jvenus,
yup my mil already told me before hand, hire a CL cos she wants to sleep at night!!! and she say she wants to sleep in a separate room so baby will not disturb her. as if not enough, she told me to hire a maid as well. so when CL leaves, the maid can be her assistant when i sleep in the day time cos she insist i must do teh night shift ALONE and sleep with the baby in baby;s room n let hubby sleep at night!!!!
( u know, preg pp not suppose to curse n swear..."tai jiao" right?....all my "french" almost came out of my mouth when i told hubby about this ) hubby assured me nothing of this sort will happ. she is planning all these herself, but the fact is, she will not stay over when CL leave. she will only b allowed to come to our place once or twice a wk, that's all.
at first mil wants to take care of my baby and ask me to go to work. after she help take care of my nephew with my fil for 2 wks only, she complain too tired, she booked to go massage etc. and came to me and say: u better don;t work. u take care of the baby yrself, but she will come and stay over to play with the baby when i sleep with the maid assisting her. WISHFUL THINKING!
M2B,
3 kids is quite a handful for old people lei. see my mil n fil, 2 person also cannot tahan 2 wks. can get a maid, if she is hard working. just be sure that yr mil is not someone that leaves her coins or pouch or bracelets etc around. if nothing valuable, no need to worry. for me. i'm quite at peace with the maid cos everything imp is locked up. even if she finds my safe also no use unless she is like my bro's maid, everyday try new combo!!! but hubby will install a cam in our room where the safe is, a cam facing the main door where her room is near and maybe another in the baby;s room. like tt can really have peace
