the story is too long, so i shall briefly update. full details u all can ask me if need any reference n mr bonbon will post in the blog i guess
1/4 3pm - insert tablet n stay in observation ward 1hr. trsf to room to wait till 830pm for dr adrian break waterbag
845pm - dr adrian came, did VE, then it felt like he tried 4-5times before waterbag break. quite painful for me as his finger had to go v deep and kept knocking on the bones. and he just said "sorry, try 1 more time. some discomfort" then when done, he left and nurse came in to pump medicine into the anus n quite painful cos she poke my skin. when i stood up no water but only some blood on the bedsheets. mr bonbon saw blood in the dustbin n din dare take photo haha. then clear poo and proceed to birth suite. mr bonbon heard dr telling nurse 3cm dilate so anytime 3, 5, 7am possible.
9.15pm - went to delivery suite and drew 1 big tube blood for cord blood donation. nurse also put the needle into the hand to prepare for drip to speed up contractions. from then on, contractions pain felt.
asked nurse about the nitrious oxide gas. intially bearble like super pain menses cramp, till the contractions 1-2min apart and last for 30secs, very unbearble, whole body shaking with pain. gas mask was helpful when breathe in correctly, but when pain was too bad, cannot even control my breathing.
2/4 12.30am - asked nurse how much dilated cos in v bad pain. nurse did VE and said 4cm dilate. almost fainted cos in 3hrs just dilate 1cm! nurse said too tense muscle contract wun dilate fast. decided get Epi. nurse called Dr Wong rec by dr adrian n he needed 45min cos in another surgery. i was thinking.. die.. must endure 45min more n 15min for epi take effect!
lucky dr came early in 25min time, and started administer epi. could still feel pain 1hr later and feedback to nurse, and she up the dosage. from then on, could feel relief! but could still feel pressure from the contractions, but its v small pain like normal cramps only. so nurse put in the tube into the urine place to drain the pee as it could cause pressure as the bladder is full n baby can't move down.
3am - asked nurse how many cm dilate, and she said they try to minimise VE, but she did a check n said 6cm. good, with epi more relax so in 1hr plus can dilate 2cm. both of us fell aslp for a while.
4am - beeping sound in room. mr bonbon check out and "shucks! epi tube empty! medicine finish" then call nurse and she put a new tube.
to be continued..