(2008/12) December 2008 MTBs

gerry
i received them on sat.

jess
got no idea. mayb in march? don remember my agent telling mi tt it will be in lump sum.
 


Cindy,
Can i ask ya, u apply the olive oil on ur bb head rite? How do u apply huh? do u use cotton wool or bud huh? cos i felt like my bb head top still very soft, not fully harden yet..dare not apply too hard on it..btw, my gal oso got mild cradle cap on her head too..
 
bjorn carrier
guess I just have to use more often to get used to it. maybe it's just me, dunno y feel v hot n keep sweating after delivery, even thou i didnt eat alot of ginger n never drink alcohol during confinement..

cordlife
didnt noe how the CDA will work when i sign up so paid everything in cash leh..aiya..shd have waited.. been so broke these 2 mths since giving birth, keep buying thgs non-stop

fisher price
I bought the one with the vibrator. my boy sleeps v well in it..sometimes 3hrs st. but lately like changing pattern leh, put him down only will cry.. keep wanting to be carried, even when zz! so tiring for me..
 
xiao pooh, I dab my fingers w the oil n rub his scalp gently. e cradle cap i tried comb, also tootbrush but quite diff to come out..
 
Me oso has received the test result from Cordlife le..n regarding the storage detail..so far no asking of payment..

Oso I have received bb bonus Nets card, n have deposited $$ into the CDA account..heard the bank staff said once u start to deposit $$, govt will be alerted to match dollar to dollar accordingly..
 
Cindy,
ok, then i will use my fingers/hands to gently massage her head for the hair growth..but for the cradle cap, im using cotton bud to apply leh, cos i tink if i use fingers, only the hair will kana the oil n not the scalp..n i scare scare to apply too hard cos her head top has not harden yet, so when i apply using the bud, oso must be gentle..

ya, the cradle cap super hard to come out..my gal oso used to have some over her eyebrows, inside & behind her ears too..but all i managed to use my fingers to scrap off..hee..nw left the head portion which i dare not scrap off..
 
gerry
don't worry about the excess lipase. if your girl will take it, then it should be okay. but if it bothers her, you can try scalding the milk after pumping. quite troublesome, but it will stop the lipase from reacting with the milk. basically you heat the milk until some small bubbles appear, but before it comes to a boil. you can google for more info on how to do this.

pumping at work
Right now my girl wants to eat every 2-3 hours, so I will also try to do the same when i'm at work. I've been keeping a log of my baby's feeds and she eats about 5 times between 8am-7pm, so I hope to find time to pump that many times when I'm at work. There is a website that I found to be useful when thinking about pumping when at work: http://www.workandpump.com/ Got good tips on managing working, pumping and latching.
 
Xiao Pooh
Dun use your fingers to scrap off the cradle cap, your fingernails could contains germs that could pass on to your baby if you accidently scatch too hard. For me, I'll apply Gaia massage oil (or olive oil) and wait for 15 mins. Then I use a baby comb (with rounded tips) to gently scrap it off. It comes off really easily but you must be generous in applying the oil (depends on the severity of the cradle cap) and you've to let the oil seep into the cradle cap. Otherwise it will not be effective.

Back to Work
*Sigh* supposed to go back to work today but since hb down with flu and cough over the weekend, I got to handle my boy 24/7 so decided to rest at home today. I sent my boy to infantcare this morning and I realised that I miss him every min!!!! So tempted to go and fetch him home now :S

Jess
I've received the matching $ from Gov't already.
 
iemik0, 2ndbaby
orh im looking for it now! see got 2nd hand anot. i must be prepare! for the battle when im working! hahah lets see.. i also must buy the medela wipes.. so i no need to ster my bottles and pump. just wipe can liao..

echo
This Aquarium is a swing leh. i tout a rocker.. she still fuss alot just now.. morning wah.. cry n cry till my nerves is up there.. arghz.. very tough. my frd told me maybe is colic. haiz..

so if i put my milk in the fridge.. then when i go home can i freeze it? if im not enough bottles? cus if i fridge it.. meaning i got to bring likr 4 to 6 bottles.. cus i very scare i OT sia!

Cindy
Yeah update me! my gal now then i realise alot of hair drop off.. when i saw alot of hairs on her rocker. - if you say air carrier is hot then my orginial is even hotter lor but so far okai lar! i have tried bbpearl AIR carrier like no difference. One thing i perfer orgirinal cus its cusion i find it comfotable. Air got alot of holes it makes me feel so pokey hehe

Ivy
i think is swing better! i got a SWing which sam recommend for my IN law house and i got a FIsher Price Smart Stages 3 in 1 which intro by bubblepearl! this one quite good leh. can sit till old. i recommend to pooh too and she buy it. If you want i can intro u one buyer. but her's is without a toy bar. cus she's spoil. Let me know ba.

