Megan,
Give it to him? I can't bear to .... cos i feel in the end the kids are the ones who will "suffer". So i only complain here - jus to feel better la. hahahaa
This forum quite good place to just air out the frustrations so i dun bottle up. After that, it's gone.
He's done alot as a hubby during this period, i must say. It's true alot of men dun help out and i think your hubby is one who does help out kind
I guess I am not the take everything and keep quite kind of XIAN QI LIANG MU .... which is what my hubby expects he says. Well, i can't live up to the role and i do complain here la.
Sometimes complain to him then fight lor. Last week, i was so upset that abt ceratin things and i wanted to just go out at nite, dun go home straight after work, let him handle the kids alone .... but in the end, he apologised and then say he'll help me out with the ironing instead of nagging at me for not finishing with it .... so I XIN LUAN ... went home. In fact, we both did the ironing on Fri and Sat nite till 3-4am from midnite for both days. IMagine the mountain of clothes to iron.
I oredi let hubby go out when he needs for his meeting, etc ..... and i handle both alone before .. sometimes i feel certain entertainment are not that necessary.
If i help to do my hubby's part, he'll be quietly happy but dun offer to help to do my part .... u see la. take advantage of me.
i roar oso no use ..... cos he knows mine against him no power one liao.
i am ok la ... just sometimes want to complain and vent it out .... well, life goes on and have to make do with our own situation rite? look on the bright side, compare to alot of hubbies, he does help out quite alot liao, and i just have to lower my expectations - which he says quite high. Hmmm, maybe? maybe not, depends on who u compare with ... hahha. So dun try to compare, just appreciate the good things that there.
Maid. Good news. She is COMING BACK
Thank God.
just finalised the final piece of news yesterday that her permit had been approved and now pending some other documents, etc ... should be back 2 weeks later. Keeping fingers crossed that nothing else goes wrong cos I really have to take another maid if that's the case.
Actually waiting for her for so long, we suffer quite abit oso, mostly me. Nonetheless, since she is quite a good maid (our standard vv low one) so we dun mind waiting and oso it's a hard life for her if she goes back home ....hope our wait is worth the while - i believe so
So i am looking forward to a better life.
Work will get busy in April .. and i am hoping to take a short trip after maid comes back - i need a break! hehe.
Now that i've experience all the work myself, i guess i'll make more efforts to help out with the maid when she comes back and not take her for granted. it's really not easy to do the job.
i have to try to sleep train Kai so he does not wake up .... so far, he's been quite ok and wakes up some days only.
Yesterady he slept from 9am-4pm, then wake up, sleep from 6pm onwards again. At nite, 11pm slept till 4+am, feed then sleep till this morning 7+am for another feed.
he sleeping too much or not ah? most of his time are sleeping one ... wonder if any baby like him?
