fabbie,
I thought that time u brought ur daughter to TMC parentcraft, she is ok liao? Dun think u r jialat mummy la. U already done very well liao.
My daughter if go out or go nanny place, after she come back, she will be playful heart, refuse to sleep. So my mum will use the MIM sling and carry her. We will give her her pacifier and bean pillow to hug. Now she will use her finger to rub the edge of the pillow. So cute. She will fall asleep very soon. Perhaps u want to try sling her? BB tend to need security.
As for drinking milk, my daughter also fuss a lot when she is around 2 months. So we got to change different pattern. Like change the way we carry her while feeding, change the place to feed her. Let her watch the toys or tv to attract her attention. But still the best way when she fuss during feed is to stop the feed and hold her tight to my chest and sayang her. After that, slowly put the milk bottle in, she will drink after that.
Just to motivate all of you, my daughter follow a routine around her 3 months. She will wake up and play for 2 hours, sleep for half an hour and then at night, sleep at 10.30 to the next day. I got the jumperoo to entertain her. She will jump up excitedly cause there are quite a few objects to delight her. B4 that, I place 2 different type of musical mobile on her cot, both gifts from friends. She enjoys it. She will self-entertain herself and dun want us to carry her. I guess to my bb, the toys are so much more fun than being carried by me. Perhaps u can let her alone to play? But watch over at a distance.
Very soon, ur bb will follow a routine. So hang on!! Jiayou!!