wishaboy,
i heard a saying that " to be a couple (husband and wife) is a reward of a thousand years of doing good but for family, Its 100 yrs. i don;t know how to say it proper in chinese la.
Bai shi xiu lai gong ______, Qian Shi Xiu lai Gong Zhen Mian.
although i am not a typical cheena type, i really believe that if a couple is really not meant for each other, they will split eventually so we as humans should never interfere in ying yuan. so no matter what happens, one should never break up a couple cos its punishable by heavens