Jess
i buy a top swing for 50 bucks from ebay.. buy 2nd hand better ba..

pastillies
mine fuss in the morning and afternoon wor.. faints.. im still trying to figure out! whats shes doing. but my frd say is colic lor http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Baby_colic

Gerry
i tout breast milk is always fishy taste ah?
 
Oh ya.. i got to ask you gals..
Me being a topid and blur mummy.. I duno is it recently or all along my gal as black patches on her back! my gal still have black patches on her butt.. very clear still not fading off =( and now that i realize her back has black patches too! i duno is it recently it appear or all along has it. Now then i take note of that! anyone know whats happening?
 
my breast got bruises feeling leh.. jia lat. Wonder is it cos I hand-express too often and uses too much energy liao..touch oso pain..
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fabbie, to ask if the black patches is thr must ask the one that bathe ur baby everyday. If u bathe her, u would notice it when u wash her back rite?? Some babies have it..like birth mark lor
 
eh someone asked this .. thought I'd kaypoh and answer ..

this is the Fisher-Price bouncer .. we don't have this particular design here btw .. but the bouncers can be used till baby is 11.3kg. It's different from a rocker which rocks just a rocking chair .. this bouncer is like those old fashioned netted bouncers .. this one just more high tech lol .. but same concept la ... when baby kicks, the bouncer bounces up and down ..

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This is the Fisher-Price Open Top swing ... also can be used from birth up to 11.3kg. They don't have this design here too ..

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This is the rocker that fabbie has .. (I think the design may be different la) ... can be used till baby is 40 pounds (that's why it's called infant to toddler rocker mah) ..

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fabbie,,,

The fresh milk has no smell...or at least not too strong a smell.. but the frozen mik smells like cod liver oil!! At first I thought spoilt but cannot be wat.. only frozen for about a month!! How can.. then i courageously tried it to make sure not sour.. it is not lor... taste sweet with fishy taste.. which i totally not like!! but i thought let my girl try and she took it willingly...

echo..
Boiling the milk really sounds troublesome.. Haha!! Yeah I guess if my girl doesn't mind then will give.. Thanks for the website!! =)

Really worried about work and pumping.. Hope will be able to find the time to pump..
 
LuthAdel, opps.. must remind myself not to use fingers to try to remove e cradle crap! sometimes I c e flaky flaky thingy liao damn irritated cant help feeling hand itchy =S

Fabbie, my boy's butt also black black. at first tot birthmark, but my confinement lady says all babies have leh.. will fade one.. but I forgot to ask how long to fade..
 
Hello Mummies,

I read that some of you have babies who keep waking up for feeds during the night. I just want to share that I've been following the method mentioned in the book "On becoming baby wise" and my baby has started doing 6-7 hours betw feeds since she was 6 wks old.

She's now 10 wks old and she'll sleep at about 8-ish (after her last feed) and wakes up abt 4-5am for her feed. So I do get quite a bit of sleep although I still need to wake up at midnight to pump once. My baby is on TBF.

The method mentioned in the book is quite simple. You just have to follow the 2-3 hour routine of feed-play-sleep in the day, in that particular sequence. I think many babies prefer to feed and then sleep immediately though..For me I have that problem too, so I usually have to wake her up to play :p Now she's used to it and know that I won't allow her to sleep after her feed..haha..

Hope this helps
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fabbie,
for the swing, i still prefer the new one coz dunno the 'history' from previous user mah...

my boy also has tat so called birth mark on his buttock & chest, to me i dun bother...

driftingcloud,
err... i dun quite understand ler, u mean juz follow feed-play-sleep rountine in daytime & baby will auto sleep thru at nite?
 
Ivy
This is the 3 in 1 Fisher Price Smart Stages
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for info - http://www.amazon.co.uk/Fisher-Price-Smart-Stages-Rocker-Swing/dp/B000E5T246/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&s=baby&qid=1234184173&sr=8-1

Another one that i buy for 50 bucks at ebay. but mine dun have top toy bar. =(
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Sam
the last rocker that you post can auto rock itself meh??

