dolly, I wish I can do that which is unlikely since my hb is not ard most of the time. My MIL also makes false claims to people when she talks to me, especially to her relatives in Taiwan. E.g., told her nicely that if I ever reply to her questions or requests for things to be done her way that I prefer not to, I would appreciate that she accepts and respects my decision instead of repeating and repeating and calling and calling and asking 20times because the answer will not change. She just can't accept no as an answer. So she went round telling pp that I am disrespectful when it was told to her in all politeness so as not to sour the relationship with me giving her another 20 NOs. Hence, I have made a point to my hb that I am not gg back to Taiwan, no matter what. In any case, my hb can't even rem his relatives in Taiwan and prefers that we go there on our own in private if we were to go there for a trip. She knows I totally hate it when she chain calls and she had kinda stopped or rather, trying hard to control, else I can't even sleep at nite.
I accepted the fact that she is like that and give way to her in areas where it doesn't really bother me. Now that she chose to ask questions indirectly by just dropping repeated hints each time she sees me, I just take it as a comment that goes in and out and I will not reply since it's not a question.
I accepted the fact that she is like that and give way to her in areas where it doesn't really bother me. Now that she chose to ask questions indirectly by just dropping repeated hints each time she sees me, I just take it as a comment that goes in and out and I will not reply since it's not a question.
