(2008/11) November 2008
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On leave today
took time to went to pay greg's sch fees, cook n now at pedicure!
Lian: Tks for the tip yup tried out google map fun!! Oh n I booked hotel senkei already
RCB: Cheer up gal! Some days just sucks, hope u feel better soon. Get some 'me' time as well as couple time! Hugs!
Olwen: you have a super gd memory
my legs were aching then haha.. Tho my mum went w me to the bash lol!
Lian: Tks for the tip yup tried out google map fun!! Oh n I booked hotel senkei already
RCB: Cheer up gal! Some days just sucks, hope u feel better soon. Get some 'me' time as well as couple time! Hugs!
Olwen: you have a super gd memory
tunapuff77
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Jo, exactly lor. Got gd and bad hor
Aly_nat, to let her learn other stuff, be independent and socialise.
And ya, my mum still able to look aft her, that's why I sign her for half-day CC.
glad_gal, actually olwen has t best memory, but she keep saying she old =p Ey, i too rem that ur mum went with u leh
Aly_nat, to let her learn other stuff, be independent and socialise.
And ya, my mum still able to look aft her, that's why I sign her for half-day CC.
glad_gal, actually olwen has t best memory, but she keep saying she old =p Ey, i too rem that ur mum went with u leh
hello.. hav been a silent reader these few days...
Jo
wah.. envy.. lucas sleep earlier these days.. my gal... majiam getting later and later.. 10+ norm for her liao.
3jems
dress sexily? u mean at nite sleep wear lingerie that type ah? wah i cannot lei.. i feel uncomfy doing tt.. i'll b forever in my huge tshirts and shorts.. E most is sometime special occasion put makeups.. tts it.. Like last weekend went to my fren's wedding dress nice nice and makeup.. his cousin (my fren's fren) saw and say i look nice.. Then my hubby say yah lor.. other times *shake head* Really ganasai lei him..
Jo
wah.. envy.. lucas sleep earlier these days.. my gal... majiam getting later and later.. 10+ norm for her liao.
3jems
dress sexily? u mean at nite sleep wear lingerie that type ah? wah i cannot lei.. i feel uncomfy doing tt.. i'll b forever in my huge tshirts and shorts.. E most is sometime special occasion put makeups.. tts it.. Like last weekend went to my fren's wedding dress nice nice and makeup.. his cousin (my fren's fren) saw and say i look nice.. Then my hubby say yah lor.. other times *shake head* Really ganasai lei him..
nut,
He gets very grouchy when he is tired ... better to let him sleep early else I get very 'fan'.
Today never bring mobile out?
Sometime ago, I bought tight very short shorts for home/sleepwear ... hb say wear until so short see your fat thigh.
3gems,
U buy the HK casing? I wanna buy the dressing table w mirror leather casing. Keke.
He gets very grouchy when he is tired ... better to let him sleep early else I get very 'fan'.
Today never bring mobile out?
Sometime ago, I bought tight very short shorts for home/sleepwear ... hb say wear until so short see your fat thigh.
3gems,
U buy the HK casing? I wanna buy the dressing table w mirror leather casing. Keke.
tunapuff77
Active Member
morning!
olwen, i run after bus i oso 'chuan' hahah...
olwen, i run after bus i oso 'chuan' hahah...
Morning mummies!
Good thing my gal woke up 7.30 and ask for milk otherwise i would have overslept and reeeeally late for work!
Anyone interested in the kite festival this sat at marina barrage? But i guess sure damn lotx of people.. normal weekends already cant find parking lots liao..... umm.... Interested parties let me know mayb we fix a gathering there..
Good thing my gal woke up 7.30 and ask for milk otherwise i would have overslept and reeeeally late for work!
Anyone interested in the kite festival this sat at marina barrage? But i guess sure damn lotx of people.. normal weekends already cant find parking lots liao..... umm.... Interested parties let me know mayb we fix a gathering there..
tunapuff77
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Last day Combi shoes BP leh... Go grab! hehehehe 
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little_jewels
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Jo,
Yup. I'm getting the HK phone case. Eehh.. the mirror and dresser quite cute leh. I also like the one with the flower. Quite unique. hahahah...
