Father in law said the following to me for the past weeks:
1) Cannot cut baby's hair cos the skull is still soft.
However, few weeks later, he dreamt that my bb has botak head. So ask me to bring bb for a hair cut. After the hair cut, he was a bit 'bu shuan' asked me why didn't shaved all the hair? &^%$#!@
2) Cannot have the fan faced directly at bb cos wind will enter the body.
I saw him fanning my bb using the newspaper. ^#%@&!*$
3) Cannot let baby have tummy time
He kept telling me that bb loves to be on the tummy! &&*#^@&%#@
4) Cannot let baby be on the tummy lest bb knows how to crawl. He commented the later the bb learn how to crawl, the better. (Ignorant man!!!!)
5) Cannot bring baby out cos viruses are everywhere!
This is the last straw! Bb was down with viral infection and he accused me of bringing bb out!! I didn't bring bb out except to his house. and his house is full of relatives visiting my grand mother in law.
This is driving me crazy!! I love my mother in law.. but my father in law, who is not the care giver, is driving me crazy!!! Kept playing with bb and don't allow him to sleep. Almost every other night I have to bring home a over-simulated bb!
I was suggesting to hubby that we file a divorce, just cohabitation will do.
All mothers... if you were me, what will you do??? Am I over-reacting? I felt so angry that I can't even do what I want with MY baby. He thought he fathered the baby?
1) Cannot cut baby's hair cos the skull is still soft.
However, few weeks later, he dreamt that my bb has botak head. So ask me to bring bb for a hair cut. After the hair cut, he was a bit 'bu shuan' asked me why didn't shaved all the hair? &^%$#!@
2) Cannot have the fan faced directly at bb cos wind will enter the body.
I saw him fanning my bb using the newspaper. ^#%@&!*$
3) Cannot let baby have tummy time
He kept telling me that bb loves to be on the tummy! &&*#^@&%#@
4) Cannot let baby be on the tummy lest bb knows how to crawl. He commented the later the bb learn how to crawl, the better. (Ignorant man!!!!)
5) Cannot bring baby out cos viruses are everywhere!
This is the last straw! Bb was down with viral infection and he accused me of bringing bb out!! I didn't bring bb out except to his house. and his house is full of relatives visiting my grand mother in law.
This is driving me crazy!! I love my mother in law.. but my father in law, who is not the care giver, is driving me crazy!!! Kept playing with bb and don't allow him to sleep. Almost every other night I have to bring home a over-simulated bb!
I was suggesting to hubby that we file a divorce, just cohabitation will do.
All mothers... if you were me, what will you do??? Am I over-reacting? I felt so angry that I can't even do what I want with MY baby. He thought he fathered the baby?