chewyring: yeah, but my MIL has wanderlust...she is always finding excuses to go jalan and this extra infantcare duty is really bothering her i can tell.
For the past 3 weeks, she has been coming up with excuses like needing to go to malaysia to see 'voodoo' TCM doctor for her aching shoulders and poor eyesight. THe doctor told her need to go back a few times to cure her ailments and the number of trips is indefinite! Because of that, my hubby and I gotta take turns to apply for leave for the past few weeks, and my MIL is so 'bitchy' aka kuai lan and would not relent or budge even when her son (my hubby) was going overseas for one particular week! She insisted on going despite knowing I'll be alone and cannot take leave! She simply said, your mum cannot take care for u meh?!
THAT"S NOT THE POINT! My Mom has said she is not buying in to such an excuse given by my troublesome MIL! She will not give in to help my MIL take over my son and maid on an indefinite basis, more so when she found out it's not a genuine case of common flu/cold/fever; it is merely an old ailment that got worse because she cannot stop playing her weekly mahjong for long hours (hence the shoulder aches and painful eyes!)
My mom got really mad with my MIL for wanting to go gallivanting in Malaysia, and said she is occupied with taking care of my bro's two babies...well, but of course! My bro gives my mom a token and I don't, so my mom should fulfil her duties to help my bro take care of his two babies. My MIL cannot assume that my mom is forever her backup or covering infantcare centre, when my mom is already bogged down with two babies! It's really sickening that she just tell you, I gotta go to Malaysia, so dont bring your son here on Monday, as and when she wants to go visit that voodoo doctor. There is really no end to these visitations! FED UP!
sarah: I've no idea what medicine u mentioned
mamyvelle: I already got those 6 cans of enfapro.