Peanut,
No need just wear sexy in bed lah. Can wear sexy when go out mah... like I see some yummy mummies still can wear mini skirts and spaghetti tops leh. Too bad me no figure, cannot wear like tat. My legs skinny like chicken and got tummy sticking out. Eerrks! Scarly wear like that got opposite effect - instead of make hub drool, he run off instead. hahahahahahh
Yup. I'm getting the HK phone case. Eehh.. the mirror and dresser quite cute leh. I also like the one with the flower. Quite unique. hahahah...
Peanut,
No need just wear sexy in bed lah. Can wear sexy when go out mah... like I see some yummy mummies still can wear mini skirts and spaghetti tops leh. Too bad me no figure, cannot wear like tat. My legs skinny like chicken and got tummy sticking out. Eerrks! Scarly wear like that got opposite effect - instead of make hub drool, he run off instead. hahahahahahh
3gems,
The flower one also nice .. but I dun wan white and the other color not v pinky and more to the orangy tone .. so I dun wan. And everyday put inside my bag, the flower will not bloom .. flat flat one. Haha.
Yesterday I took a bus home and beside mi was a middle age couple (40+-50+yo) .. and the MISTRESS actually talked so loudly in Hokkien that I dun wanna wear cheongsam hor .. u wan buy, u buy give 'your bor' wear. When they got up to alight, I took a glance at tt couple, average figure but dun look pretty at all loh. Then I understand .. 3rd party woman don't need to look pretty ... look and speak bitchy enuff can liao.
The flower one also nice .. but I dun wan white and the other color not v pinky and more to the orangy tone .. so I dun wan. And everyday put inside my bag, the flower will not bloom .. flat flat one. Haha.
Yesterday I took a bus home and beside mi was a middle age couple (40+-50+yo) .. and the MISTRESS actually talked so loudly in Hokkien that I dun wanna wear cheongsam hor .. u wan buy, u buy give 'your bor' wear. When they got up to alight, I took a glance at tt couple, average figure but dun look pretty at all loh. Then I understand .. 3rd party woman don't need to look pretty ... look and speak bitchy enuff can liao.
nut,
They are both sitting on the outer seats of both side of the bus and still holding hands like little sweet lovebirds ... when they standing in front waiting to alight, the lady behind still hug the man at his waist.
I dun think siblings or frens wld hold hand or hug like tt.
They are both sitting on the outer seats of both side of the bus and still holding hands like little sweet lovebirds ... when they standing in front waiting to alight, the lady behind still hug the man at his waist.
I dun think siblings or frens wld hold hand or hug like tt.
tunapuff77
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Jo, i tink the problem of 3rd party is very common now.. Both men and women can be t straying ones
little_jewels
New Member
Peanut,
I can totally understand. But for me diff leh. Cos got few times I wear till abit sloppy, suay suay bumped into my clients or hub's friends on weekends. No time to run off. hahahah... So now I make special effort to look presentable in case bump into people I know.
Jo,
hahaha... me too. If the colour more pinky will consider. But I also scared the flower will get crushed under the rubble in my bag.
wah piangz! Tat woman really no shame leh. Haiz. I also dun know why some men are such jerks. I also come across a case where the mistress looks and behaves worse then the wifey. Instead the wifey was more demure and pretty plus behave very professional with good spoken english. Maybe like what Peanut say lah... they want the woman for fun & excitment only. Maybe the 3rd party looks ugly, but is damn good in va-va action.
I can totally understand. But for me diff leh. Cos got few times I wear till abit sloppy, suay suay bumped into my clients or hub's friends on weekends. No time to run off. hahahah... So now I make special effort to look presentable in case bump into people I know.
