(2009/03) March 2009 MTBs
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scrumpee01
Member
In law problems
I think I m quite blessed as I hardly have any inlaw probs..maybe becos I don't stay with them and see them only once a week. But my MIL is generally nice, knows what I like to eat and will cook that occasionally. But in laws being in laws, there are times that they say something that will affect you as they are not your own parents. I still remember 2 occasions.
One is on a week before CNY eve, my mil asked my hubby to remember to go back for reunion dinner on CNY eve then turned to me and asked if I m coming. I was like "Duh!!! of course, I m married to your son", then where else do I go for reunion dinner? I can't be eating at my parent's plc and my hubby comes back to your place right? That instantly made me feel like an outsider. But glad that she only asked that year...didn't ask this stupid qns in subsequent years.
Another occasion is after I gave birth and brought baby to visit them on a usual sun. Baby was lying on the sofa and I was sitting beside him then MIL came along. I then stood up to take something, the moment I stood up, MIL said to my baby, something like "The whole sofa sinks when your mummy was sitting on it". I was pissed when I heard that. YEs, I put on weight but that's becos I just had a baby...
Well...I believe I will be more forgiving if those words were from my mum as I would have taken it as a joke, but when it comes from ILs, ...I will be a bit sensitive.
Riverie
I believe divorce is the last option esp u have a bb. If there is still love bet u and hub, will be such a pity to divorce becos of in laws.
I think I m quite blessed as I hardly have any inlaw probs..maybe becos I don't stay with them and see them only once a week. But my MIL is generally nice, knows what I like to eat and will cook that occasionally. But in laws being in laws, there are times that they say something that will affect you as they are not your own parents. I still remember 2 occasions.
One is on a week before CNY eve, my mil asked my hubby to remember to go back for reunion dinner on CNY eve then turned to me and asked if I m coming. I was like "Duh!!! of course, I m married to your son", then where else do I go for reunion dinner? I can't be eating at my parent's plc and my hubby comes back to your place right? That instantly made me feel like an outsider. But glad that she only asked that year...didn't ask this stupid qns in subsequent years.
Another occasion is after I gave birth and brought baby to visit them on a usual sun. Baby was lying on the sofa and I was sitting beside him then MIL came along. I then stood up to take something, the moment I stood up, MIL said to my baby, something like "The whole sofa sinks when your mummy was sitting on it". I was pissed when I heard that. YEs, I put on weight but that's becos I just had a baby...
Well...I believe I will be more forgiving if those words were from my mum as I would have taken it as a joke, but when it comes from ILs, ...I will be a bit sensitive.
Riverie
I believe divorce is the last option esp u have a bb. If there is still love bet u and hub, will be such a pity to divorce becos of in laws.
strawberrys79
Member
Hi donroxx,
My case is mild as compared to reverie's. But im sure reverie is a strong lady and will be able to resolve this problem with ils.
without having to resort to Divorce. It is not worth it to break up a good marriage just because of ils.
This is exactly my tots and that makes me all the more determined not to let ils or his relative affect my marriage.
I also choose to ignore if my mil come over to nag over how i shld care for my son. I also try to think positively if she wants to spend some time with my son cos' that allows me some 'ME' time. 
it's all in the mindset. trying to change it. no point getting all upset over ils for me. i wanna stay youthful..
Hi teddybaby,
I was a little more plump or rather slightly more fleshy last time before i was married. haha..
But i think they see it as FAT lor.
My case is mild as compared to reverie's. But im sure reverie is a strong lady and will be able to resolve this problem with ils.
This is exactly my tots and that makes me all the more determined not to let ils or his relative affect my marriage.
it's all in the mindset. trying to change it. no point getting all upset over ils for me. i wanna stay youthful.. Hi teddybaby,
I was a little more plump or rather slightly more fleshy last time before i was married. haha..
But i think they see it as FAT lor.
