(2008/11) November 2008

halow mummies... HAPPY 2010... !!!

but my last weekend shag sia.. my lil ethan got fever, running nose and sore throat with cough.. and last night saw a ulcer on his gum.. poor boy..
 


haru, i saw ur old post at sgbrides forum recommending Mr ong for aircon servicing.. is that u? the same Haru? hee... if yes, did u still engage him to service ur aircon? looking ard for good aircon servicing.. ;p
 
hi Liv,
yup! thats me!! Mr Ong is very honest. He didnt even wanna charge me coz he couldnt solve the prob with my aircon as it was too old. i had to force him to take some money from me as he had to drive all e way to my place. i recently moved to a new place and am contracting an air con company to do regularly cleaning and servicing. I can get the contact from hubby if you are looking for one. I like this guy that we are dealing with too. very reliable and honest.
 
halo..
My maid, so far NO good. hai....
I also can write book on maid problems liaoz
How come u gals employ new maid always come here say so far so good..?? Mine come here first day oredi lazy pattern all come out
Ali, Not mo gui xun lian la... I have to inspect her do work, cos she do things half-past standard one.
Just now she slept in my mum's kitchen! I know she may b tired but also cannot sleep mah!
Then yest evening 5pm nia, once she finish mopping floor, she went to brush her teeth! Then at 6pm, she go and take bath. Piangz...
I dun get to brush my teeth and take bath till 10pm last night!
 
Lilian, indeed sounds not too good... you might want to see if you would like to give her abit more time, else change lor bo bian. we shdn't allow ourselves to be angered and tortured by the maid like tat.
 
Jes, i have been scolding her (my maid) these 2 days... hai... I told my hub, after giving birth, i look like i got older by 10yrs. Now with maid, i look like 20 yrs older!
Anyway, i told her if she dun feel like working for me, she can tell me, i will send her back lor. kekeke... Bad mdm!
No choice, someone has to be t bad guy. My hub is too soft hearted, my mum is too lenient
 
Jes, ya.. will see how lor. Anyway, tmr i go back work liao, so no chance to monitor her. My mum too lenient, will not complain much to me.
 
Lian, tats what i told my maid too - if they are sincere abt working, then do a good job, else go back dun stay here and be miserable and "torture" us!

tink u hv to tell yr mum can't be so lenient, else the maid will really see you as the bad mdm, then when u r back at home with her, she sure will show u attitude wan.
 
<font color="0000ff">haru,
can pm me Mr Ong's contact for aircon servicing?

any1 has any gd recommendation for gd plumber?

sigh...sounds like my place need some major up do LOL</font>
 
re: changing maid
how much do we need to incur if we change maid? read somewhere that one employer had paid almost $10,000 changing maids in 1 year. altho the agent fee may be free/waived, there are still other costs like insurance, thumb-printing (??!) that we need to pay for every new maid right?
 
happywifey, i dunno exactly how much. My estimate is abt $350. Cos the insurance is $200+ liao.. Then the training fee, medical chkups etc.
$10,000 a year like a bit kua chang.

Jes, my mum tell me to give t maid more time. Afterall she only 24 yrs old and away from her home, also ke lian.. Aiya, my mum too gd hearted. hai...
I oredi can sense t maid dun like me liao... Ask her re-do things, give black face. well well...
 
happywifey, this is what i understand - if ur contract with the agency has a replacement policy within a stipulated timeframe, then yes the agent fee will be waived during that period if u change maid, and u wld only need to pay for the new maid's insurance, medical, etc... which will not cost a bomb like 10k... that employer perhaps has changed countless maids tats probably the reason bah.
 
Lian, only 2-3 days show black face liao ah, then it's really NO GOOD! not trying to add oil to fire, but i feel the attitude is already not rite liao.

Ya, ke lian is one thing, but they hv to know why they are here... not say we force them to come rite. Yr mum is nice to allow more time, but tink u hv to tell her not to show different standard from u, else the maid will only show u more displeasure.
 
yah, i think that employer changed quite a few maids. but if we have to keep changing and incurring the $350 thereabouts each time also quite heartpain leh
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peanut,
my baby also recently not sleeping well
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last nite she woke in the middle of the night and kept crying everytime we put her down in her cot, and only finally slept after 2 hours of pick up/put down!! btw, how do u know its cos of erupting molars? my baby has 4 on top and 4 at the bottom, is it time for her molars to come out already??!
 
happywifey
before this i was only taking 1/3 bowl of rice for dinner but already got mistakened 3 times tt i'm pregnant.. so now i've to giv up rice totally, unless its bak gut teh time or curry fish head time then bobian no rice v strange
 
oh sorli.. above reply for snnowy..

happywifey
cos her gums rough rough and swollen.. then when she bite something hard she'll cry and point finger on her cheek.. so we assume its going to b molar coming out lor
 
oh oh.. and i bot dentinox and try on her.. found after she fusses and cry and i apply tt she somehow stop fussing for some while..
 
