guys, when I have time I will put together a list of "must bring" and "good to have" stuff. Plus my take on baby on long flights as well as on long roadtrips. Also some tips on US in general.
I brought lots of stuff for baby which turned out to unnecessary really.
A quick glance and I can tell you that
(1) nasal spray
not necessary. In fact what the moms do over here is rub a bit of vasaline around baby nostrils, not inside the nose. It will make its way into baby nose somehow and that will last much longer than any nasal spray. That is what the PDs advise over all. So no need to seperately buy a nasal spray, which dries so rapidly as compared to the much longer lasting effect from vasaline. I just use normal baby friendly body moisturiser.
(2) avene thermal water - not necessary if you already brought along a baby body moisturiser.
(3) calendular cream is useful for me
(4) manual pump instead of bringing the bulky electric pump. In fact latch if you can as it is so much easier. I don't bother to sterilise my pumps/baby utensils etc since I started introducing semi solids. I find it pointless. So no need to bring along pails/sterilising tablets etc. Bring along bottles/cooler bag/icepack if you intend to bottle feed.
(5) go to guardian and buy the cheap adult incontinence liners (labelled as underpads). You get about 10 pieces a pack I think. Super cheap and lightweight. You can use that as diaper mat and each piece folds into virtually nothing.
(6) if you are feeding FM, buy those sample or travel packs instead of bring along a whole tin. bring along a feeding bowl/spoon.
(7) always useful to have baby snacks handy to keep them quiet
I like the geber graduate puffs. Lovely.
(8) not necessary to bring toys. Just one or two if you really must. Reason being our babies are at the stage whereby even a piece of paper or an unopened pack of chips is super duper fun for them to play with. Plus people often end up losing toys on the plane. Also, some airlines have toys available for babies on request. SQ for example. You can also request for bb blanket, nappies, disposable bibs etc on SQ flights. They serve baby food too.
(8) depending on how long you are there for, you can buy diapers there. In the case of USA, the diapers here are a heck of a lot more expensive after currency conversion. So I have resorted to using the cheaper brands here. Thanks to Asura's tips, LUVS is pretty decent so far.
(9) ROADTRIPS - in the USA, please don't join tour groups. It is such a waste to spend so much money and end up seeing and experiencing soooooooooo little. Spend a little more (yes FnE is more exp), rent a vehicle (pls rent it way in advance unless you enjoy paying an arm and leg for one) and plan where you want to go. You need a GPS. Do not rent it from the car rental shops at USD10 a day. Just go to walmart/frys electronics/best buys etc ... pick one that has free return. In the usa, most things can be returned with no questions asked. GARMIN for example, has a 15% restocking fee. So what people do is buy it ... use it throughout their road trips, and then return it and at most they pay USD20+. Compare that to paying car rental companies USD10 a day. BLEAH!
(9) Baby carriers are so valuable on overseas trips. We used our pikkolo everywhere! Impossible to use a stroller in Seoul (cos you walk so much and the subway stations are super stroller unfriendly).
(10) dispoable bibs are lovely. But I don't think it is necessary to buy just for the trip lah. Just bring along a couple of normal ones, esp those that have water proof backing.
(11) I have not used a bassinet before so can't comment on which is better. But I must say I find the empty seat pretty convenient. Reason being if you put baby on the bassinet, you will end up having to carry baby in and out of the bassinet whenever there is turbulence. They have a special infant seat belt. Besides, my baby is too long for the bassinet.
(12) baby toiletries are tons cheaper in the US. So don't bother to bring stuff there. California is kinda strange. when travelling from place to place you can go from scorching hot to freezing cold.
(13) take note that there is a surcharge for every piece of luggage that exceeds 50 pounds (approx 23kg) on the pretext that heavy luggages are more likely to cause injury to their works i.e. higher insurance. Northwest charges USD50 instantly, Cathay is USD25. Strict labour laws here apparently. I think it is just a scam to make money.
(14) in the uSA, baby MUST ALWAYS be in the infant car seat. Rear facing until 12 mths. ALWAYS ALWAYS. So either bring along a cheapo one to use and dump, or buy a cheap one here. I suggest the latter. So cheap here you won't believe it.
(15) baby medication. I bring along infant panadol, cold medi, and cough syrup, as well as the baby forehead quick cooling pads for fevers. Actually these things are much cheaper in the states. Bummer. Cost me so much to buy all these at guardian.
what else? .... hmmmm