Does anyone have a good babysitter or nanny to recommend ? I am desperately looking for one in Dec 2009 when i go back to work. Pls email me at [email protected] if u have someone to recommend. Thanks!
mickeymummy
New Member
moomooland, vernice,
Im going in Dec.. moomooland, must share with me ur experience, k?
reverie,
I hope you'll work out with ur hubby..You two looked ok the last time when I saw you. I was quite surprised when I read yr post. I feel that if your in laws r the problem, you shld MOVE OUT, not divorce la. Im sure things will improve if you see yr in laws less..
Im going in Dec.. moomooland, must share with me ur experience, k?
reverie,
I hope you'll work out with ur hubby..You two looked ok the last time when I saw you. I was quite surprised when I read yr post. I feel that if your in laws r the problem, you shld MOVE OUT, not divorce la. Im sure things will improve if you see yr in laws less..
ayambunny
Member
reverie,
yar man don hav problems w fil/mil...cos they don sweat over e little stuff whereas for ladies, itz e little stuff tat irk or delight us...we tend to get personal during our conversatn w mil...or some fil...furthermore, the old folks will give us this mentality tat 'i eat salt more than u eat rice' so even if they noe u r rite, they wont openly admit...
alfafa...i ok now lar...itz during my post-confinement period where i clashed w her...when i looked back i realise i was @ fault too...mayb when e words entered into my ears, i don like e sound of it so i reacted vehemently towards it...
jasmin a very poetic prose u crafted...howz u n bb doing?
talk abt something lite...my boi went for a haircut yesterday...now like ah bing gor...my dad not so used to his bb look; preferred e little old man look...haha...
He will b 6mths old tomoro 26 Sep...hhmmm we talk more abt our bbs n chase e blues away har...
Happy weekend momz!
yar man don hav problems w fil/mil...cos they don sweat over e little stuff whereas for ladies, itz e little stuff tat irk or delight us...we tend to get personal during our conversatn w mil...or some fil...furthermore, the old folks will give us this mentality tat 'i eat salt more than u eat rice' so even if they noe u r rite, they wont openly admit...
alfafa...i ok now lar...itz during my post-confinement period where i clashed w her...when i looked back i realise i was @ fault too...mayb when e words entered into my ears, i don like e sound of it so i reacted vehemently towards it...
jasmin a very poetic prose u crafted...howz u n bb doing?
talk abt something lite...my boi went for a haircut yesterday...now like ah bing gor...my dad not so used to his bb look; preferred e little old man look...haha...
He will b 6mths old tomoro 26 Sep...hhmmm we talk more abt our bbs n chase e blues away har...
Happy weekend momz!
missycandy
Active Member
wow. strawberrys if u r fat, i am super OBESE liao...
createjoy
Active Member
URGENT: So sorry to interrupt, anyone has a PC/laptop to spare? willing to rent $100 (laptop) $$70 LCD PC $50 (normal monitor PC) Rental from next wk till end Dec.
I found a job to do at home but my PC spoil, i can't use my hb's laptop as he bring to work oftn! it's a rare opportunity that i can work and look after my boy.. Pls help to ask around. thanks! Pls PM me if found.
I found a job to do at home but my PC spoil, i can't use my hb's laptop as he bring to work oftn! it's a rare opportunity that i can work and look after my boy.. Pls help to ask around. thanks! Pls PM me if found.
precious_janelle
Member
Hi all mummies,
i missed e thread for 2 days and there's so much 2 read! "Hugs Hugs" to those mummies got ILs problems. my advice to you gal, don't tink too much. Just switch off from it. If not it will affect u n hubby in e long run! Tink abt e obstacles tat u n ur hubby had gone through frm wedding till giving birth etc. tink of good memories and ur babies! I'm sure there are a lot of good memories!
i missed e thread for 2 days and there's so much 2 read! "Hugs Hugs" to those mummies got ILs problems. my advice to you gal, don't tink too much. Just switch off from it. If not it will affect u n hubby in e long run! Tink abt e obstacles tat u n ur hubby had gone through frm wedding till giving birth etc. tink of good memories and ur babies! I'm sure there are a lot of good memories!
hi mummies,
kindermusik class tom!
hee am excited, anyone know if we are meeting anywhere earlier or just go direct? which floor in tanglin mall is kindermusik?
must read archive slowly, more busy as a sahm than as a ftwm! oops, bb screaming again (noticed that he's like screaming more and more nowadays, sigh)...gtg!
