vanilla_pod_2
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hi mint - ya...maybe tonite i pack and hide bag in cupboard....but thinking shld i also bring my pump along if i want to run away from home...i mean it is the dad i am pissed not my son...hmmm....
(2008/10) Oct 2008
- Thread starter jappooh
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Tweety,
I prepare NTUC brand frozen green peas with skin and my boy eats them but when there are bigger pieces of skins that the blender missed, he'll spit/push it out from his mouth...
Jelly,
You are not alone...I feel like hubby and I are parents of my boy rather than husband and wife...we do perform duties as parents but we don't perform duties as husband and wife anymore...
I prepare NTUC brand frozen green peas with skin and my boy eats them but when there are bigger pieces of skins that the blender missed, he'll spit/push it out from his mouth...
Jelly,
You are not alone...I feel like hubby and I are parents of my boy rather than husband and wife...we do perform duties as parents but we don't perform duties as husband and wife anymore...
jellypurin
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whitepaper
me waiting for rebby to say mama to me as well! hee
me waiting for rebby to say mama to me as well! hee
jellypurin,
Then that's too much already. No wonder you're so upset.
Sat/Sun are my off days... he bathes Regina, change diapers and coaxes her. Weekdays, he changes her diapers whenever he's home. At night, he does the sponge bathe and pats her to sleep.
Come to think of it, I'm having it good and yet I'm complaining. hahaha!
Then that's too much already. No wonder you're so upset.
Sat/Sun are my off days... he bathes Regina, change diapers and coaxes her. Weekdays, he changes her diapers whenever he's home. At night, he does the sponge bathe and pats her to sleep.
Come to think of it, I'm having it good and yet I'm complaining. hahaha!
jellypurin
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mint
i mean, i give credit when credit is due. he helps... only when it is convenient to him. okay, enough ranting abt my hubs... let me talk abt my bb! makes me happier!
i mean, i give credit when credit is due. he helps... only when it is convenient to him. okay, enough ranting abt my hubs... let me talk abt my bb! makes me happier!
matsu
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<font color="0000ff">penny,
talking abt this, i also wanna complain. I really think my gal prefer her daddy although I m the 1 taking care of her leh @_@***
my DH only needs to look at her nia, she will laugh till her eyes become 2 lines! make me so jealous & cak sim *sob sob*</font>
talking abt this, i also wanna complain. I really think my gal prefer her daddy although I m the 1 taking care of her leh @_@***
my DH only needs to look at her nia, she will laugh till her eyes become 2 lines! make me so jealous & cak sim *sob sob*</font>
whitepaper
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Penny
heard that babies usually call Papa first!
heard that babies usually call Papa first!
jellypurin
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mousebb
xiaojie v active leh... she is a very agile mouse!
xiaojie v active leh... she is a very agile mouse!
pig_pig
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<font color="aa00aa">Whitepaper, Penny
Congrats! I'm waiting for my gal to call me!
Only last night, I was asking her when is she going to call me! And I tell her "remember to call 'ma1 ma1' first hor otherwise you have to follow daddy go to work bcos mummy is not going to look after you anymore". Haha! </font>
Congrats! I'm waiting for my gal to call me!
Only last night, I was asking her when is she going to call me! And I tell her "remember to call 'ma1 ma1' first hor otherwise you have to follow daddy go to work bcos mummy is not going to look after you anymore". Haha! </font>
<font color="0077aa">mousebb
xiaojie is so active ler, wish Seline can have half of hers
talking
Seline also likes to talk but i still cant recog wat is wat haha
any baby here got play cheat skip step?
Seline skip her rolling now learning to crawl, jiu shi dun wanna roll *faint* </font>
xiaojie is so active ler, wish Seline can have half of hers
talking
Seline also likes to talk but i still cant recog wat is wat haha
any baby here got play cheat skip step?
Seline skip her rolling now learning to crawl, jiu shi dun wanna roll *faint* </font>
whitepaper
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Penny
situation at airport is ok, but rather stressed coz alot of measures to implement. Directives keep changing in accordance to the worldwide situation.
mousebb
hahaha!!!!!!!!!!!! imagine your hubby bring her to work!
situation at airport is ok, but rather stressed coz alot of measures to implement. Directives keep changing in accordance to the worldwide situation.
mousebb
hahaha!!!!!!!!!!!! imagine your hubby bring her to work!
pig_pig
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<font color="aa00aa">Jelly
Rebby is a very smart gal! So cute!!! Haha!
Whenever my xiaojie see I have prepared her milk and waiting to feed her, she would refuse to crawl to me but start crying instead so that I would carry her! So lazy wor!
Sometimes when I put some of her toys in her rockers, she would crawl to the rocker and then sit up on her own and play with her toys! I'm very scared she would fall backward and hit her head against the floor. The mattress is too small for her le. Luckily we have 2 bumper playmats and she is using one while korkor uses the other one.</font>
Rebby is a very smart gal! So cute!!! Haha!