Gerry
Yah lor.. im worried too about when working and pumping haiz.. like very BU fang Pian

Cindy
but my baby not only have black patches on her butt.. she got some black patches on her back too wor
 
driftingcloud
Thanks for your input. Even though I didn't read the book, I have been following the eat-play-sleep routine with my girl, and it does seem to work for her. During the day, she hardly ever sleeps after eating. Every 2-3 hours, I will nurse her for 45 mins, then she will play for 15-20 mins, and then sleep for about an hour. At night, she can sleep for a stretch of 4-6 hours. She will go to sleep at about 8 or 9pm, then I will try to wake her for a last feed at 12. After that there will just be one more feed at about 4am before she wakes up at 7am.

fabbie
My girl also has black patches on her body, like blue-black marks. She has on her ankle and on her butt crack. My mum told me that it's quite common among babies and should fade within a few years.
 
Swing: I got the one that fabbie post, 3 in 1 so i can use it after he weigh over 13kg..as a rocker lor..then when he grown bigger..use as a toddler seat..keke..i bought the 2nd hand one..for $50
 
Luthadel,
okie, thanks ya for sharing with me..hee..i didnt know cannot use hand..haiz, blur me..

Ya, the fisher price smart stages 3-in-1 that fabbie recommended is superb..my gal love sitting in it, and will always fall asleep on it..haha..

Fabbie,
i tink those blackish marks are normal de..should be able to fade off by itself over time..you can check with ur PD the next time you see him/her to confirm if its real birth mark, otherwise it will fade de..no worries..
 
xiaopooh, must massage olive oil to head 1 hr b4 u bath bb.. mine ger kana her forehead till v. hard b4 CNY, she looks so ugly... then her head next... now it's clearing... she even hv it in her ears
 
bur,
ya..thanks..my gal too leh..she got it on her eyebrow, inside n behind her ears too.but consider mild de which i used my hands to scratch it off..nw left her head which is still not so solid, so i dare not scratch it..better to apply olive oil ya..
 
fabbie,

cannot la. where got rocker that can rock itself? Swing then got auto lor. rocker don have ... BUT .. the rocker that I have ... my MacLaren one can switch on this vibration mode ... the whole rocker won't shake la .. just that there's vibration that the baby can feel while sitting there ..
 
fabbie, ya your swing .. the 2nd pic is the open top swing .. how? your girl like it or not? I think all these baby gear super useful and is a must have ... swing la, rocker la, bouncer la .. all to help baby to SLEEP !!!
 
echo
ok.. so i know patches on the back is normal.. piew. i tout only backside got.. cus i didnt know back also have!

Sam
Vibration mode good meh? I tout got rocker auto de. like that will be great hahah .. My gal dun like the open top swing! =( she sit for awhile cry liao.. damn.. i hope when i go to my mum;s house i let her sit the 3 in 1 swing she will like it! if not jialet liao lar.. hahha
 
hi gals
me back at KKH women clinic again.. block ducts again.. sigh!! Super pain... 15days ago i m just there to clear it..
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did alot of massage also no used.. very sianz... felt very much like giving up
 
i oso tink i hv blocked ducts..the right side on my left breast is so painful! I feel like fainting..even standing up oso pain..now the worse thing is i m in Klang and dunno whr can i find lactation consultant.. :'(
 
fabbie...how much is the 3in1??the link in UK...singapore where can i get??

thought of getting the one sam posted earlier..the infant to toddler rocker with vibration..
 
fabbie .. oh dear, your girl don like sitting in the open top swing ah? then how? Lucky u bot it 2nd hand ... hope she likes that other swing u bot man .. that one u bot brand new rite?

ivy, I think I've seen that infant to rocker thing here ... tom and stefanie I think. dunno whether kiddy palace have or not .. do u have any clue how much it is .. looks nice leh .. lol.
 
Ivy
Im not sure leh leh. but i saw a courier selling this. i mean is like a gift shop. and its 299 I think. but some of people say they buy only 199 leh.

kath
like jowin lor.. go KKH. i also thinking should i anot. i lift up my shoulder i feel pain liao. and i touch abit i feel pain liao. haiz so sianz Oh ya hor. ya still in malaysia. Do massage more.. if not later u kana fever.
 
http://www.artinbloom.com.sg/product-bundle.html

here they sell for 280..where did they buy 199???

i wanna buy lei...

sam...tom and stefanie have??is it the 3in1???with swing....

actually only wanted to buy th infant to toddler rocker with vibration but after seeing the 3in1...think it is much better...

fabbie i also posted in the WTB section......u still looking for it?anyone in here have the Smart stages 3in1?
 
ivy,

no .. the one I thought I saw at tom and stefanie is the infant to toddler rocker only. NOT the one fabbie has .. the 3 in 1 ..

haven't seen that recently ..
 
ivy..i got smart stages 3 in 1 but i got it 2nd hand too..i dunno where got

Sam: i am thinking to the rocker w vibrator mode..is it good?

btw: other than west mall, where else got Tom & Stefanie?
 
bubblepearl
There's a Tom & Stephanie at Tiong Bahru Plaza. BTW, I have membership at T&S, can get 10% off normal priced items. If you want, I can pass you my membership card.
 