kindermusik class tom!
must read archive slowly, more busy as a sahm than as a ftwm! oops, bb screaming again (noticed that he's like screaming more and more nowadays, sigh)...gtg!
haha my little one's now on my lap scratching n grabbing at the table while i type single hand haha hee..
quick glance thru today n yest's post.
northvirgo, wow u r really one enduring mum. tink i'll freak out n scream if my mil did tat n opposed all my instructions for my boy. wld b really angry. you really can ren, pei fu!
reverie, sayang dear. your in laws sounds like a nightmare, can't believe the words they said to u, really nasty. dun tink of the big D if u can help it, dear. can feel how dificult it is for u, still it wun help u, ur hb or bb if D. it'll likely hurt all 3 of u most n not ur inlaws. try sit down w ur hb n discuss a solution? can't continue like dis, very unhealthy for u
sayang dear!
gtg again, new target for my little boy, pulling my hair n scratching my chin now, arggfhhhh
hee.. quick glance thru today n yest's post.
northvirgo, wow u r really one enduring mum. tink i'll freak out n scream if my mil did tat n opposed all my instructions for my boy. wld b really angry. you really can ren, pei fu!
reverie, sayang dear. your in laws sounds like a nightmare, can't believe the words they said to u, really nasty. dun tink of the big D if u can help it, dear. can feel how dificult it is for u, still it wun help u, ur hb or bb if D. it'll likely hurt all 3 of u most n not ur inlaws. try sit down w ur hb n discuss a solution? can't continue like dis, very unhealthy for u
gtg again, new target for my little boy, pulling my hair n scratching my chin now, arggfhhhh
strawberry79
yeah your bb wana stay in new house soon hehee
i regretted not moving out earlier before i give birth so spend my 4mths maternity leave in our own love nest. Never expect the environment at il place can drive me crazy. anyway already endure 6mths+ and shall look forward to move out by nov!
yeah your bb wana stay in new house soon hehee
i regretted not moving out earlier before i give birth so spend my 4mths maternity leave in our own love nest. Never expect the environment at il place can drive me crazy. anyway already endure 6mths+ and shall look forward to move out by nov!
strawberrys79
Member
Hi Yuki29,
congrats to u regarding moving to your own nest.
When are u shifting?
Happy for u.
my baby drinks only 60ml per feeding these two days..so worrying. How i wish he can feed normally...haiz..
Dun really like cereal also..just now gave him some honey dew..he will eat and go ...'hmmm...hmmm' very funny
congrats to u regarding moving to your own nest.
When are u shifting?
Happy for u.
my baby drinks only 60ml per feeding these two days..so worrying. How i wish he can feed normally...haiz..
Dun really like cereal also..just now gave him some honey dew..he will eat and go ...'hmmm...hmmm' very funny
Those who attended Gymboree today. Nice meeting mummies, daddies & babies.
Here's the link for the photos on Facebook. Enjoy!
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=146090&id=651408277&saved#/album.php?aid=146090&id=651408277
Here's the link for the photos on Facebook. Enjoy!
http://www.facebook.com/album.php?aid=146090&id=651408277&saved#/album.php?aid=146090&id=651408277
lenny_susanty
Active Member
Hi Mummies,
I might be going MIA till 5th October, reason being my current ISP contract is under my brother's name.. we recontracted but we are assigned for 5th Oct.,. earliest..
will catch up after that.. mummies who have my Hp no.. can sms me for any meet ups ok?
BTW.. i sent in my SOny ericsson Hp for repair.. they told me spare parts will take 2 weeks to arrive.. i am stuck with my samsung spare phone and might not have all the no. of the mummies till i get back my phone.. pardon me if i don't know who u are when i receive your text.
I might be going MIA till 5th October, reason being my current ISP contract is under my brother's name.. we recontracted but we are assigned for 5th Oct.,. earliest..
will catch up after that.. mummies who have my Hp no.. can sms me for any meet ups ok?