Whenever my xiaojie see I have prepared her milk and waiting to feed her, she would refuse to crawl to me but start crying instead so that I would carry her! So lazy wor!
Sometimes when I put some of her toys in her rockers, she would crawl to the rocker and then sit up on her own and play with her toys! I'm very scared she would fall backward and hit her head against the floor. The mattress is too small for her le. Luckily we have 2 bumper playmats and she is using one while korkor uses the other one.</font>
mspiggy, i choose to believe u. then i earn i spend. ask daddy to slog for her. hahahahah!!!!
whitepaper,
u muz take care ah. coz airport has the 1st contact with pple coming back or coming from overseas. hope to catch up with u soon. and yes, i love gg to airport. hahaha!!! when swine flu is over, am gg to bring claudia there.
whitepaper,
u muz take care ah. coz airport has the 1st contact with pple coming back or coming from overseas. hope to catch up with u soon. and yes, i love gg to airport. hahaha!!! when swine flu is over, am gg to bring claudia there.
mspiggy, i choose to believe u. then i earn i spend. ask daddy to slog for her. hahahahah!!!!
whitepaper,
u muz take care ah. coz airport has the 1st contact with pple coming back or coming from overseas. hope to catch up with u soon. and yes, i love gg to airport. hahaha!!! when swine flu is over, am gg to bring claudia there.
whitepaper,
u muz take care ah. coz airport has the 1st contact with pple coming back or coming from overseas. hope to catch up with u soon. and yes, i love gg to airport. hahaha!!! when swine flu is over, am gg to bring claudia there.
jellypurin
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somehow i can't wait till july for gathering leh... but i know june many of you going overseas... so good...
whitepaper
Active Member
errhhhmmm... about liking airport... i may like it if i'm not working here! hahaha...
jellypurin
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ribena
u r like the gold 90fm advert... only listen to the good stuff... so u believe only the good stuff for urself
u r like the gold 90fm advert... only listen to the good stuff... so u believe only the good stuff for urself
jellypurin
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karen
eh, thot pil has a swim date for the bubs and mom? yeeks... did i remember wrgly?? called off? someone help! hehe
eh, thot pil has a swim date for the bubs and mom? yeeks... did i remember wrgly?? called off? someone help! hehe
Speaking of husbands...
I was sharing with Eelyn and Mint that my husband is one of those, super push push push. Till date, he has not changed a simple diaper. He almost did but I 'saved' him (or is it her?!) in the nick of time.
Having said that, he do help out by entertaining her (she loves playing with him too! ()@*($&% and at times, will rock her to sleep. Only when he feels like it. When he doesn't, his favourite line is, "she wants to drink milk." I think I'm a really good wife/mother. I always, always feel guilty when the baby is out of my hands. I feel the need to take her back, as I deem her my full responsibility. That's why todate, I have not done anything without baby. And I thought being a SAHM is very very hard. I get absolutely no breaks unless Jo sleeps. I don't have mothers or MILs or husbands to help me look after my girl for long hours. My mother will, but my girl doesn't want.
As I said, my husband will behave according to his mood. Yesterday he was in a jolly good mood so he looked after my girl for 2 hours while I went grocery-shopping. It's really a relief of not having the baby in my arms, at times. My steps become lighter.
I do grouse a lot to the husband, but I can also understand he works hard. His work can be both mentally and physically draining and in most weeks, his off day is only one per week. So I don't want to bother him too much with the baby. Afterall, he gave me a car, paid for my petrol, gave me a maid (to anger me, I told him that and us 3, including Jo, burst out laughing!). All I have to do is to look after the girl.
I just want some me-time. I'm looking to my mother for that though. Training my girl to be ok with her grandmother!
I was sharing with Eelyn and Mint that my husband is one of those, super push push push. Till date, he has not changed a simple diaper. He almost did but I 'saved' him (or is it her?!) in the nick of time.
Having said that, he do help out by entertaining her (she loves playing with him too! ()@*($&% and at times, will rock her to sleep. Only when he feels like it. When he doesn't, his favourite line is, "she wants to drink milk." I think I'm a really good wife/mother. I always, always feel guilty when the baby is out of my hands. I feel the need to take her back, as I deem her my full responsibility. That's why todate, I have not done anything without baby. And I thought being a SAHM is very very hard. I get absolutely no breaks unless Jo sleeps. I don't have mothers or MILs or husbands to help me look after my girl for long hours. My mother will, but my girl doesn't want.
As I said, my husband will behave according to his mood. Yesterday he was in a jolly good mood so he looked after my girl for 2 hours while I went grocery-shopping. It's really a relief of not having the baby in my arms, at times. My steps become lighter.
I do grouse a lot to the husband, but I can also understand he works hard. His work can be both mentally and physically draining and in most weeks, his off day is only one per week. So I don't want to bother him too much with the baby. Afterall, he gave me a car, paid for my petrol, gave me a maid (to anger me, I told him that and us 3, including Jo, burst out laughing!). All I have to do is to look after the girl.
