(2008/11) November 2008
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Rainbowcandybaby,
Good that you have made up your mind and go wif spree. At least you give you a sense of direction and something to look forward to.
If your mum is charging you for tt amt then it would be better for you to tkc till he is 18months. You can start searching for a cc of your prefernce and put him in the waiting list.
Re:relationship wif hubby
I agree so much wif Happy that it should be part and phase of marriage. In my personal opinion, having a child may not necessary bring a couple closer unless the parents are well well planned for it. It may be for the case of a rich family cos finance is never a concern bah. I have a personal friend who resent so much tt her only kid take up soo much of her time tt in the end divorce her hubby. It's sad but she is really alone for the kid w/o any help, w/o any support as a SAHM.
Happy,
you also gg to end SAHM job too...sob..sob.
Soho,
You are pumping 6x a day of course will get engorgement. if for tt session you dunt want to pump, you can just hand express say abt 15ml instead of a full pump. It should take 2 weeks for your supply to drop to finally 1 feed.
Bf-ing does not necessary reduce the chance of pregnancy. Sometime it depends on individual. For me, I conceived my #2 when #1 was 6months old. I was bf-ing exclusively and w/o any menses too after the birth of #1.
My aunt who never bf for #1, only managed to conceive her #2 after 11yrs. So her #1 & #2 same zodiac but different by 12yrs.
Good that you have made up your mind and go wif spree. At least you give you a sense of direction and something to look forward to.
If your mum is charging you for tt amt then it would be better for you to tkc till he is 18months. You can start searching for a cc of your prefernce and put him in the waiting list.
Re:relationship wif hubby
I agree so much wif Happy that it should be part and phase of marriage. In my personal opinion, having a child may not necessary bring a couple closer unless the parents are well well planned for it. It may be for the case of a rich family cos finance is never a concern bah. I have a personal friend who resent so much tt her only kid take up soo much of her time tt in the end divorce her hubby. It's sad but she is really alone for the kid w/o any help, w/o any support as a SAHM.
Happy,
you also gg to end SAHM job too...sob..sob.
Soho,
You are pumping 6x a day of course will get engorgement. if for tt session you dunt want to pump, you can just hand express say abt 15ml instead of a full pump. It should take 2 weeks for your supply to drop to finally 1 feed.
Bf-ing does not necessary reduce the chance of pregnancy. Sometime it depends on individual. For me, I conceived my #2 when #1 was 6months old. I was bf-ing exclusively and w/o any menses too after the birth of #1.
My aunt who never bf for #1, only managed to conceive her #2 after 11yrs. So her #1 & #2 same zodiac but different by 12yrs.
Morning mummies.... so super busy recently so quick quick check in only.
triangel:
MMI is wad?
Glad:
Let me know how Learning Vision is hor. You going to the one in BM?
Soho:
Yah muz slowly cut. For me I cut from 4 pumps a day (excluding latching) to 3 then 2 then now 1. Soon prob cut to juz latch morning and night.
triangel:
MMI is wad?
Glad:
Let me know how Learning Vision is hor. You going to the one in BM?
Soho:
Yah muz slowly cut. For me I cut from 4 pumps a day (excluding latching) to 3 then 2 then now 1. Soon prob cut to juz latch morning and night.
mousemouse
New Member
morning mummies...
need some advice here...i am still bf and two nites ago, i found that there is a white spot in my nipple... is this normal? does any mummies hv this before? getting worried coz don't know whether if its safe to continue bf baby...
need some advice here...i am still bf and two nites ago, i found that there is a white spot in my nipple... is this normal? does any mummies hv this before? getting worried coz don't know whether if its safe to continue bf baby...
lonelyduck
Active Member
morning mummies!
stats updated. Anymore? Registration closing u know?
gam sia ah lian.. I can see olwen oredi ordering, she's another organic mummy hee hee
stats updated. Anymore? Registration closing u know?
gam sia ah lian.. I can see olwen oredi ordering, she's another organic mummy hee hee
sinnyy
Active Member
Thanks fifi, gladgal and snowy...phew..glad to know must do it slowly, tried on 2 pumps last nite (from 6 pumps normally)...hopefully can cut to 1 soon. Hmm...ok 2 weeks sounds reasonable time..
Glad gal: U keen on learning vision which outlet? I tossed the idea about Grassroot YCK before, but somehow pounced onto a thread and there were some talk about an incident there happened some time ago abt some teacher...when i tried to click on article was no longer there..