BTW.. i sent in my SOny ericsson Hp for repair.. they told me spare parts will take 2 weeks to arrive.. i am stuck with my samsung spare phone and might not have all the no. of the mummies till i get back my phone.. pardon me if i don't know who u are when i receive your text.
strawberry79
thanks!
target to shift in mid Oct. I'm so happy and so looking forward!
if your bb's total milk intake per day is at least 500ml then should be ok cos got take solid now. I only gave my gal one cereal meal per day so most of her intake is milk. Her average milk intake daily is abt 800ml these few days. i think growth spurt huh.
thanks!
if your bb's total milk intake per day is at least 500ml then should be ok cos got take solid now. I only gave my gal one cereal meal per day so most of her intake is milk. Her average milk intake daily is abt 800ml these few days. i think growth spurt huh.
Nice to meet up with mummies at gymboree today.
Jaszho, nice pics taken. All thanks to your hubby. Would like to thank him for taking quite a few pics of my gal hee...
Lenny and Reverie,
u both are strong mummies..do talk things out with hubby. As wat most mummies said..divorce is the last resort. Hope u both can sort your probs soon.. Hugz
Alfafa,
incase I din log in and hv no chance to wish u a safe and happy trip. Enjoy !!
Sung,
Kindermusik is at #03-11B Tanglin Mall
See ya tomorrow!
Jaszho, nice pics taken. All thanks to your hubby. Would like to thank him for taking quite a few pics of my gal hee...
Lenny and Reverie,
u both are strong mummies..do talk things out with hubby. As wat most mummies said..divorce is the last resort. Hope u both can sort your probs soon.. Hugz
Alfafa,
incase I din log in and hv no chance to wish u a safe and happy trip. Enjoy !!
Sung,
Kindermusik is at #03-11B Tanglin Mall
See ya tomorrow!
vellerinababy
New Member
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Thank you for your time!
northvirgo
Member
erm mummies, thanks for your praises. But i think i portrayed a too saintly pic of myself.
It's because i'm afraid of confrontation so therefore i always keep quiet and also my mil is a very headstrong lady. I know no matter what i say, she will not listen cos she has used her method to bring up 2 sons and ain't they doing well? anyway i just close both eyes and leave everything for her to decide now. She's still my girls' grandmama and she will not harm them..
It's because i'm afraid of confrontation so therefore i always keep quiet and also my mil is a very headstrong lady. I know no matter what i say, she will not listen cos she has used her method to bring up 2 sons and ain't they doing well? anyway i just close both eyes and leave everything for her to decide now. She's still my girls' grandmama and she will not harm them..
reverie_island
New Member
Hi dear all mummies
Thank you again for all your listening ears and encouragement. I did tell hubby abt what if we divorce. Well, i was just saying... and i hope of cos not resort to divorce thought i dont deny i thought of it... i hope that things will get back... i told him i am not prepared to have another bb as long as i m staying here... and hope he can "get" us out soon...
I really feel that the forum has really give us alot of support. Thank you so much everyone for sharing...
oh by the way, i saw that sun there is kindermusik class? what time?
hubby is v keen to sign alyssa up for the class. kindermusik called me on fri to say there is a slot on sun at 4pm. we are going. might sign up. anyone signed up or going for the same time as us?
Thank you again for all your listening ears and encouragement. I did tell hubby abt what if we divorce. Well, i was just saying... and i hope of cos not resort to divorce thought i dont deny i thought of it... i hope that things will get back... i told him i am not prepared to have another bb as long as i m staying here... and hope he can "get" us out soon...
I really feel that the forum has really give us alot of support. Thank you so much everyone for sharing...
oh by the way, i saw that sun there is kindermusik class? what time?
hubby is v keen to sign alyssa up for the class. kindermusik called me on fri to say there is a slot on sun at 4pm. we are going. might sign up. anyone signed up or going for the same time as us?
hi mummies,
<font color="ff0000">re: kindermusik trial later this morn 10am (sun)</font>
<font color="ff0000">any mummies want to take over my slot?</font> pls go with your bb later (ohh better post here so that not more than 1 mummy will go just in case). I can't make it with bb later as I having a bad bout of stomachache and diarrhoea, not sure what i ate. Sigh, ls 7 times since 6pm, can't sleep still coz of the pain. Got to see doc later. No need to pay me back, just dun want the place to be wasted.
cc. Missycandy, sorry for late sms, wonder if you know any other mummies keen coz you were organising the trial for us. Pls help, thanks so much! Ohh can give me the contact for Kindermusik as well? I still want to bring bb another day for trial. Thanks muchie!