Jo,
hahaha... me too. If the colour more pinky will consider. But I also scared the flower will get crushed under the rubble in my bag.
wah piangz! Tat woman really no shame leh. Haiz. I also dun know why some men are such jerks. I also come across a case where the mistress looks and behaves worse then the wifey. Instead the wifey was more demure and pretty plus behave very professional with good spoken english. Maybe like what Peanut say lah... they want the woman for fun & excitment only. Maybe the 3rd party looks ugly, but is damn good in va-va action.
little_jewels
New Member
Jo, Lilian,
Yah... nowadays also got woman stray. And hor... not means that your other half always work late means got affair hor. There are also cases where those jerks hv affair in the office. So lunch time also can hv quickies leh. haiz.....
Yah... nowadays also got woman stray. And hor... not means that your other half always work late means got affair hor. There are also cases where those jerks hv affair in the office. So lunch time also can hv quickies leh. haiz.....
nut,
Maybe I'm too kpo and too much into that couple I have seen on the bus ... but as I said, it juz reminds mi of why men cant be faithful to their wives cos my cousin suffered from it. Feel v sad for her.
There are few other pple I know of also facing such problems so I simply cant stand extramarital affairs.
lian,
I agree ... it takes two hands to clap.
Maybe I'm too kpo and too much into that couple I have seen on the bus ... but as I said, it juz reminds mi of why men cant be faithful to their wives cos my cousin suffered from it. Feel v sad for her.
There are few other pple I know of also facing such problems so I simply cant stand extramarital affairs.
lian,
I agree ... it takes two hands to clap.
bewildered
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Hi Mummies,
Apologies but am searching for a Babysafe Mattress for baby.. Do pm me if you've any to let go, with the condition, dimensions, pictures etc.
Appreciate it lots and thanks! =)
Apologies but am searching for a Babysafe Mattress for baby.. Do pm me if you've any to let go, with the condition, dimensions, pictures etc.
Appreciate it lots and thanks! =)
tunapuff77
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Today's Topic: Mistress, 3rd-party, fling, office toilets
If u have 2 colleagues hor, one man one woman. One or both of them married. Then due to work, they have to work very closely and perhaps do OT together. Then slowly they seems to like each other bcos of the time they spend with each other is more than their other halves at home.
How do u view them? Still as jerk / mistress?
If u have 2 colleagues hor, one man one woman. One or both of them married. Then due to work, they have to work very closely and perhaps do OT together. Then slowly they seems to like each other bcos of the time they spend with each other is more than their other halves at home.
How do u view them? Still as jerk / mistress?
Lian
u're asking for urself issit... kakaka....
tts y i worry a bit.. cos my hubby like seeing his colleagues more than us lei.. tue/thur squash and sat golf.. and thing is all this games there sure got this 1 lady colleague in there one..
tt time i somemore sarcastic msg him having double date squash game issit..
u're asking for urself issit... kakaka....
tts y i worry a bit.. cos my hubby like seeing his colleagues more than us lei.. tue/thur squash and sat golf.. and thing is all this games there sure got this 1 lady colleague in there one..
tt time i somemore sarcastic msg him having double date squash game issit..
Lilian
how to ans ur ques...... they may seems to hav some feelings for each other but family stil rules.. so they may jus go into some flings without committment ba... that would make her a.. bitch mayb.. unless this goes on and on for a long time then she'll qualify as a mistress..
how to ans ur ques...... they may seems to hav some feelings for each other but family stil rules.. so they may jus go into some flings without committment ba... that would make her a.. bitch mayb.. unless this goes on and on for a long time then she'll qualify as a mistress..
Jo
hahaha... but it stil needs 2 hands to clap.. this half wan to spice up life but the other half jus dun wan to make any effort at all how..
But i mus say some people are jus really jerks.. they hav satisfying & good marriage life but they stil wan to find excitement outside..
hahaha... but it stil needs 2 hands to clap.. this half wan to spice up life but the other half jus dun wan to make any effort at all how..
