lili : sorry to say that but i was v surprised and shocked to read your post..yesh, it is unfortunate that your company is planning for team building on the same day..to be fair..you realli have to pay for the cupcake.
like what jelly said, this is something that you need to resolve and not throw in back to the forum and ask other mummies to resolve this for you..asking mummies to pay additional $1.20+ is not fair..it's not about the amount..it's how you handle the whole thing..do you know how much more coordination cheerbear has to go thru to collect the additional $1.20
i can see that you are v active in the thread and you jolly well knoe that the oda has been confirmed..and now you are trying to say you din know that you are on the main list..and thought you are on the waiting list..
for the gymboree, it's still ok cos the final bill will depends on the final no. of baby but for the cupcake, it's nt fair to keep asking Cheerbear to call and cancel etc..like the rest of the mummies, why can't you jus pay for the cupcake and ask your DH to come or other arrangement ?
now that ypg is willing to take over the cupcake, i am not sure if Pattisier is able to do it..if not, it is only fair that you pay for it...how you wanna collect the cupcake or give the cupcake to another person, it's your decision..
later give pple laugh oni ;p~ 