<font color="ff0000">re: kindermusik trial later this morn 10am (sun)</font>
<font color="ff0000">any mummies want to take over my slot?</font> pls go with your bb later (ohh better post here so that not more than 1 mummy will go just in case). I can't make it with bb later as I having a bad bout of stomachache and diarrhoea, not sure what i ate. Sigh, ls 7 times since 6pm, can't sleep still coz of the pain. Got to see doc later. No need to pay me back, just dun want the place to be wasted.
cc. Missycandy, sorry for late sms, wonder if you know any other mummies keen coz you were organising the trial for us. Pls help, thanks so much! Ohh can give me the contact for Kindermusik as well? I still want to bring bb another day for trial. Thanks muchie!
Alfafa
think regarding mil problems and it's complications... I had in a way chose the avoidance n take it as it comes attitude after so many years... It juz tire me out n made me a less optimistic n less bubbly happy go lucky person. I wan my old me bk!!! So I now trying very very very hard to adapt the " kong zi" saying of not dwelling in the past. Luckily my hubby knows n understand my wk stress n his family so his on my side but he also become more fustrated as he can't get out if it nor change it. So he stress also the more I complain.
Reverie
lead the best h could under yr current situation. Mayb let his parents knows thAt by hving a happy u Yr hubby n kid also happy. Or r they so unhappy wif u that they would prefer u to b fustrated n cause yr hubby n bb unhappiness as well. Do it n say it objectively. Hard to do so keep practicing n mayb get them to change based on luv for their son. There's no way pils will luv us close to their own child! U can also let them know u understand that as a matter if fact but unless they f keen on u divorcing then let this b known to yf hubby n by then he shld know it's his parents n it's time to move out
ivy
I really pei fu u on yr dun talk to mil attitude n still manage to stay together n sane!! Kudos!!!
My mil probs had in a way cease a lot n think my mil also give way more n so I also hv to reciprocrate. I'm a mum n I wouldn't wan the same to happen to me in the future but who knows how posessive I might b ?!! Haha. Tell them u r grateful to them for the things done but certain words n actions they did were offensive n let them know that it's unpleasant n thus do not do it that way. Once no emotion or personal attackwords r said to them they r more receptive n thus hopefully they will start thinking. I once told my mil indirectly that moving out is an option but I'm still staying so that his son hv a easier life n I dun seen as robbing her chance to see her son everyday. So since we both luv the same men then shldnt we try to accomidate each other to make his life better!! Haha me balantly straight n blunt bug that's really how I felt.
I still hv my probs n trust me that mummies who heard abt my probs that it's juz the tip of the iceberg. Those r at most abt 20%. But frankly mummies take it objectively n de IDE for yrself yr option. Most imptlly dun be like an oyster pearl. Pearl comes abt hving external objects introduced but yet unable to plunge it out n thus a pearl created. Isn't this this reason y there r so many cancer patients, tumors this n that. I seek enlightenment in this sense n realize I dun wan to so n so if i can't get out of it I try to seek ways to make it easier but if hubby not supportive then tough I would say so talk abt it n seek a resolution rather than avoidance as it juz builds up.
think regarding mil problems and it's complications... I had in a way chose the avoidance n take it as it comes attitude after so many years... It juz tire me out n made me a less optimistic n less bubbly happy go lucky person. I wan my old me bk!!! So I now trying very very very hard to adapt the " kong zi" saying of not dwelling in the past. Luckily my hubby knows n understand my wk stress n his family so his on my side but he also become more fustrated as he can't get out if it nor change it. So he stress also the more I complain.
