(2008/12) December 2008 MTBs
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shirley_ang20
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mine oso 2 Dec 2008 =)
Hi
Sorry To interuppt, am having a BP on Badger Balms
Please take a look in this thread:
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/1322867.html?1206803120
Sorry To interuppt, am having a BP on Badger Balms
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/1322867.html?1206803120
shirley_ang20
New Member
Thanks bunni. =D Yeah, this my 1st pregnancy. How abt urs?
Hi All,
Congrats to all Ladies here!!
Bunnipet & Shirley, so nice to share the same EDD as you girls! I'm sure we'll have lots to share in our amazing journey
This is my 2nd pregnancy and the 1st ended at 10.5 weeks in Dec 07, it was a blighted ovum so I had a natural miscarriage.
So you can imagine my feelings now, a mixture of happiness and worries. My doctor appointment is scheduled for 08Apr as my gynae is currently on vacation.
Hey any of you ladies have experience with Dr. Yvonne Chan at TMC? Heard she is very caring and nice.
Congrats to all Ladies here!!
Bunnipet & Shirley, so nice to share the same EDD as you girls! I'm sure we'll have lots to share in our amazing journey
This is my 2nd pregnancy and the 1st ended at 10.5 weeks in Dec 07, it was a blighted ovum so I had a natural miscarriage.
So you can imagine my feelings now, a mixture of happiness and worries. My doctor appointment is scheduled for 08Apr as my gynae is currently on vacation.
Hey any of you ladies have experience with Dr. Yvonne Chan at TMC? Heard she is very caring and nice.
poohbaby1223
New Member
to all dec08 mtbs, congratulations!! I'm from dec07 mtb thread, so fast liao, 1 yr ago, I have the same feelings like most of u mtbs here, enjoy the pregnancy, ya?
poohbaby1223
New Member
LuthAdel,
No prob, hehe! Being a new mum is now more enjoyable cos my bb is coming to 4 mths, he already start to laff, baby talk, flip, sleep thru the nites, etc. though may have to attend to bb most of the time if bb sick or cranky, but nevertheless, this is the going-thru journey,
.
If you will ask me what i missed most during the pregnancy, i think it will be my bb's kicking inside my tummy ahha!
No prob, hehe! Being a new mum is now more enjoyable cos my bb is coming to 4 mths, he already start to laff, baby talk, flip, sleep thru the nites, etc. though may have to attend to bb most of the time if bb sick or cranky, but nevertheless, this is the going-thru journey,
. If you will ask me what i missed most during the pregnancy, i think it will be my bb's kicking inside my tummy ahha!
Hi Linda..
thanks for the encouragement!! Wow.. 4 months is cute. Can start weaning already rite? I love to play with my niece and nephew when they were that age!!
LuthAdel: sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
I also had a miscarriage last year in April. So after almost a year of trying, finally managed to conceive. Definitely understand your feelings.
I am with NUH. My scan scheduled only on 14/04. My mum wanted the hospital near her place. Though Thomson is nearer to mine.
Shirley: what about you? Have you made an appt with your gyne?
What are the signs and symptoms that you guys are having now? I am having cramping and keep waking up in the night!!
thanks for the encouragement!! Wow.. 4 months is cute. Can start weaning already rite? I love to play with my niece and nephew when they were that age!!
LuthAdel: sorry to hear about your miscarriage.
I also had a miscarriage last year in April. So after almost a year of trying, finally managed to conceive. Definitely understand your feelings.
I am with NUH. My scan scheduled only on 14/04. My mum wanted the hospital near her place. Though Thomson is nearer to mine.
Shirley: what about you? Have you made an appt with your gyne?
What are the signs and symptoms that you guys are having now? I am having cramping and keep waking up in the night!!
poohbaby1223
New Member
Hi bunnipet,
I only intend to wean him off when he is 6mth old. cos i read from the article that a bb shld be on solid from 6mth onwards. The nutrients from the milk is sufficient for the bb till 6mths.
It's normal to have cramping, i used to have that too when i just got pregnant,
I only intend to wean him off when he is 6mth old. cos i read from the article that a bb shld be on solid from 6mth onwards. The nutrients from the milk is sufficient for the bb till 6mths.