peanut,
i see, last nite my baby slept abit better, woke only once or twice. hv been using dentinox some time back but recently stopped after she slept better when she turned 1. does your baby sleep in your room with you?
 
mummies,
doing a poll: which brand of diapers are u using?

hv been using pampers all the while but am thinking their buttocks not so sensitive now no need to use so exp diapers, haha. tried huggies but my baby was in between size and her urine all leaked out cos it was too big!
any mummy using petpet? good or not?
 
happywifey, me using Dryers. Cos its cheap n good
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Jes, I have decided to send her back to agent this evening. My blood boiling at 100degC. Want more stories? MSN me :p
 
happywifey, am using huggies pull ups, not as ex as pampers and mamy poko, mid range price i guess. not many pull ups to choose from...

lian, hope yr boiling has come down, haha.. talk to u soon..
 
happywifey,
My boy is using Petpet. So far so gd.
Touch wood, only leak once when he was not changed for quite long :p Otherwise, can tahan up to 5-6hrs for my son.
At nite, still using mamy poko.

Lilian,
Cool down.
 
Jes,
I've tried alot of brands(Dryers, Pet Pet, Huggies, EQ, Pampers, Mamy Poko and Nepia) ever since he is borned. Seems like Pet Pet suits him so continue. Cheap and gd.
U r right, Pet Pet dun have pull ups.

So far for pull ups, I've only tried Huggies and Drypantz. Both are ok.
 
any babies here are easily iritated and impatient brat?? wah lately my gal a bit a bit throw tantrums.. like when she trying to do something and cannot b done she'll throw e damn thing on the floor and scream.. Seems like she's already stepping into terrible 2!
 
ah nut

My gal also like tat.. she will cry and throw the thing on the floor or ask us to do it for her...
 
nut, mine too.. somemore if we carry him away from the "crime scene" he will struggle and throw himself backward, arching his back.. head just slam backward.. scary boy.. whole family all cannot control him.. we also dunno wat to do...
 
my boy if he cant get the cards out of the box or fix the toys, he will scream till face red red.. faint.. i guess that's y he got throat inflamation..
 
Good Morning and Happy New Year to all!

Today is my first day of work of 2010. Keke.

Went KL over the long weekend and Lucas is back w fever. Last nite sleep ... cry on and off. Morning woke up also keep cry ... only wans mi and MIL. Haiks.

My new maid is really SO FAR SO GOOD. She already intend to renew her contract w us. But we shall see when the time comes. Haha.
 
Jo, how long is yr maid with you so far? my maid of 4 mths oso said she wanna work for us for so long we want her... chey, i told her after she fulfils her contract then say lah.
 
diaper
using mummypoko for night &amp; drypers for day/ huggies pull up pants.

jo
too early to tink gd or not la.. the maid usually will say wan to continue to work for us... my last maid oso the same.. kaka..

my weekend was spent @ a bungalow chalet at pasir ris for my nephew's 3 yo bday.. unpleasant &amp; scary experiences ... -_-"
 
Jes

yalor, my gal recently also will piak ppl when frustrated... she just piak me this morn sighz... bad tempered...
 
Mosh, bad hor? sometimes i piak my gal's palm back to let her know can't piak me but doesn't work leh. dun know how, tsk tsk
 
thanks mummies for the feedback on diapers!

yen,
yah noticed that petpet is alot cheaper! but my baby had rashes last time when we changed brands so didnt dare to be too 'adventurous'. think will try that since there are good feedback
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do u know if the sizing is the same as pampers? my baby is wearing L moving on to XL for pampers.

lilian,
oh no, what did your maid do?

peanut,
my baby will also get angry when she doesnt get her way. we have long ago decided she is not the girly type of girl, rather bad-tempered and impatient. quite hard to discipline her too.. the more we say 'no', the more she will do, sigh!
 
nut,
my boy also the same. Throws all the things onto the floor and expect us to pick for him.

Jes,
My son also piak me
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Jes

I will also piak her back and say cannot beat mummy... then she will pretend to cry cry lor... sighz...
 
ya got mo mo .. though i am not the one who saw or smelt it.. but 1st night when i was alone in the room to make Trysten to slp.. already felt uneasy... all of us cant slp well that night... things start to happen on the 2nd night then..
 
haiz.. looks like we hav quite a # of bad-tempered kids here.. My gal also definitely not guniang guniang type.. i treating her like a boy instead.. She also sometimes like to piak face or head.. If we fiercely say no she'll act kelian.. If we purporsely cry she;ll sayang

Jo
u pray pray ur maid remain good thruout lor.. But at least u quite happy with her tts an impt thing

Ali
u accidentally look at urself in front of mirror middle of the nite and gena scared issit.. wajkakaka..
 


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