Glad gal: U keen on learning vision which outlet? I tossed the idea about Grassroot YCK before, but somehow pounced onto a thread and there were some talk about an incident there happened some time ago abt some teacher...when i tried to click on article was no longer there..
tunapuff77
Active Member
kiki, stats hor.. i notice my girl very short leh.. cannot b model nxt time liao..
tunapuff77
Active Member
snnowy, u mean ur friend was a SAHM before she divorce?
lonelyduck
Active Member
oh no ah lian, u are comparing! not good u know..
but then my boy also short... cannot be model too.. jialart.. haha I'm comparing too!
but then my boy also short... cannot be model too.. jialart.. haha I'm comparing too!
tunapuff77
Active Member
ah kiki, i like to compare u know..
rainbowcandybaby
Member
Happy
oic..didn't kw tat u also a SAHM too
emmmm SAHM to me is a best job but not a highest pay...cos my hubby dun earn alot...
oh u gg to work soon ar.. Hope u can find a job soon ya. Gd luck!
Oh yes...everyone have diff ways of tking care of kids...have to tk it lo...
huh..u ran away fm hm before ar....lol~
Tat's gd u have a social work friend tat can
help u. Maybe i shd go n look for one too...thks!
snnowy
Thks! ya...at least got another way to earn money..
I think currently won't ask my mum to tkc of my boy cos she can't teach him on studies le..n very pamper him...Jalen go there always want them to carry him one...n my dog is there...my boy always want to go n beat it...lol~
Oh yes...so poor thing of yr friend. Did she ask for help at PAP? I tink they will give some help on money wise to the child.
Glad_gal
thks so much! I hope can do well on the biz...
oic..didn't kw tat u also a SAHM too
emmmm SAHM to me is a best job but not a highest pay...cos my hubby dun earn alot...
oh u gg to work soon ar.. Hope u can find a job soon ya. Gd luck!
Oh yes...everyone have diff ways of tking care of kids...have to tk it lo...
huh..u ran away fm hm before ar....lol~
Tat's gd u have a social work friend tat can
help u. Maybe i shd go n look for one too...thks!
snnowy
Thks! ya...at least got another way to earn money..
I think currently won't ask my mum to tkc of my boy cos she can't teach him on studies le..n very pamper him...Jalen go there always want them to carry him one...n my dog is there...my boy always want to go n beat it...lol~
Oh yes...so poor thing of yr friend. Did she ask for help at PAP? I tink they will give some help on money wise to the child.
Glad_gal
thks so much! I hope can do well on the biz...
rainbowcandybaby
Member
Jes
i got a friend of friend (indonesian chinese)hand made pineapple tarts...i ate b4 very nice.
If u interested i can give u the contact.
Any mummies interested to order for pineapple tarts for Cny?
i got a friend of friend (indonesian chinese)hand made pineapple tarts...i ate b4 very nice.
If u interested i can give u the contact.
Any mummies interested to order for pineapple tarts for Cny?
mousemouse
New Member
alibaba
it doesn't look like blister to me leh. its like white...blisters usually more transparent white?
it doesn't look like blister to me leh. its like white...blisters usually more transparent white?
mousemouse
New Member
alibaba,
thanks for your help. its safe to keep bf baby?
thanks for your help. its safe to keep bf baby?
lonelyduck
Active Member
mummies
jia ba buay? I had not-so-delicious-and-quite-saltish mee-hun-kuay, a bit thirsty now -_-
alibaba
u can check it out @ BP corner..
Here's some BPs I spotted
(2010/01/19) CNY cheongsam, branded shoes & socks and many more.
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3463548.html?1263359187
CNY wear 2010
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3406470.html?1263359106
CNY Clothings and clearance for Toddlers!
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3459773.html?1263344425
Many Sizes and Colours, Beautiful CNY Cheongsam/Changsan for Boys and Gals
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3491435.html?1263345442
But hor.. mostly for gals lor.. so sad for our boys ... sob sob... hee hee
jia ba buay? I had not-so-delicious-and-quite-saltish mee-hun-kuay, a bit thirsty now -_-
alibaba
u can check it out @ BP corner..
Here's some BPs I spotted
(2010/01/19) CNY cheongsam, branded shoes & socks and many more.
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3463548.html?1263359187
CNY wear 2010
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3406470.html?1263359106
CNY Clothings and clearance for Toddlers!
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3459773.html?1263344425
Many Sizes and Colours, Beautiful CNY Cheongsam/Changsan for Boys and Gals
http://www.singaporemotherhood.com/forumboard/messages/581296/3491435.html?1263345442
But hor.. mostly for gals lor.. so sad for our boys ... sob sob... hee hee
tunapuff77
Active Member
Fox Kids having 50% discount... clearing old stock!
