(2008/10) Oct 2008
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Cheerbear, not yet leh..no time nw also..wanna quickly pack my stuffs frm in-laws place 1st. My hb "informed" me that this sun we hv to go back there for meal cos its Mother's Day. Actually they dun really celebrate this kinda occasions. But im fine..but i will only accept staying there for lunch..If he ask me to stay any longer, im gonna "shoot" him and tell him he ought to celebrate Mother's Day with me as i'm his son's mother also!!
monyetnakal
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hi everafter/cheerbear.. can give me the link where u order the flash card? Thanks!
monyetnakal
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MIL ...
mine so far ok coz actually I can not talk to her. I cant speak chiese n she cant speak english... he he ..
mine so far ok coz actually I can not talk to her. I cant speak chiese n she cant speak english... he he ..
skybluegal
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monyetnakal,
the link for flash cards
http://www.mylittleones.com.sg/sub_products.asp?Category_ID=1&SubCategory_ID=1
the link for flash cards
http://www.mylittleones.com.sg/sub_products.asp?Category_ID=1&SubCategory_ID=1
monyetnakal
Member
Thanks cheer bear.. which one u bought? the whole set?
XY, ya ya.. lucky at end of day when hb isnot ard i can login n keep my mind occuppied sometimes when i jus don wanna do chores..
talk abt MILs.. they r nv ending stories..
jus a recent one..
MIL overlook my gal poo n caused kyra's butt to b red after a few days some peeling but not so red..
when its her fault i have to "zip" when its my faulth she kicks up a bloodly big fuss!
n another classic thing is i have 3 milk powder container n jus becos my MIL don like the tupperware one she resort to putting the brown rice feed into seperate plastic bags for me to bring hm n DIE also don wanna use the tupperware one..
ok.. i shd stop now.. else its nvending typing..
talk abt MILs.. they r nv ending stories..
jus a recent one..
MIL overlook my gal poo n caused kyra's butt to b red after a few days some peeling but not so red..
when its her fault i have to "zip" when its my faulth she kicks up a bloodly big fuss!
n another classic thing is i have 3 milk powder container n jus becos my MIL don like the tupperware one she resort to putting the brown rice feed into seperate plastic bags for me to bring hm n DIE also don wanna use the tupperware one..
ok.. i shd stop now.. else its nvending typing..
skybluegal
Active Member
everafter,
can imagine that.. think will be funny
i really pei fu all u mummies can tahan the weight of the bb.. i use the sling nia.. my shoulders already super pain liao.. and now it has become my back pain
elch,
my son can finish the whole can of gerber banana puree but still he wont poo
so one can consider too much??
can imagine that.. think will be funny
i really pei fu all u mummies can tahan the weight of the bb.. i use the sling nia.. my shoulders already super pain liao.. and now it has become my back pain
elch,
my son can finish the whole can of gerber banana puree but still he wont poo
skybluegal
Active Member
monyetnakal,
yup.. bought the whole set coz there is a promo 9 sets for the price of 8.. so me and everafter combine order and got free delivery
yup.. bought the whole set coz there is a promo 9 sets for the price of 8.. so me and everafter combine order and got free delivery
honeyclover
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mint,
wah, luckily you are not staying with your mil..
MIL,
Mine is pretty good, chin chai one, then when i am off at home, she will buy lunch for me..keke..
wah, luckily you are not staying with your mil..
MIL,
Mine is pretty good, chin chai one, then when i am off at home, she will buy lunch for me..keke..
honeyclover
Active Member
mousebb,
Ya, although my MIL is very nice, i still prefer to have our own space..
Ya, although my MIL is very nice, i still prefer to have our own space..
bigflamingo,
Tell me about it.. I have to be more cunning and be the poor dear in front of my hubby so that I'll win the battle. Hahaha!
Yes, I'm expecting lots of things from him for Mothers' Day.
everafter,
Where do I begin? My nightmare started from preparation of wedding till today... I've been married 6 years and hitting 7 this year.