But i mus say some people are jus really jerks.. they hav satisfying & good marriage life but they stil wan to find excitement outside..
tunapuff77
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Karen, then i can be a script writer... I m sure i can write better than those in caldecott. hehe
ah nuts, this can happen to anyone lor.
Although it is not right hor. But smtimes I oso pity them, 相见恨晚. Esp when they seems like a perfect pair.. haha...
Karen, i tink my imagination very the good. kaka
ah nuts, this can happen to anyone lor.
Although it is not right hor. But smtimes I oso pity them, 相见恨晚. Esp when they seems like a perfect pair.. haha...
Karen, i tink my imagination very the good. kaka
Ah lian
umm.. if they no children stil easy to settle lor.. but once got a child tts it liao.. mus b responsible towards e little one.. if given the choice u would not wan e child to be mother/fatherless lor.. even if going to hav a step parent also worry whether he/she wil get the equal love not..
umm.. if they no children stil easy to settle lor.. but once got a child tts it liao.. mus b responsible towards e little one.. if given the choice u would not wan e child to be mother/fatherless lor.. even if going to hav a step parent also worry whether he/she wil get the equal love not..
tunapuff77
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yes nuts, having children changes the entire story
Children can be a binding force, as well as a burden.
Why i say burden? Lets say the husband strays. With the kid in tow, the wife needs great courage to go for a divorce. Many implications. Many women choose to suffer in silence.
Children can be a binding force, as well as a burden.
Why i say burden? Lets say the husband strays. With the kid in tow, the wife needs great courage to go for a divorce. Many implications. Many women choose to suffer in silence.
tunapuff77
Active Member
Nut, Jo, if hor, u feel that your child will have a better growing up environment if he/she follow the father, will u let him/her go?
Maybe t father earns a better living and your child is already closer to your in laws side.
Hmmm.. tough tough hor? Your own blood and flesh, who wants to let go?
Maybe t father earns a better living and your child is already closer to your in laws side.
Hmmm.. tough tough hor? Your own blood and flesh, who wants to let go?
Wahahahha today's topic v negative lei !!!!
Yes e default is mother gets custody.. but if the mother financially not able to supprt the child then will b given to papa.. like my fren's case..
Ah lian
tts a v difficult ques wor.. can't bear lei... But if i already can't feed myself or my house filled with rats and cockroaches and no one cook at home for her cos i'm holding 10jobs outside then yes, i'll let e papa take over..
Yes e default is mother gets custody.. but if the mother financially not able to supprt the child then will b given to papa.. like my fren's case..
Ah lian
tts a v difficult ques wor.. can't bear lei... But if i already can't feed myself or my house filled with rats and cockroaches and no one cook at home for her cos i'm holding 10jobs outside then yes, i'll let e papa take over..
tunapuff77
Active Member
nut, did ur fren fight for the custody, or she let go?
rainbowcandybaby
Member
Thank you mummies for cheering n advices for me
We had a gd talk ytd nite but things turn out nt very gd. Will update u mummies again...
wow tdy's topic...
One of my gf's hubby had an affair with his ex and the gal n the spouse came to their hse to quarrel...my fren was very sad abt the incident...she still gave his husband a chance becos of the sake of her daughter..Firstly, he treated her very well but nw everything my gf need to help to pay almost everything n he keep quarrel with my gf for bits of things. He didnt even pay for a single cent when she was preg seeing the gynae or milk powder stuffs. Wat kind of guy/hubby is he..shit lor..haiz...
We had a gd talk ytd nite but things turn out nt very gd. Will update u mummies again...
wow tdy's topic...
One of my gf's hubby had an affair with his ex and the gal n the spouse came to their hse to quarrel...my fren was very sad abt the incident...she still gave his husband a chance becos of the sake of her daughter..Firstly, he treated her very well but nw everything my gf need to help to pay almost everything n he keep quarrel with my gf for bits of things. He didnt even pay for a single cent when she was preg seeing the gynae or milk powder stuffs. Wat kind of guy/hubby is he..shit lor..haiz...