batgirl,
Haha. Yah, it's tough. I try to do it occasionally too and it sounds really weird and fake to my own ears. But occasional is better than nothing right?
PB,
Just persevere! In the beginning, when I didn't speak so much Mandarin at first, Declan also asked, "Mama, why you talk Chinese? You know Chinese?" Wah seh, I felt like I just kena suan by a 2.5 year old child!
SY,
Declan's grandparents are pro-Chinese one. They are those that have Chinese paintings in the house, practice calligraphy and talk about Chinese history at gatherings.