muffintop - tough decision, ya?
for me, i only told myself to bf for 6mths, coz dat's WHO's recommendation. anything beyond 6mths is a luxury coz to continue bf while working fulltime is very tiring. i feel dat i need a balance - able to spend with hb, spend time with #1, own personal time and space etc. so in order to achieve dat balance, something has to go.
also, i find dat bf-fed bbs can be very 'sticky'. i wan my gals to grow up independent so i tink i wouldn't want to bf them for too long. but this is only my personal view, i'm sure many mummies dun mind the 'stickiness'.
at the end of the day, do wat keeps your sanity. you are not a bad mummy juz becoz you stop bf. do wat you are most comfy with.