It's normal to have cramping, i used to have that too when i just got pregnant,
Hi Bunnipet
I'm currently with Dr. Kee from Thomson Medical as he also has a clinic at Jurong Point that start at 7pm. So that kind of work well for me as I don't have to take leave for checkups.
Well, my symptoms are :
1. Gas & Burps....man thats the worst & most embarassing!
2. Cramps. Mine is more like a specific spot, sometimes more to the right and sometimes left
3. Sore breast, although my right is more painful than the left
4. Get hungry really fast
What about yours?
I'm currently with Dr. Kee from Thomson Medical as he also has a clinic at Jurong Point that start at 7pm. So that kind of work well for me as I don't have to take leave for checkups.
Well, my symptoms are :
1. Gas & Burps....man thats the worst & most embarassing!
2. Cramps. Mine is more like a specific spot, sometimes more to the right and sometimes left
3. Sore breast, although my right is more painful than the left
4. Get hungry really fast
What about yours?
shirley_ang20
New Member
Hi Bunnipet,
I will be seeing my gyane on 14/4 at KKH but my HB tot of changing to TMC cos nearer to our hse.
LuthAdel,
My symptoms is almost the same as urs. haha.. my the gas in my stomach makes me feel nausea sometimes.. haiz..
I will be seeing my gyane on 14/4 at KKH but my HB tot of changing to TMC cos nearer to our hse.
LuthAdel,
My symptoms is almost the same as urs. haha.. my the gas in my stomach makes me feel nausea sometimes.. haiz..
cutienottikitty
Active Member
hey ladies... just popped by to see..doubt i'll be joining u lucky ladies anytime soon...
anyway, if u feel like gastric juice coming up or just feel really bad and wants to puke... a solution is to take a piece of plain bread... cos the soda in the bread will neutralise the acid and the bread itself will soak up the juice... so even if u vomit... u will not hurt ur throat and teeth with the acid... but most of the time...it will calm ur stomach down...
also, 3 cheers for having MS...cos it means that ur body is producing lots of hormones... very stable pregnancy...
so enjoy ur pregnancy ladies!! I envy all of u!!!
anyway, if u feel like gastric juice coming up or just feel really bad and wants to puke... a solution is to take a piece of plain bread... cos the soda in the bread will neutralise the acid and the bread itself will soak up the juice... so even if u vomit... u will not hurt ur throat and teeth with the acid... but most of the time...it will calm ur stomach down...
also, 3 cheers for having MS...cos it means that ur body is producing lots of hormones... very stable pregnancy...
so enjoy ur pregnancy ladies!! I envy all of u!!!
Hi LuthAdel and Shirley...
I do not really have craving but like what LuthAdel said, somewhat get hungry easily especially in the night and early morning. Worse thing is I keep wanting to eat instant noodle which my hubby barred!
I dun feel bloated. But I do feel as though my tummy is very heavy. Fortunately, I just happened to take leave these two weeks. So trying to rest also, partly cos of the 1st pregnancy scare.
I happened to work in labor intensive place coupled with radiological stuff. So good to keep away also!!
I do not really have craving but like what LuthAdel said, somewhat get hungry easily especially in the night and early morning. Worse thing is I keep wanting to eat instant noodle which my hubby barred!
I dun feel bloated. But I do feel as though my tummy is very heavy. Fortunately, I just happened to take leave these two weeks. So trying to rest also, partly cos of the 1st pregnancy scare.
I happened to work in labor intensive place coupled with radiological stuff. So good to keep away also!!
Hi Girls,
I just miss my period for a day or two. Just tried the commercially available test kit and it is positive. Don't want to get my hopes too high yet, cos I read about chemical pregnancy.
I would like to find out from you, when is a more appropriate time to test?
When should I engage a gyne?
Should I go to the gyne to test or any GP will do?
Cross my fingers.
I just miss my period for a day or two. Just tried the commercially available test kit and it is positive. Don't want to get my hopes too high yet, cos I read about chemical pregnancy.
I would like to find out from you, when is a more appropriate time to test?
When should I engage a gyne?
Should I go to the gyne to test or any GP will do?
Cross my fingers.
Hi Katherine and Seasons!!
Congrats!!! I think most commercial HPT is accurate
as one day of missed period if you are a regular.
