everafter,
U r not alone. My ILs are not better anyways. When i'm pregnant, my MIL says a lot of scarstics things of me for having a bb girl. I cant take it and move back to my mum's place. From then onwards, she never called me.
After giving birth, can see her at least once a week. She not seeing me but rather seeing my bb. Funny rite, i tot she dun like bb girl????
She wants me to b/f my bb, coz she say its good etc. Well, as a mother, of coz i want the best for my child, i will do that, no need her to tell me. When she was younger, she dint b/f her kids, tink she too lazy to do that and expect pple to do tat.
Lucky i got a very gd CL, she kept telling my MIL that i'm always up in the middle of the nite and pple doing confinement is getting fatter but i'm getting thinner, etc.. and my CL gotten my MIL to buy me bird nests and cordycepts. Tink w/o my CL, my MIL wouldnt buy such tings for me.
I very bad oso. I told my hubby, its ur mum who insist i do b/fing and i need to take Cod fish to increase my milk ss, so his mum will hav to buy for me. True enough, i get to eat 2 cod fish every day. Who do u tink sh is doing all tis for? Me? no... its for my bb...
On deepavali day, my FIL celebrates b'dae and we went out to eat. Guess wat my MIL told me? She said, my niece, 6 yrs old mentioned tat nw she has a sister ( my bb) and she was asking when i'll be giving her a didi. Come on lah, mei mei haven grow up, u already want didi meh? And she's too young to say tat. Muz be my MIL say one and pushes tat to my niece.
Talking abt hubby:
Now tat i'm staying wif my parents, he will come everynite to stay over and he nw is picking tings on my mum and he told me he's unhappy abt wat my mum has been doing in terms of handling bb etc. Then i explained to him that my mum and us r of different generation and her ways are old ways but indeed she helped me a lot in many tings including caring of me. Then u noe wat he said? he said" now u can feel how i felt when u told me abt my mum?" Wah... i'm soooo angry. Its 2 different matters.