Just to share! There will be a Fun in the Sun Bazaar this weekend Jan 16 - 17, 2010 at East Coast Park Big Splash area. There will be over 70 stalls ranging from baby/ kid items to face painting. There will be new and preloved items for sale. The bazaar starts at 10 am on both days !
mousemouse
New Member
alibaba
thanks..hopefully i can get it cleared soon.
thanks..hopefully i can get it cleared soon.
Happy & RCB: I also a SAHM. i quit my job last year to stay and take care of my bb. even with maid, they are reali not reliable. yeah, have to spend lesser don want always ask money from hubby. though i have some savings. but now doing part time as a financial planner. the job is very flexible. now still learning. hope is works out.
childcare: seems like most of you mummies are sending bb to childcare. mine still not walking. i thought of at least he know how to walk and point what he want b4 sending him over. me actually thought of sending him to little neurotree when he reach 18mth just and extra enrichment lesson. childcare what the idea age? heard montessori is a better learning than childcare.. enlighten me!
childcare: seems like most of you mummies are sending bb to childcare. mine still not walking. i thought of at least he know how to walk and point what he want b4 sending him over. me actually thought of sending him to little neurotree when he reach 18mth just and extra enrichment lesson. childcare what the idea age? heard montessori is a better learning than childcare.. enlighten me!
tunapuff77
Active Member
olwen, when we dun see u here, we know where u r... in the BP thread! buy buy buy!
Lilian,
Hahaha, you sure understand Olwen. She must buy and also whatever she buy is worth it compared to us cos she has 3 kids to fully utilise.
My friend was a SAHM b4 she divorce. Sad tt she does not get enough support and had to handle the entire family herself. To make matter worse, her son never sleep through the night and she is always expected to coax the bb.
Hahaha, you sure understand Olwen. She must buy and also whatever she buy is worth it compared to us cos she has 3 kids to fully utilise.
My friend was a SAHM b4 she divorce. Sad tt she does not get enough support and had to handle the entire family herself. To make matter worse, her son never sleep through the night and she is always expected to coax the bb.
hello mummies..long time nvr log in..i wish i got an iphone then anytime can go in and tok.
RCB (eh, name sounds cool leh, like football club oso have)
Im glad uve sorted out wit u hub..dun worrie..ive been in ur position before. its just cos of the lifestyle we are havin now, got kid, car, house etc, dats why we need to keep up with it. i wouldnt say we are poor, juz dat we have all these to pay! haha. if ur bp got nice stuffs i like..hee, i will support u okie..
Ah Lian
me want to go down to look2 see2. when's ur class and wat time? hee.. i think it's time for my gal to learn in classroom..juz the tot of kids getting sick easily kinda puts me off..other than dat, im okie...
why u want ur gal to be model ah? hehehe
glad_gal
where u go? preg? me leh...haha...ah nut false alarm one...she very cautious one..kekeke
olwen
from my msg @fb, dun worrie abt rachel k..my gal same2...
RE: IC
have u mummies heard of the news? upcoming ics can choose ur race. this is good news for those who are in multi-racial marriage. me now have two options oso..one chinese and malay. this step quite crucial for both of us. any of u mummies same position as me? hee
Re: Scan
update from my scan. gynae said mite be a boy but no confirmation yet..detailed scanning coming up pretty soon...i wish bb yest can show whether boy and gal then no need to go for detailed scan and save $160..hehe....watever it is, im juz happy to see him/her yest and to know dat bb is healthy. he/she was sitting with leg cross..haha
RCB (eh, name sounds cool leh, like football club oso have)
Im glad uve sorted out wit u hub..dun worrie..ive been in ur position before. its just cos of the lifestyle we are havin now, got kid, car, house etc, dats why we need to keep up with it. i wouldnt say we are poor, juz dat we have all these to pay! haha. if ur bp got nice stuffs i like..hee, i will support u okie..
Ah Lian
me want to go down to look2 see2. when's ur class and wat time? hee.. i think it's time for my gal to learn in classroom..juz the tot of kids getting sick easily kinda puts me off..other than dat, im okie...
why u want ur gal to be model ah? hehehe
glad_gal
where u go? preg? me leh...haha...ah nut false alarm one...she very cautious one..kekeke
olwen
from my msg @fb, dun worrie abt rachel k..my gal same2...