Typicall gyne would see you on 6th week of pregnancy and do a scan for you. To check your pregnancy week, you could use an online pregnancy calculator. Meanwhile, do start on folic acid. You can get this over the counter in most pharmacy. The cheapest is at NTUC unity. They are selling 100 tablet for less than $3.00.
Welcome aboard!
Congrats!!! I think most commercial HPT is accurate
as one day of missed period if you are a regular.
Typicall gyne would see you on 6th week of pregnancy and do a scan for you. To check your pregnancy week, you could use an online pregnancy calculator. Meanwhile, do start on folic acid. You can get this over the counter in most pharmacy. The cheapest is at NTUC unity. They are selling 100 tablet for less than $3.00.
Welcome aboard!
Hi Katherine & Seasons,
Congrats & Welcome !!!!
Haha, good tip Bunnipet! I did not know that I could buy folic acid over the counter. Should get myself some rather than getting from the Gynae.
This morning I was trying to put on my pants and realised that I cannot button !!!!! Shit, so fast my tummy is popping inches. Anyone of you have the same problem?
Congrats & Welcome !!!!
Haha, good tip Bunnipet! I did not know that I could buy folic acid over the counter. Should get myself some rather than getting from the Gynae.
This morning I was trying to put on my pants and realised that I cannot button !!!!! Shit, so fast my tummy is popping inches. Anyone of you have the same problem?
princess_j
Member
hi mummies,
I'm from april thread. hv xtra desitin cream (creamy) to let go. email mi if interested.
[email protected]
I'm from april thread. hv xtra desitin cream (creamy) to let go. email mi if interested.
[email protected]
blessedbaby
New Member
Hi mummies & MTB,
I am a mum from Jan 08 thread. I have a Medela DUAL breastpump Mini Electric Plus for sale. I only used it for 1 time as i decided to be a full time mum and will let my bb latch on directly.
I still have unfilled warranty card, which you can fill it by yourself and send it back to Medela in S'pore. I bought this pump in Dec 07, and gave brith in Jan 08. In excellent consition.
Picture of the breastpump: http://www.medela.com/ISBD/breastfeeding/products/plus.php
Price: S$200 (brand-new is selling at S$305.90 at major department store and Mothercare). I can come with free gift too (Medela Purelan 100 & Infrared Thermometer 4 in 1)
Pls PM me if you are interested.
Thanks
I am a mum from Jan 08 thread. I have a Medela DUAL breastpump Mini Electric Plus for sale. I only used it for 1 time as i decided to be a full time mum and will let my bb latch on directly.
I still have unfilled warranty card, which you can fill it by yourself and send it back to Medela in S'pore. I bought this pump in Dec 07, and gave brith in Jan 08. In excellent consition.
Picture of the breastpump: http://www.medela.com/ISBD/breastfeeding/products/plus.php
Price: S$200 (brand-new is selling at S$305.90 at major department store and Mothercare). I can come with free gift too (Medela Purelan 100 & Infrared Thermometer 4 in 1)
Pls PM me if you are interested.
Thanks
LuthAdel:
I also felt that my jeans were somewhat tighter. So swap to wear dresses and skirts these few days. I dun really see a tummy popping out but feel that my lower abdomen is very heavy.
Anyways, went to Mothercare to buy extender (hehe!) so that I can still wear my fav jeans. I am a jeans person. They cost around $30ish for 4 pieces of belt and 3 pieces of cloths.
Today, not sure why, but dun have the appetite. Just drank milk for lunch. No nausea / vomitting.
Beginning to have more and more aversion to food.
Anybody have different signs and symptoms than the usual?
I also felt that my jeans were somewhat tighter. So swap to wear dresses and skirts these few days. I dun really see a tummy popping out but feel that my lower abdomen is very heavy.
Anyways, went to Mothercare to buy extender (hehe!) so that I can still wear my fav jeans. I am a jeans person. They cost around $30ish for 4 pieces of belt and 3 pieces of cloths.
Today, not sure why, but dun have the appetite. Just drank milk for lunch. No nausea / vomitting.
Beginning to have more and more aversion to food.
Anybody have different signs and symptoms than the usual?
Hi Ladies,
I'm from the Feb 08 MTBs thread... I have the following for sale...
1) PIS Advanced
I bought my PIS Advanced on 20th Feb 2008, only use for a month plus. It's as good as new. Never use the backpack before, zips are still wrapped. The set also comes with an equipment that can convert it to manual pump, it is not used at all.