Reverie
lead the best h could under yr current situation. Mayb let his parents knows thAt by hving a happy u Yr hubby n kid also happy. Or r they so unhappy wif u that they would prefer u to b fustrated n cause yr hubby n bb unhappiness as well. Do it n say it objectively. Hard to do so keep practicing n mayb get them to change based on luv for their son. There's no way pils will luv us close to their own child! U can also let them know u understand that as a matter if fact but unless they f keen on u divorcing then let this b known to yf hubby n by then he shld know it's his parents n it's time to move out
ivy
I really pei fu u on yr dun talk to mil attitude n still manage to stay together n sane!! Kudos!!!
My mil probs had in a way cease a lot n think my mil also give way more n so I also hv to reciprocrate. I'm a mum n I wouldn't wan the same to happen to me in the future but who knows how posessive I might b ?!! Haha. Tell them u r grateful to them for the things done but certain words n actions they did were offensive n let them know that it's unpleasant n thus do not do it that way. Once no emotion or personal attackwords r said to them they r more receptive n thus hopefully they will start thinking. I once told my mil indirectly that moving out is an option but I'm still staying so that his son hv a easier life n I dun seen as robbing her chance to see her son everyday. So since we both luv the same men then shldnt we try to accomidate each other to make his life better!! Haha me balantly straight n blunt bug that's really how I felt.
I still hv my probs n trust me that mummies who heard abt my probs that it's juz the tip of the iceberg. Those r at most abt 20%. But frankly mummies take it objectively n de IDE for yrself yr option. Most imptlly dun be like an oyster pearl. Pearl comes abt hving external objects introduced but yet unable to plunge it out n thus a pearl created. Isn't this this reason y there r so many cancer patients, tumors this n that. I seek enlightenment in this sense n realize I dun wan to so n so if i can't get out of it I try to seek ways to make it easier but if hubby not supportive then tough I would say so talk abt it n seek a resolution rather than avoidance as it juz builds up.
fatfat_junior
Member
mummies.
anymore gymboree trial class on weekends? would like to join if ve.pls PM me if u remember me...cos i cant log in @ work most of e times.
Thanks
anymore gymboree trial class on weekends? would like to join if ve.pls PM me if u remember me...cos i cant log in @ work most of e times.
Thanks
reverie_island
New Member
dear all
fyi, hubby signed up for the class at kindermusik. every sun 4pm.
fyi, hubby signed up for the class at kindermusik. every sun 4pm.
keronjeris
Member
about MILS :
sometimes i will love her to bits, sometimes i will hate her to the core.. hahahaa!! before i got married, i tried to manage my MIL, she was stubborn in a way but i knew whatever she did, it was for the betterment of the family, that's y i never raised my voice or even quarrelled with her before.. not forgetting that she is the one who brought the man i was madly in love to me too.. now with a bb, i appreciated her even more.. and yes, we do apologised politely to each other too..
sometimes i will love her to bits, sometimes i will hate her to the core.. hahahaa!! before i got married, i tried to manage my MIL, she was stubborn in a way but i knew whatever she did, it was for the betterment of the family, that's y i never raised my voice or even quarrelled with her before.. not forgetting that she is the one who brought the man i was madly in love to me too.. now with a bb, i appreciated her even more.. and yes, we do apologised politely to each other too..
sun96
Active Member
<font color="aa00aa">mummies
MONDAY again...
asura
my boi dun like pumpkin lei... he simply shut his mouth when feeding him... tried again the next day, still the same...
in the end i finished the pumpkin puree... so sweet n tasty, dun noe why my boi dun like it...</font>
MONDAY again...
asura
my boi dun like pumpkin lei... he simply shut his mouth when feeding him... tried again the next day, still the same...
in the end i finished the pumpkin puree... so sweet n tasty, dun noe why my boi dun like it...</font>
sun96
Active Member
asura
yesterday i gave him pear puree n he finished up all... does tat mean he dun like pumpkin?
mummies
most of u already started giving bb puree/cereal, wanna chk whether yr bb's poo color is custard or dark greenish??
re: NAN
any mummies giving yr bb FM-NAN? so far yr bb poo daily?? tot of changing FM coz my gf said her few friends giving NAN, their bb's oso poo 4-5 days or once a wk kind...
not sure mummies giving NAN oso experience tat...
