hahaha ... rachel,
no lar .. still love the man and spending time with him .. but this kinda thing not his strong point .. so I make sure he does other things with our girls like taking them swimming, cycling, walking ... even my eldest girl has a project, I pretend dunno how to do so he quickly takes charge and helps her with it lor.
hahaha. I find that you must find their strong points and capitalize on that.
So I have a maid to help me with the rest. Works out fine. I don't feel resentful that he doesn't help me pack the going out bag etc. lol. Best thing I ever did, getting a maid.