I'll be throwing in the following items if you get from me.
- 1 box of Medela disposable bra pads (30pcs)
- 1 box of Medela breastmilk bags (20pcs)
- 1 Nuk latex vented teat (0-6months)
- 1 tube of Medela PureLan 100 (ony used 2-3 times, as good as brand new)
- 1 $10 voucher valid till 20 May 2008 (min purchase of $50)
2) Pigeon Manual Breastpump (brand new)
3) 2 boxes of Pigeon Disposable Breastpad (36+6pcs)
4) Pigeon Silicone Nipple Shield (brand new)
5) Pigeon Nipple Puller (brand new)
6) Pigeon Breast Care Gel (brand new)
7) Pigeon Body and Stretch Mark Cream (brand new)
8) New Mama Bottom Spray (brand new)
9) Klorane powder shampoo (brand new)
Email me at [email protected] if anyone is interested. Thanks.
I'm from the Feb 08 MTBs thread... I have the following for sale...
1) PIS Advanced
I bought my PIS Advanced on 20th Feb 2008, only use for a month plus. It's as good as new. Never use the backpack before, zips are still wrapped. The set also comes with an equipment that can convert it to manual pump, it is not used at all.
I'll be throwing in the following items if you get from me.
- 1 box of Medela disposable bra pads (30pcs)
- 1 box of Medela breastmilk bags (20pcs)
- 1 Nuk latex vented teat (0-6months)
- 1 tube of Medela PureLan 100 (ony used 2-3 times, as good as brand new)
- 1 $10 voucher valid till 20 May 2008 (min purchase of $50)
2) Pigeon Manual Breastpump (brand new)
3) 2 boxes of Pigeon Disposable Breastpad (36+6pcs)
4) Pigeon Silicone Nipple Shield (brand new)
5) Pigeon Nipple Puller (brand new)
6) Pigeon Breast Care Gel (brand new)
7) Pigeon Body and Stretch Mark Cream (brand new)
8) New Mama Bottom Spray (brand new)
9) Klorane powder shampoo (brand new)
Email me at [email protected] if anyone is interested. Thanks.
hee....seasons.....I think the test pretty accurate. My hubby not convinced about the clear blue test results and I went to get the doc's confirmation. Seem pretty accurate. Dunno if it is psychological or what. I kept going to the washroom and feel hungry and bloated easily nowadays. So pants a bit tighter.
Thank you bunnipet. My last period in 29 Apr. the doc told me I am 4.5 weeks but the online told me I am in the 4th week. Any good gyne to recommend? Anyone heard anything about Dr Yeoh Swee Choo from Mt E?
Thank you bunnipet. My last period in 29 Apr. the doc told me I am 4.5 weeks but the online told me I am in the 4th week. Any good gyne to recommend? Anyone heard anything about Dr Yeoh Swee Choo from Mt E?
Hi Katherine..
Congratulations!! Sounds like you have similar signs and symptoms with some of us. So dun worry about it. Enjoy the pregnancy!! Mum told me to eat more before the morning sickness sets in like in week 6-8.
Your last period is 29 Feb is it? http://www.intmed.mcw.edu/clincalc/pregnancy.html
Based on this website, you are 4 weeks and 6 days today. Sounds about there huh?
I am not sure about that gyne. Maybe can check what other people say in this forum. I am with NUH. Used to be with raffles (Dr Tony Tan). I found his explanations very good but his rates pretty ex. First consult was like $200. Saw him a couple of times when seeking for second opinion.
Congratulations!! Sounds like you have similar signs and symptoms with some of us. So dun worry about it. Enjoy the pregnancy!! Mum told me to eat more before the morning sickness sets in like in week 6-8.
Your last period is 29 Feb is it? http://www.intmed.mcw.edu/clincalc/pregnancy.html
Based on this website, you are 4 weeks and 6 days today. Sounds about there huh?
I am not sure about that gyne. Maybe can check what other people say in this forum. I am with NUH. Used to be with raffles (Dr Tony Tan). I found his explanations very good but his rates pretty ex. First consult was like $200. Saw him a couple of times when seeking for second opinion.