re: FRISO
any mummies giving FRISO?? gd?? heaty??
yesterday i gave him pear puree n he finished up all... does tat mean he dun like pumpkin?
mummies
most of u already started giving bb puree/cereal, wanna chk whether yr bb's poo color is custard or dark greenish??
re: NAN
any mummies giving yr bb FM-NAN? so far yr bb poo daily?? tot of changing FM coz my gf said her few friends giving NAN, their bb's oso poo 4-5 days or once a wk kind...
not sure mummies giving NAN oso experience tat...
re: FRISO
any mummies giving FRISO?? gd?? heaty??
lenny_susanty
Active Member
Hi Mummies,
I received a sms threathening the well being of my family yesterday from the ghost of my past.
apparently, someone here shared with him what i posted all these while in this forum.
i always thought this thread is a place where friendships are developed, where we shared the joys and pains of our lives with other mummies to encourage each other and help each other to pull through.. be it past, present or future.
there are points that i cannot comprehend from his actions:
1. My nick might not be my real name form a general reader thus i don't know how it links to him
2. in my generation, my name is very common among indonesians.. i have been having problems creating log in ID and getting my name as it is for email address due to many lenny susantys in the world.
3. I have never mentioned any names to the persons i have been refering to all these while
I don't know why this person in our forum had sent him many / all the posts that i have written, be it. about my family, about my baby, about my hubby, about my ILs and about my life. wonder why such keen interest about me and updates him about my present.*scratching my head*
As a friend to him, it might be done out of good will. I will not argue and blame this person for her actions. I hope she feels better now that all these is coming back to haunt me again after all the efforts i have done to start a new life. May God Bless her cotton socks
I can only sought the assistance of those who help me thru by keeping me safe during my darkest period of time to stand by just in case things get out of hand.
Haiz...will need to dig out my old handphone, a phone that i kept to remind me of my past.. In the phone, i have stored all the sms of apologies from him for his behaviour to stand by as well.
So much for wanting a peaceful and tranquil life.haiz...
I received a sms threathening the well being of my family yesterday from the ghost of my past.
apparently, someone here shared with him what i posted all these while in this forum.
i always thought this thread is a place where friendships are developed, where we shared the joys and pains of our lives with other mummies to encourage each other and help each other to pull through.. be it past, present or future.
there are points that i cannot comprehend from his actions:
1. My nick might not be my real name form a general reader thus i don't know how it links to him
2. in my generation, my name is very common among indonesians.. i have been having problems creating log in ID and getting my name as it is for email address due to many lenny susantys in the world.
3. I have never mentioned any names to the persons i have been refering to all these while
I don't know why this person in our forum had sent him many / all the posts that i have written, be it. about my family, about my baby, about my hubby, about my ILs and about my life. wonder why such keen interest about me and updates him about my present.*scratching my head*
As a friend to him, it might be done out of good will. I will not argue and blame this person for her actions. I hope she feels better now that all these is coming back to haunt me again after all the efforts i have done to start a new life. May God Bless her cotton socks
I can only sought the assistance of those who help me thru by keeping me safe during my darkest period of time to stand by just in case things get out of hand.
Haiz...will need to dig out my old handphone, a phone that i kept to remind me of my past.. In the phone, i have stored all the sms of apologies from him for his behaviour to stand by as well.
So much for wanting a peaceful and tranquil life.haiz...
lenny,
so sorry to hear that you have such a kpo fren. There is always such stalkers in the virtual world. Hope everything will be fine for you.
sun,
try mixing with cereal?
I tried peach puree with baby yesterday and he din like it too...after 20mins of trying, i gave up. I went to mix his Frisocream with the peach puree and he finish up 1 big bowl. haha..
so sorry to hear that you have such a kpo fren. There is always such stalkers in the virtual world. Hope everything will be fine for you.
sun,
try mixing with cereal?
I tried peach puree with baby yesterday and he din like it too...after 20mins of trying, i gave up. I went to mix his Frisocream with the peach puree and he finish up 1 big bowl. haha..
northvirgo
Member
Hi Sunshinebaby, my girls are drinking Friso. Find it ok, not too heaty but sometimes there will be lots of bubbles after shaking it.
lenny_susanty
Active Member
mummies,
any recommendagtion of vegetable to feed as compliment to Sweet potato?
for example.. if i feed 1 - 2 tsp of sweet potato, i would like to add another 15ml of vege.. any recommendation apart from carrots?
