peachmomo & sheepish:
yes, i also trust myself better than anyone with my bb. But I must understand that I also need to rely on family members to take care of him while i go to work/ run errands.
As a first time Mum, i guess we tend to be more protective & have a higher expectation of what we want to do with our bbs.
I am actually having emotional struggles every now and then. I live with many elders - PIL and Grand PIL. And my Mum comes over in the day to help take care of my bb (cos i dun want to travel to her hse after work, too far and tiring & it's a long story too..) And each of them have their own style and theory of taking care of babies. There's many different comments and views "floating" in the house. Sometimes i really feel very :S but I can only choose to 1 ear in and 1 ear out, in order to "preserve the unity" of the house, as requested by my hubby.
Sometimes I also like Peachmomo, become very "HOT" with certain ways and comments they want me to deal with the BB. But I have to REN..... I can be very rebellious at times, in the sense, u ask me to do this way, I dun like it, I dun do it. So i buay song inside, i keep quiet, but i show a black face.
But then again, all of them meant well. All on them dote on this first and only great grandson. All of them treat me very well too. That's y I also feel guilty. So I m going through a lot of this type of emotional struggles every other day.
*Angry-sian-tired-guitly.Angry-sian-tired-guitly*
And I also dun like pple to alwaz comment comment comment... i feel it's very naggy. Then again, I can only choose to 1 ear in and 1 ear out...
I told my Hubby, if no accident, our #2 will need to wait until our flat is ready... I really need some alot of "personal space".