Hi Ladies,
So excited to update. Went for my 1st check up to with Dr. Yvonne Chan at TMC, my goodness, she is so gentle & caring that both my husband and I felt so at ease. Will definitely stick to her for my pregnancy.
Anyway, had our scan and based on calculation, I should be around 5wks3days and should only see a sac. Guess what, we saw the gestational sac with a nice round yolk sac in it!!
Katherine,
If you are keen, try Dr. Yvonne Chan. I had a v-scan today and it felt nothing! The previous 2 gynae that I went to was so rough that I had to "ouch" outloud when they put the scan in.
I will be seeing Dr. Yvonne Chan in 2 wks time and hopefully, my baby will grow as schedule
So excited to update. Went for my 1st check up to with Dr. Yvonne Chan at TMC, my goodness, she is so gentle & caring that both my husband and I felt so at ease. Will definitely stick to her for my pregnancy.
Anyway, had our scan and based on calculation, I should be around 5wks3days and should only see a sac. Guess what, we saw the gestational sac with a nice round yolk sac in it!!
Katherine,
If you are keen, try Dr. Yvonne Chan. I had a v-scan today and it felt nothing! The previous 2 gynae that I went to was so rough that I had to "ouch" outloud when they put the scan in.
I will be seeing Dr. Yvonne Chan in 2 wks time and hopefully, my baby will grow as schedule
teragram
Active Member
Hi LuthAdel,
First of all, congrats on your pregnancy! I'm from the June 08 thread and was just looking at the other threads when I saw ur post.
Just wanted to tell u that you are in safe hands with Dr Chan cos I am also seeing her and feel really comfortable with her. I had quite an unstable 1st trim but thanks to her expertise, I am able to make it to my 3rd trim now.
Here's wishing u a smooth and enjoyable motherhood journey!
First of all, congrats on your pregnancy! I'm from the June 08 thread and was just looking at the other threads when I saw ur post.
Here's wishing u a smooth and enjoyable motherhood journey!
shirley_ang20
New Member
Luthadel,
Is Dr Yvonne a sernior consultant? How much is her fees when u saw her the 1st time?
Is Dr Yvonne a sernior consultant? How much is her fees when u saw her the 1st time?
Hi Tera,
Thank you for sharing your experiences with me and I'm glad that you're stable now. Due to my previous unsuccessful prenancy due to blighted ovum, my husband & I was really afriad that we won't see anything again. But thank God that we can see our little one.
Hi Shirley,
Dr. Yvonne Chan has her own clinic located #06-06 at Thomson Medical. You may want to give her a call to check the details (price for scans, checkup etc..). The nurses there are very nice too.
Thank you for sharing your experiences with me and I'm glad that you're stable now. Due to my previous unsuccessful prenancy due to blighted ovum, my husband & I was really afriad that we won't see anything again. But thank God that we can see our little one.
Hi Shirley,
Dr. Yvonne Chan has her own clinic located #06-06 at Thomson Medical. You may want to give her a call to check the details (price for scans, checkup etc..). The nurses there are very nice too.
summer_bb
Active Member
Hi all,
I have a BN BabyCentre Essential Guide to Pregnancy & Birth for sale. It's a week-by-week guide on foetal and baby development including mummy's diet. Letting go at $18. Pls PM me if keen.
I also have a few tins of Similac Mum (non-fat) to let go at $17 per tin. Pls PM me if keen.
I have a BN BabyCentre Essential Guide to Pregnancy & Birth for sale. It's a week-by-week guide on foetal and baby development including mummy's diet. Letting go at $18. Pls PM me if keen.
I also have a few tins of Similac Mum (non-fat) to let go at $17 per tin. Pls PM me if keen.
teragram
Active Member
Firstbaby and LuthAdel,
Haha, cool is a very apt word to describe Dr Chan cos nothing seems to faze her. And yes, totally agree that the nurses are very nice and warm, which is a bonus during our visits!
Okok, I better stop here and get out of this thread, in case ppl start to wonder if there's some propaganda going on.
Haha, cool is a very apt word to describe Dr Chan cos nothing seems to faze her. And yes, totally agree that the nurses are very nice and warm, which is a bonus during our visits!
Okok, I better stop here and get out of this thread, in case ppl start to wonder if there's some propaganda going on.
Hi Tera, Dr Chan reali cool. I rmb when she stitched me, she still can chat and joked with me. Her stitches are well known to be gd too.
