asura,
my hubby is also against getting 2nd hand pump due to hygiene reasons. my sis said that i can tell my family members wat i need and they can subsidize the cost... guess that's one good thing about having a big family. i have 6 other siblings while my hubby only has one sister.
sharon,
we have checked with the french embassy when we got married. our child will have double citizenship till he/she reaches 18, then he/she got to choose sg or french citizenship. this is bcos sg doesn't allow dual citizenship after the child reaches 18. however, things may change. according to the embassy, u never know in 18 years time whether sg will allow multiple citizenship due to so many inter-racial marriages. i suggest u check with the sg embassy in korea. probably ur child will be able to obtain dual citizenship also. a friend of mine married a taiwanese who is also an american. now they have 4 children, 2 gals and 2 boys, n all 4 of them have 3 citizenships.
pinksorbet,
i feel that even if u r employing CL, it is still good to go for antenatal class cos u will be the one looking after the baby after CL leaves.