Sam, i alr having fever! 38degree..ask me to carry baby i also no energy liao.. walk also difficult..Later will massage during hot shower.. feel like sleeping but cannot, need to wait for baby to wake up n give him a bath and feed him first.
 
Jess,

the routine actually sets the stage for "parental-direct feeding", which is the philosophy advocated by the book. In simple term, it means we as parents decide when the baby should feed, play and sleep..with some flexibility at certain times. This is in contrast with feed on demand, where you let your baby decide when she wants to feed, etc.

So yes, you may want to try the routine during the day and somehow, and I'm not sure why, baby will sleep through :p For night feeding, just omit the play part.

Echo,
I used to wake her up at midnight for feeding too, until my pd said no need, as she's growing quite well. So perhaps you want to try not waking her up and let her wake up on her own for midnight feeding?

My schedule is similar to yours. Sleep at 8+, wake up at 4-5am for feed and 7am for the "actual" morning wake up. I'm hoping to eliminate the 4-5am feed..haha..
 
btw mummies can i ask something..
If mummies smoke when she breastfreed.. she must throw away the milk or pump how many times to clear away? then she can get back milk again? not on latch but on EBM.
 
Ivy. i have a seller who is selling it.. BUT dun have the TOY bar.. she sell 90 bucks.. Ebay theres a person selling. she selling 100 bucks with toybar.. So you want which one? if u want the 90 bucks without toy bar. i can pass u the contact.
 
bubble pearl, there's a Tom ans Stefanie at the Woodlands Civic Centre .. I'm going there now to fetch my 2nd girl from Kinderland .. I will drop by and see what Fisher-Price items they have and how much ..
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will post it later ..
 
Hi Mummies

Long time never post le but I'll still pop in to read all your posts.
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Baby stools
Of late my gal has been passing watery toffee color stools. Wonder is it normal? or is she having diarrhoea. Currently, I breastfeed and formula feed her. Any of your bb experience this before?

Ear piercing
Is it too early to let my gal had her ears pierced?
 
Hi Fong2,

My elder daughter had her ears pierced when she was 5yrs old and she was frightened by the whole process:p So maybe there's advantage of doing it early while they're baby - still blur blur, don't know anything:D But I don't think I will have it done so soon for my baby girl.
 
Hi fabbie,
From what I've read on kellymom.com, it takes 95 mins for half the nicotine you inhale to get out of your body. So I would assume at least 3 hours to get all the nicotine out? Also, be careful to avoid secondhand smoke around your baby. You can read more here: http://www.kellymom.com/health/lifestyle/smoking.html

I hope you don't mind me saying this, but I hope you can persevere with not smoking. I can only imagine how difficult it is for you to deal with Clarice on your own when she's fussing, but maybe you can try other ways to destress? It will be the best for you and Clarice. Jia you!
 
Mummies with blocked ducts...
I'm from Oct 2008 thread and happens to read that some of you have blocked ducts. Just to share what I've experienced. About a month back I woke up with very very sore left breast, very painful to touch, can feel and see lots of lumps...tried my best to massage it and express but it was of no use...laid back on my bed and continued massaging the rock hard breast till I got sudden urge to 'look around' my nipple...that's when I discover a small white 'spot', I tried to scratch it away and VOILA! Milk started flowing out like tap running and the lumps disappeared one by one...I used up more than 10 pieces of tissues to curb the flow before my boy wakes up to 'help' me out...

So from then onwards, I'll locate 'white spots' on my nipples before fretting as like some of you here I also paid to visit a lactation consultant for blocked ducts during the 1st month of bf-ing...hope my little experience helps!
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Sam, oh..Woodlands has it? Okok..probably this weekend i will go there see see..i still like T&S compare to Kiddy placce..keke

Btw, does anyone of ur bb get startled easily nowsaday? My boi get startled v easy this week..this morning..before his daddy went to work..while i was burping him..his daddy come n stand in front of him..and suddenly do a Ta da pose..he jump up..n just now when i was talking to my dad..i was hugging him..he also jump..i am trying to give him "Jin Feng" powder now..Is it better to swaddle him since he got startled so easily?
 



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