I also rmb the nurse.. Ren Ning.. she is very friendly and funny. Dunno if she is still working there. That's right, always greeted by the nurses with a warm smile.
I also rmb the nurse.. Ren Ning.. she is very friendly and funny. Dunno if she is still working there. That's right, always greeted by the nurses with a warm smile.
Hello, Congrats to all MTB here!
I just tested postive using a preg kit that i bought long long time ago, dunno whether it is accurate anot. Past few days have a feeling that menses coming but still haven come yet, have some cramps at the lower part of tummy. I will go and buy another kit to test today. I shd be in my 5th weeks if i'm pregnant
I just tested postive using a preg kit that i bought long long time ago, dunno whether it is accurate anot. Past few days have a feeling that menses coming but still haven come yet, have some cramps at the lower part of tummy. I will go and buy another kit to test today. I shd be in my 5th weeks if i'm pregnant
Congrats firstbaby. So now need to change name to secondbaby huh?
NovDec: congrats too! If the HPT not expired, should be alright isn't it?
Sounds like this Dr Chan is really good! Wanted to go TMC. cos very near my place. Then mum say travel
so far when I give birth. Actually for only a couple of days wat hor? Maybe she wants me to stay with her nearer the delivery date so wanted me to go to a hospital nearer her place.
NovDec: congrats too! If the HPT not expired, should be alright isn't it?
Sounds like this Dr Chan is really good! Wanted to go TMC. cos very near my place. Then mum say travel
so far when I give birth. Actually for only a couple of days wat hor? Maybe she wants me to stay with her nearer the delivery date so wanted me to go to a hospital nearer her place.
Welcome aboard simpsons. I think luthadel probably will be in a better position to comment. Haven't had my scan yet. I did read in the website that it is about the size of a sesame seed around this time.
http://www.babycenter.com/6_your-pregnancy-5-weeks_1094.bc?pe=2Uvqi8q&scid=mbtw_preg06:20080331:0:0:0
You may sign up with this website and it is free. Tells you quite a lot of things!!
Firstbaby: when are you going to see your gyne?? I need to wait till 14/4 then see him and go for scanning too. Just can't wait!
http://www.babycenter.com/6_your-pregnancy-5-weeks_1094.bc?pe=2Uvqi8q&scid=mbtw_preg06:20080331:0:0:0
You may sign up with this website and it is free. Tells you quite a lot of things!!
Firstbaby: when are you going to see your gyne?? I need to wait till 14/4 then see him and go for scanning too. Just can't wait!
Hi all
Firstbaby (2ndBaby) ahhaah...
Yes, thats true we may bumped into each other. My next appointment is 17Apr.
Simpsons
Welcome!!
I just went for a scan yesterday and I was supposed to be 5.5wks but my sac indicates it is 6wks3days. Can't remember the length now will check when I get home and update you.
In any case, the Doctor said she can only tell me the actual EDD in 2 wks when she measure the CRL of the baby.
Bunnipet,
I guess all mothers want to be there for their daughters especially in the case of a new grandchild!
Well, the ultimate thing is that you'll have to be very comfortable with the gynae that you appoint as this person will be there at your most difficult and painful time. The last thing you want is an unsympathetic and money driven doctors that only want to rush the birth so that they can get on with their other patients.
Frankly, I've never had great impression on the hosp. that your mum wants you to go but then again that is my personal opinion lah...
Firstbaby (2ndBaby) ahhaah...
Yes, thats true we may bumped into each other. My next appointment is 17Apr.
Simpsons
Welcome!!
I just went for a scan yesterday and I was supposed to be 5.5wks but my sac indicates it is 6wks3days. Can't remember the length now will check when I get home and update you.
In any case, the Doctor said she can only tell me the actual EDD in 2 wks when she measure the CRL of the baby.
Bunnipet,
I guess all mothers want to be there for their daughters especially in the case of a new grandchild!
Well, the ultimate thing is that you'll have to be very comfortable with the gynae that you appoint as this person will be there at your most difficult and painful time. The last thing you want is an unsympathetic and money driven doctors that only want to rush the birth so that they can get on with their other patients.
Frankly, I've never had great impression on the hosp. that your mum wants you to go but then again that is my personal opinion lah...