Tell me about it.. I have to be more cunning and be the poor dear in front of my hubby so that I'll win the battle. Hahaha!
Yes, I'm expecting lots of things from him for Mothers' Day.
everafter,
Where do I begin? My nightmare started from preparation of wedding till today... I've been married 6 years and hitting 7 this year.
skybluegal
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mousebb,
u staying with ur in laws too? is always BEST to be in our own space
mint,
din know u married for so long liao.. thot most of the mummies here is 1-2yrs nia then become mummies liao.. me is coming to my 5th anniversary liao.
u staying with ur in laws too? is always BEST to be in our own space
mint,
din know u married for so long liao.. thot most of the mummies here is 1-2yrs nia then become mummies liao.. me is coming to my 5th anniversary liao.
monyetnakal
Member
cheer bear thanks for the info ..
pig_pig
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<font color="aa00aa">kylie, cheer bear
We have been staying with my fil for 8 years le cos during that time, my 2 bils moved out and if we also move, my fil will be left alone so my hubby said we shall stay on leaving my flat vacant for a few years. Recently I told my hubby since we have 2 kids le and i also start to look around for school for my son, I prefer to move back to our own house. Also one of my bils and his family have shifted back to stay with him now. My kids also need more space to run about.
Mint
I guess you have no choice but to be more evil than your mil. Luckily your hubby only at your side. </font>
We have been staying with my fil for 8 years le cos during that time, my 2 bils moved out and if we also move, my fil will be left alone so my hubby said we shall stay on leaving my flat vacant for a few years. Recently I told my hubby since we have 2 kids le and i also start to look around for school for my son, I prefer to move back to our own house. Also one of my bils and his family have shifted back to stay with him now. My kids also need more space to run about.
Mint
I guess you have no choice but to be more evil than your mil. Luckily your hubby only at your side. </font>
honeyclover
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mint,
haha. so u won the battle ..hee..at least now u have your freedom!
cheerbear,
i ROM for 7 yrs too, but went thru the customary during end on dec 06..
haha. so u won the battle ..hee..at least now u have your freedom!
cheerbear,
i ROM for 7 yrs too, but went thru the customary during end on dec 06..
bigflamingo
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Cheerbear, I also waited 5 years before having my little one... Took a long time to settle down!
honeyclover
Active Member
mousebb,
Good to have your own space esp when kid around...but also have more maintainance to do..hehe..
At least now when i buy something, i dun have to sneak back home ..hehe..
Good to have your own space esp when kid around...but also have more maintainance to do..hehe..
At least now when i buy something, i dun have to sneak back home ..hehe..
honeyclover
Active Member
mint,
Muahaha! so regina is really god's gift to YOU..hehe..
Muahaha! so regina is really god's gift to YOU..hehe..
skybluegal
Active Member
mousebb,
ic... so next year u can have your own home sweet home liao.. and yes agree with you that kids need more space to run ard if not like 'jail' them at home which is not gd.
kylie,
i had my customary on dec 04
bigflamingo/mint,
me too took a long time to settle down coz my hb wan new flat hence we go for BTO which i sort of regret last time as it makes me need to stay with in laws but now think back.. hmmm is over and at least during that time i hv save enough $ for my hse reno.. even we keep ttc but never strike until one day i had a dream (imagine i still can rem my dream now) that i will be preg when my hse is here and true enough i got preg and wks later HDB send us a letter to collect keys for our hse.. imagine i hv to clean/wipe my hse when i was preg and in laws never offer help at all... and when we shifted out that day my mil still got the cheeks to say "u never open mouth how i know u need help" faintz
ic... so next year u can have your own home sweet home liao.. and yes agree with you that kids need more space to run ard if not like 'jail' them at home which is not gd.
