toys and cant really jump much..like allow baby to experience sounds, texture etc and i find baby will need to walk more in it because the toys are all around and they are in a swivel chair. btw, exersaucer seat is less padded than jumperoo.
re watching tv: wow, it's good that Jarius likes to watch tv. go get those educational dvds can play for him and keep him occupied! but i think babies cannot see far yet now..only 1m? not sure..cos i read somewhere. i think SAHM or like me only have 1 kid is very privileged and may not need tv to distract baby. sometimes even i need a break to wash clothes, heat up food etc. rather than leaving them alone, i think safer for her to watch tv and be focussed, even if for 15min only. too bad tv in my room too far from bed/cot so have to bring her closer to watch..too much hassle so i just let her watch her mobile. actually baby's life very boring hor..feed, sleep, watch mobile and play silly games with mummy...hehehe
Tubby, i think my hubby has TV addiction. cant sleep w/o watching tv. when we had our own place, he fought tooth and nail to put tv in the room. it's actually very unhealthy because tv emits a radiation which continues even after it's switched off. and of course bedroom activity is challenging when the last thing he wants to do is watch tv before sleeping. even put timer so he'll sleep before TV's off!
re bumbo: my girl thighs quite chunky to go in when i tried it the other day, so hubby said no need to buy. often parents stop using bumbo because of this thigh issue, so let ur baby try on the display set before buying.
re steroid jabs: my mum's a nurse so she advise me not to go for this. it's a temporary relief only. best is to let ur hand rest and carry baby properly (with forearm power, not wrist)
Mei: yah few neighbourhood shops sell carters very cheap cheap one. as u may know, carters (as well as gap, osh kosh etc) made in china so these retailers buy it cheap and in bulk there and that's why can sell for $5. great for home and sleepwear i find!
Sharon Limb, taka baby fair got sell Spiffies or Dental wipes for baby, got flavor some more. i just use clean cloth to clean before i bath her...learnt frm mummies here. hee
Dolly, my hubby also army and he was also in the field on wed and thu night..same unit maybe? which camp is ur hubby at?
Raudha, i have bb bjorn and it's supposed to be able to carry bb up to 12kg. if ur boy 3mths now, better buy 2nd hand cos u wont use for more than another 4-5mths. by then heavy leh to carry in front! i use bb bjorn synery, by far one of the best investments i've made.
any mummies tried to wean baby off pacifier? Alya must use it to sleep (so it means she sleeps on her own w/o much rocking/patting. and anywhere also can sleep e.g her cot, my bed, her high chair. but she's so dependent on it..am thinking if i should wean off or not in the first place. any advice pls?</font>