R&R,
I know last time 'ma ta' wear shorts, so I also didn't believe him wholesale and let my kid go pcf. Then it turned out that pcf, although stopped letting kids watch tv and sing 'san zhi lao hu', the teacher's English wasn't very good, and the kids speak their own languages. By 'mother tongue', I didn't mean 'Chinese'.
And my kid wasn't happy there. She became her happy self again when she changed school, and within 3 months, her progress in the new kindy was impressive, compared to the time when she was in pcf, so it convinced me that pcf wasn't good compared to the next kindy.
Eh, I used my husband and sister as reference only bcos Penny also used herself as reference. Penny is younger lah, but cannot be younger than my kid what, so you should kok her head first.