kylie,
i had my customary on dec 04
bigflamingo/mint,
me too took a long time to settle down coz my hb wan new flat hence we go for BTO which i sort of regret last time as it makes me need to stay with in laws but now think back.. hmmm is over and at least during that time i hv save enough $ for my hse reno.. even we keep ttc but never strike until one day i had a dream (imagine i still can rem my dream now) that i will be preg when my hse is here and true enough i got preg and wks later HDB send us a letter to collect keys for our hse.. imagine i hv to clean/wipe my hse when i was preg and in laws never offer help at all... and when we shifted out that day my mil still got the cheeks to say "u never open mouth how i know u need help" faintz
hi mummies,
i'm here. Had been very busy. My PA left and left lots of shit for me to clear. so tired. I read something abt mil? ha... r we back to tat topic again? if so, i have lots to complaint. wahahaha!!
1 may, my parents n my IL met for discussion on my customary wedding and guess wat? my mil bargain w my dad for lower pin jin and tables. she muz b crazy!!! i was so angry. She dint treat me good despite i m so good to her and she even bargained. so angry til now. if she dun wat we requested for, this sat her bdae celebration will b the last one i m celebrating for her!
Babies not feeling well:
Mummies do take care as well. may ur little ones have a speedy recovery.
i'm here. Had been very busy. My PA left and left lots of shit for me to clear. so tired. I read something abt mil? ha... r we back to tat topic again? if so, i have lots to complaint. wahahaha!!
1 may, my parents n my IL met for discussion on my customary wedding and guess wat? my mil bargain w my dad for lower pin jin and tables. she muz b crazy!!! i was so angry. She dint treat me good despite i m so good to her and she even bargained. so angry til now. if she dun wat we requested for, this sat her bdae celebration will b the last one i m celebrating for her!
Babies not feeling well:
Mummies do take care as well. may ur little ones have a speedy recovery.
matsu
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<font color="0000ff">penny,
these mil really think their sons r the only 1 paying for the wedding like olden days meh???!!! Tell her lower pin jin & tables ok but everything totally pay by the guy side loh.
mil :
They still think their sons r the 1 who bought the hse so they have the right to juz shift in without asking us (dil)???!!!</font>
these mil really think their sons r the only 1 paying for the wedding like olden days meh???!!! Tell her lower pin jin & tables ok but everything totally pay by the guy side loh.
mil :
They still think their sons r the 1 who bought the hse so they have the right to juz shift in without asking us (dil)???!!!</font>
skybluegal
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penny,
at least ur mil is lower the pin jin.. my mil is never give hor.. when i tell her that my mum ask for pin jin.. u know wats her answer? she say "go tell ur mum that she is not selling daughter" i was so piss off then my hb came up a small amt for my mum himself and i told my mum is given by my hb not his mum!!
at least ur mil is lower the pin jin.. my mil is never give hor.. when i tell her that my mum ask for pin jin.. u know wats her answer? she say "go tell ur mum that she is not selling daughter" i was so piss off then my hb came up a small amt for my mum himself and i told my mum is given by my hb not his mum!!
bigflamingo
Member
Oh Mousebb, I just caught up on this morning's posts... regarding Swim diapers. I bought iplay from Bumwear (unitedsq) but found the cutting way too small, even tho the tag said it was for babies 12 to 18 mths. Only used once.
I just bought a pair of really cool looking surf bermudas from Mothercare with inbuilt towel-material poo catcher. Much more comfortable. I bought the X-L size to be on the safe side. Meant to be for above 18 months, but you can tighten the drawstring. Fits nicely!
Oh Mothercare also sells Konfidence, but it didnt like that there were metal eyelets on the inside.
I just bought a pair of really cool looking surf bermudas from Mothercare with inbuilt towel-material poo catcher. Much more comfortable. I bought the X-L size to be on the safe side. Meant to be for above 18 months, but you can tighten the drawstring. Fits nicely!
Oh Mothercare also sells Konfidence, but it didnt like that there were metal eyelets on the inside.