I read that sweet peas are recommended but.. at the weaning talk.. asian babies are adviced to start on legumes only after bb reach 8th mth.
Thanks in advance.
any recommendagtion of vegetable to feed as compliment to Sweet potato?
for example.. if i feed 1 - 2 tsp of sweet potato, i would like to add another 15ml of vege.. any recommendation apart from carrots?
I read that sweet peas are recommended but.. at the weaning talk.. asian babies are adviced to start on legumes only after bb reach 8th mth.
Thanks in advance.
sunshinebaby
My boy has been taking Friso 1 and now Friso 2. Don't find it heaty but like northvirgo mentioned, will have lots of bubbles even though I only swirl from side to side.
Lenny
Sorry to hear about that. In this virtual world, anyone is able to just do a search and find out the links that you have visited, the messages that you have posted. Hence, it's important to only post stuff you are comfortable with sharing with others or rather those who have ill intention to stalk you. Hope things will be back to normal and you can lead a peacefu life.
My boy has been taking Friso 1 and now Friso 2. Don't find it heaty but like northvirgo mentioned, will have lots of bubbles even though I only swirl from side to side.
Lenny
Sorry to hear about that. In this virtual world, anyone is able to just do a search and find out the links that you have visited, the messages that you have posted. Hence, it's important to only post stuff you are comfortable with sharing with others or rather those who have ill intention to stalk you. Hope things will be back to normal and you can lead a peacefu life.
re: feeding of solid
wonder is the timing or its me or its SH ... so hard to feed solid =p i dun rem my #1 as so hard to feed oso or that time i more 'siao on' so anything irritating was considered fun hahahahah
anyway ... brought SH for his 1st wedding yest ... he had fun rolling on the couple's bed but behaved badly at the dinner ... think he was tired and hungry but yet super distracted ... so when I use the nursing cover to latch him on ... he keep looking around INSIDE the cover and tried to push the cover away *faint*
anyway my #1 was super funny ... cos he was tasked to roll on the bed + pee into the urina ... so i told him that he need to help the couple cos they wan to have a bb
he v ONz ... after he pee ... he kept asking me the whole day ... 'mummy, aunty and uncle marry already ... are they staying the hotel to take out the baby??'
wonder is the timing or its me or its SH ... so hard to feed solid =p i dun rem my #1 as so hard to feed oso or that time i more 'siao on' so anything irritating was considered fun hahahahah
anyway ... brought SH for his 1st wedding yest ... he had fun rolling on the couple's bed but behaved badly at the dinner ... think he was tired and hungry but yet super distracted ... so when I use the nursing cover to latch him on ... he keep looking around INSIDE the cover and tried to push the cover away *faint*
anyway my #1 was super funny ... cos he was tasked to roll on the bed + pee into the urina ... so i told him that he need to help the couple cos they wan to have a bb
he v ONz ... after he pee ... he kept asking me the whole day ... 'mummy, aunty and uncle marry already ... are they staying the hotel to take out the baby??'
scrumpee01
Member
Lenny
Oh dear...I hope things will turn out well for you. I have also learnt it the hard way..esp things I post on online platforms.
Oh dear...I hope things will turn out well for you. I have also learnt it the hard way..esp things I post on online platforms.
sun96
Active Member
jasmin, northvirgo
yr bb poo daily? or more than once daily?
jasmin
a lot of bubbles huh... did u burp yr bb aft every feed? so far, NAN not much bubbles...
seabreeze
my boi oso enjoy fliping on my sis's bed last sat... i so scare he'll be cranky as he woke up quite early on sat...
yr bb poo daily? or more than once daily?
jasmin
a lot of bubbles huh... did u burp yr bb aft every feed? so far, NAN not much bubbles...
seabreeze
my boi oso enjoy fliping on my sis's bed last sat... i so scare he'll be cranky as he woke up quite early on sat...