RE: IC
have u mummies heard of the news? upcoming ics can choose ur race. this is good news for those who are in multi-racial marriage. me now have two options oso..one chinese and malay. this step quite crucial for both of us. any of u mummies same position as me? hee
Re: Scan
update from my scan. gynae said mite be a boy but no confirmation yet..detailed scanning coming up pretty soon...i wish bb yest can show whether boy and gal then no need to go for detailed scan and save $160..hehe....watever it is, im juz happy to see him/her yest and to know dat bb is healthy. he/she was sitting with leg cross..haha
tunapuff77
Active Member
olwen, add me in FB leh...
mummy2nia, my class is gg to be Sat 330pm. Dun worry, their class size is max 6 kids.
I think they have some referral discount thingy, let me know ok
No la, no want 2 b model la. Joking. moreover her mummy left right centre also no model 'kuan', how to expect her to be model! hahah...
Yipee! #2 Boy!?!? Tats good news. One girl one boy.
How many kids u and hub want?
Sorry eh, why the race thing crucial huh? Wat effect will it have in t future?
mummy2nia, my class is gg to be Sat 330pm. Dun worry, their class size is max 6 kids.
I think they have some referral discount thingy, let me know ok
No la, no want 2 b model la. Joking. moreover her mummy left right centre also no model 'kuan', how to expect her to be model! hahah...
Yipee! #2 Boy!?!? Tats good news. One girl one boy.
How many kids u and hub want?
Sorry eh, why the race thing crucial huh? Wat effect will it have in t future?
ah lian
ooohh...6 max ah...not bad leh...but this sat im working...sigh..think i better col them..hehe..referral disc oso haf...
will let u noe..thanks hor..
nolah, not confirm yet..she juz say saw something so hopefulli it's realli a boy! at the mo, 2 can, cos gotto be fair to the kids..too many, the education will b jialat..i think if want, most to most 3 lah..but i feel now two enuff..i realli want them to study high one..hehe..and judging from our finances, we have to think realistic and not be greedy..hehe
ohh..very crucial..u see, in terms of education. hub says malay gets subsidy a lot. i remember last time i was in sch, i was neither here nor there, want to get subsidy from chinese, dey say cos i muslim, want to get subsidy from malay, dey say my ic chinese. i dun want my child to go tru the same thing as me.
then if buy hdb? oso imp mah...the ethnic quota thingy..hehe...
ooohh...6 max ah...not bad leh...but this sat im working...sigh..think i better col them..hehe..referral disc oso haf...
nolah, not confirm yet..she juz say saw something so hopefulli it's realli a boy! at the mo, 2 can, cos gotto be fair to the kids..too many, the education will b jialat..i think if want, most to most 3 lah..but i feel now two enuff..i realli want them to study high one..hehe..and judging from our finances, we have to think realistic and not be greedy..hehe
ohh..very crucial..u see, in terms of education. hub says malay gets subsidy a lot. i remember last time i was in sch, i was neither here nor there, want to get subsidy from chinese, dey say cos i muslim, want to get subsidy from malay, dey say my ic chinese. i dun want my child to go tru the same thing as me.
then if buy hdb? oso imp mah...the ethnic quota thingy..hehe...
mosh
my nephew (cuz's son) oso like dat..like wat my daughter is playin with. die die want that toy..got so many other toys ard, dun want. my daughter will juz look at him, like not happy he take her toy, but she wun go to him and beat him...my nephew so nottie, still go and scratch her face. *faints*. dats why now when he comes, i dun want to let my daughter play wit him.
my nephew (cuz's son) oso like dat..like wat my daughter is playin with. die die want that toy..got so many other toys ard, dun want. my daughter will juz look at him, like not happy he take her toy, but she wun go to him and beat him...my nephew so nottie, still go and scratch her face. *faints*. dats why now when he comes, i dun want to let my daughter play wit him.
tunapuff77
Active Member
mummy2nia, your thinking very chinese
They have wkdays & sunday class too.
Ya hor, t race sounds impt. Think carefully ba, since u have a choice.
They have wkdays & sunday class too.
Ya hor, t race sounds impt. Think carefully ba, since u have a choice.
tunapuff77
Active Member
mosh, when your #2 arrives, you will see more toys snatching liao! Its common de la.. and u can take this time to 'educate' the kids abt sharing lor
mosh
Member
ali
the prob is my mil will not hit my niece one, will only tell her nicely cannot snatch or scream. so I also cannot hit her lor..
when my sil and her hb came over, they will tell her must share share. Sometimes she will say no and refuse to share and they just let her be.. sighz what can I do....
the prob is my mil will not hit my niece one, will only tell her nicely cannot snatch or scream. so I also cannot hit her lor..
when my sil and her hb came over, they will tell her must share share. Sometimes she will say no and refuse to share and they just let her be.. sighz what can I do....