Penny, mint, i share the same plight! Me and hubby paid for our wedding as well..MIL didnt give a single cent yet got the cheek to complain that my mum want pin jin and tables! @#$%^#$ I'm so fed-up and i told my hb to tell his mum that i'm also paying for the wedding!! Then the next day she apologised to me
mousebb,
You want to buy swim diapers? I used the huggies one for Regina's baptism. Quite good. Will be using them when I bring her swimming... I wonder when? I'm so envious when I see the photos in fb of your babies swimming.
What should I apply on her skin to prevent the ezcema if I wanna bring her swimming?
You want to buy swim diapers? I used the huggies one for Regina's baptism. Quite good. Will be using them when I bring her swimming... I wonder when? I'm so envious when I see the photos in fb of your babies swimming.
What should I apply on her skin to prevent the ezcema if I wanna bring her swimming?
skybluegal
Active Member
mint,
got the link for the surf shorts?
got the link for the surf shorts?
bigflamingo
Member
bigflamingo
Member
this is the one I bought, Cheerbear.
bigflamingo
Member
Thanks Mint!
i think most of us mummies r chipping in n paying ourself for the stuff..
my case pretty classic..
me n hb pay for everything from my dowry to the pin jin to the wedding dinner.
but my MIL knows how to stir things up.. there is no neg for tables or pin jin since i oredi tell my dad how much pin jin he wants if ok we pay n my dad also "auto" then tables is u give me list i give u tables.
but MIL stir things up intial tellme so many then till the end almost 10 tables empty n we last min gotta find ppl to fill up!
damm pissed off but then also shows hb his mums' "true colours"
my case pretty classic..
me n hb pay for everything from my dowry to the pin jin to the wedding dinner.
but my MIL knows how to stir things up.. there is no neg for tables or pin jin since i oredi tell my dad how much pin jin he wants if ok we pay n my dad also "auto" then tables is u give me list i give u tables.
but MIL stir things up intial tellme so many then till the end almost 10 tables empty n we last min gotta find ppl to fill up!
damm pissed off but then also shows hb his mums' "true colours"
jjmom, mint:
lucky my dad dint agree to lowering tat. if she dun give, 1st, she wun able to see me and my baby again. Actually i m a bad dil. In the past, i brought her to see doc and when her sons n hub not able to take care of her, i took leave to take care of her after her knee op. After her op, her temper not good n she vent it on me.
She is very difficult to me oso. and at tat time, i m her son's girlfriend. She wakes up at 5am every morning and i need to prepare breakfast for her, her med and help her with the physio. Got her lunch and med. Tinking i can rest when she's alsp, d moment i doze off, she called me telling me to bring her to toilet. She even had her menses at tat time and i cleared the mess for her.
When i m expecting claudia, she told me she is disappointed tat i m having a bb girl and even feed me canned food when i m preggy. See, hao xin mei hao bao!!!! tat is wat i got! My dad was actually v angry with her and so we asked quite a bit from her for the wedding which i feel is not tat much after wat i had from her.
lucky my dad dint agree to lowering tat. if she dun give, 1st, she wun able to see me and my baby again. Actually i m a bad dil. In the past, i brought her to see doc and when her sons n hub not able to take care of her, i took leave to take care of her after her knee op. After her op, her temper not good n she vent it on me.
She is very difficult to me oso. and at tat time, i m her son's girlfriend. She wakes up at 5am every morning and i need to prepare breakfast for her, her med and help her with the physio. Got her lunch and med. Tinking i can rest when she's alsp, d moment i doze off, she called me telling me to bring her to toilet. She even had her menses at tat time and i cleared the mess for her.
When i m expecting claudia, she told me she is disappointed tat i m having a bb girl and even feed me canned food when i m preggy. See, hao xin mei hao bao!!!! tat is wat i got! My dad was actually v angry with her and so we asked quite a bit from her for the wedding which i feel is not tat much after wat i had from her.