Queenie, Kome,
Actually for my #1, I bathed the baby myself from the day we were discharged from hospital. My mum did my confinement for me but she was afraid of handling "fragile baby". Haha. So, I just do on my own. You can avoid carrying heavy bathtub with water by placing bathtub on a stable stool in the toilet and filling up the tub with shower head or something.
Kome,
Every now and then, I do feel urine urgency but not much output. Ya, think baby pressing on bladder, hence the feeling.
Vernice,
I get those heavy discharge as well. I think it is normal. It is only not normal if there is odour from the discharge or if the colour is strange.