3mth milestone:
Went PD yesterday. Bb is now 3mth 1week and 4 days old. Weight is 5.662kg, height at 59cm and head circumference is 40cm. She is drinking between 100ml to 140ml (depending on her mood and the taste of BM being offered) at 4+ hr interval, and at nite can slp 6hr straight before a feed at 5am. No fever to date, unlike the 1st jab.
jab when bb is sick:
PD said it is ok for bb to have slight cough and still take her jab. as long as no fever. No need to take med as bb is too young. He preferred bb to recover naturally. Supposedly will take a few days.
Intake of milk:
my bb isnt even hitting 800ml per day. Her daily milk intake is now 100ml x 7 times only. she even lost weight in the past 1 week becos of her cough and slight fever, no thx from my dad's virus. PD assured me that bb will drink when they are hungary and it is normal for bb to refuse the normal amt of milk being offered from time to time. just let them drink as much as they wanted and wait out this period.
bb recognising caretaker:
I believe this is true that bb recognise caretaker. I went back to work on Monday and bb drank much lesser than her usual milk intake until MIL called me as she is worried abt bb. Today I did not work to take care of bb just in case she has fever after jab. I found that bb is feeding quite well, can even drink up to 140ml each time! My dad commented that bb wants her mum to feed her tats why she is always looking forward to evening time when mummy is back. Naturally it broke my heart to see bb losing weight and being like this.
caretaker problem:
my mil also urging from time to time to give bb FM as "You dun have enough BM" and "nvm if bb dun have enough to drink, we can always take a taxi to to your eldest aunt's (my eldest SIL) there to drink!" and "Why u did not give bb water to drink?" when I am BF-ing bb. headache. Made me have a greater desire to be a SAHM so that I can do things my way.
I used to trust and juz follow the advises given by the seniors like the CL, MIL, aunts,my parents regarding taking care of bb. But after my encounter with the fake CL and the too many contrasting care points given to me, I now consider each point very carefully before applying to my bb. And those that are simply stupid advices like applying oil to bb's gum, I'll just walk away from those ppl offering them.
offering of cereals to bb:
my PD yesterday advised us to give bb cereals starting 4th mth in the belief that bb will have lesser allegies if intro to cereals and food at earlier stage. We'll see how things go then. starting to research on organic cereals soon as both hb and I are pro-organic.
separation from bb:
haiz. I cried myself to slp 1 week before starting work and now that I'd started work, I'd been trying to concentrate on work so that I wont miss bb. Then faster rush home at 6.15pm to hug her. Not easy woah. heart still pain pain when I kiss bb goodbye everymorning. Today me very happy cos I with bb at home
sandy:
my bb also refused NUK teats. my hb said most prob the flow is too slow for bb and as she is quite impatient she will be in a bad mood after trying to suck in vail. Bb is quite alrite with Avent teats to date. We'll try to reintroduce NUK teat to bb soon, this time using a bigger teat.
the simz:
my hb is the pro-mum type one. he has a tendency to listen to wat his mum says over what I has got to say. divorce is not the way out. if it is, I'll have divorced hb thousand and one times liao! you'll need to sit down and voice out your views really diplomatically and at the rite time to hb. it is easy to get married but it takes tons of commitments to work the marrige out. sometimes for bb's sake, we really need to open 1 eye and close the other. Sometimes I have both eyes tightly SHUT!
I feel having a 2nd bb wont help to resolve the issues. Maybe things will be worse as there is another terror in the mist!
As long as the subject in concern is regarding dealing with a human, there will always be conflicts as everyone has their own viewpoints and not easy to compromise with each other. Otherwise there wont be the AWARE sega liao.
olively:
HAHAHAHHAA ... u are so funny! Still got drumroll one
Think I'll go kiddy palace to buy the things
jas:
pigeon warmer ok for Avent btl.
Zekevon:
Welcome aboard!
Btw u sure ur bb wont mind u posting up the "RA" photo of hers? hahahahaaa! Just kidding lah
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