I just want some me-time. I'm looking to my mother for that though. Training my girl to be ok with her grandmother!
tweety,
just surprise him! thats wat im doing.. im leaving kaitlyn with my mom.. told my ILs already.. then im just gonna pick him frm work and head straight to hotel.. my scheme to make no.2!? hahaa!
penny,
yea.. cos he's a lighter sleeper than me.. so he'll wake up even if im the one feeding. but the morning feeds (6-7am) are definitely him.. i settle the night feed (2-3am) and only wake up at 930 or 10 to prepare for work.. so for him even tho he sleeps earlier (ard 12), to wake up in the morning, he's still affected at night when im feeding.
jelly,
*hughug* dun regret.. think of the positive! men will be men.. my hubs also irritate me at times. but wat to do.. sometimes we forget kaitlyn is in the room and we'll start hurling vulgarities at each other.. then later the guilt will sneak in.. and both of us will feel like shit. now its not just him and me.. got to think of kaitlyn..
vanilla,
pack??? for real??
sometimes i wish my parents lived here.. then i can "hui niang jia" to gain some sanity..
big flamingo,
i think im in the middle.. certain parts of our relationship improved.. some deteriorated.
talking:
kaitlyn is just making noises still.. no words formed..
just surprise him! thats wat im doing.. im leaving kaitlyn with my mom.. told my ILs already.. then im just gonna pick him frm work and head straight to hotel.. my scheme to make no.2!? hahaa!
penny,
yea.. cos he's a lighter sleeper than me.. so he'll wake up even if im the one feeding. but the morning feeds (6-7am) are definitely him.. i settle the night feed (2-3am) and only wake up at 930 or 10 to prepare for work.. so for him even tho he sleeps earlier (ard 12), to wake up in the morning, he's still affected at night when im feeding.
jelly,
*hughug* dun regret.. think of the positive! men will be men.. my hubs also irritate me at times. but wat to do.. sometimes we forget kaitlyn is in the room and we'll start hurling vulgarities at each other.. then later the guilt will sneak in.. and both of us will feel like shit. now its not just him and me.. got to think of kaitlyn..
vanilla,
pack??? for real??
sometimes i wish my parents lived here.. then i can "hui niang jia" to gain some sanity..
big flamingo,
i think im in the middle.. certain parts of our relationship improved.. some deteriorated.
talking:
kaitlyn is just making noises still.. no words formed..
jellypurin
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dumbo
way to go! i hope ur plan to make #2 succeeds! wahaha
way to go! i hope ur plan to make #2 succeeds! wahaha
jellypurin
New Member
any mommies already got pressie or dinner cmg up with family or hubs for mother's day? i hope monday 1 can take a day off so that i can bring my mom and rebby out for lunch together...
bbgoh, jelly,
haha duno leh.. i dun even know how to count O day..
just go with the flow.. since its his bday n mothers day.. 2 in 1 celebration lo..
he thinks im not gettig him anythin.. so just gonna surprise him. he always mocks how i used to buy him soft toys.. when i was 20, 21 and he was 29, 30.. i was a student mah!! no money!! so now have to make it up to him.. haha!
haha duno leh.. i dun even know how to count O day..
just go with the flow.. since its his bday n mothers day.. 2 in 1 celebration lo.. he thinks im not gettig him anythin.. so just gonna surprise him. he always mocks how i used to buy him soft toys.. when i was 20, 21 and he was 29, 30.. i was a student mah!! no money!! so now have to make it up to him.. haha!
karen,
ur really a hands-on mother.. kudos.. sometimes i give myself excuses.. that i did not plan and did not want to be a mummy.. so given that, i'm already not bad.. i still feel like a kid! refusing to take on responsibilities (my jobs hardly last more than a yr. my current job is longest.. prbly cos i havent clear my maternity leave?!), i dont admit to my age, i act like a kid.. im a daddys/mummys gal.. pick little fights.. i do doubt how i have the ability or the sense to raise a kid. without my ILs think i would have gone crazy... and in a way, maybe subconsciously, thats why i had low SS.. it was all in the mind to begin with. physically i wanted to bf.. mentally.. no..
ur really a hands-on mother.. kudos.. sometimes i give myself excuses.. that i did not plan and did not want to be a mummy.. so given that, i'm already not bad.. i still feel like a kid! refusing to take on responsibilities (my jobs hardly last more than a yr. my current job is longest.. prbly cos i havent clear my maternity leave?!), i dont admit to my age, i act like a kid.. im a daddys/mummys gal.. pick little fights.. i do doubt how i have the ability or the sense to raise a kid. without my ILs think i would have gone crazy... and in a way, maybe subconsciously, thats why i had low SS.. it was all in the mind to begin with. physically i wanted to bf.. mentally.. no..