cellow
I always talk terms with D......hahaha
But sadly it didn't work ......cos ......sigh ....and I really blame myself for being itchy finger for buying tix and going to that bbprom. Cos he got really lost there and he has a phobia of that place now and everytime i mention it he will just keep telling me he doesn't wanna go there, he dun like the place. And he started this very extreme separation anxiety that has me pulling my hair sometimes.
I'll offer sweet or like last night, he kapo a chewing gum from his uncle so I told him he could eat it after sch today. And we'll be going to IKEA (next door cos we send van for repair as kanna bump by idiot so I go collect it back) And if I were to go into class with him, I will sit behind where all the mummies sit and he would sit infront and he's not supposed to come looking for me.
But well, he went toilet with the class while i wait in his classroom and he came back crying.....TWICE!!!! But he did pee the 2nd time while crying.............haha
So I'm gonna be the hardhearted mummy and leave him to class alone tomorrow since its gonna be 2 hrs this week.
And I was saying to him.... why he cried since he knows very well I am waiting for him in the classroom. There is no reason to cry right?
He tells me in his just sobbed voice, next time you give me bring handphone to class. When I cannot find you I can call u.
*faint man*
Yay for your positive thinking and yay to Mr C for thinking of u and the kids.
youpi
Was gonna ask you abt S's 1st day.
Sigh.....D always gives me all the politically correct ans so I really dunno hw to deal with it leh. Tell him I will not go into class with him he just ask "Why?". Then I explain its his sch not mine, I only go in to see hw his sch is like for the 1st 2 days. After that no parents are allowed in. Then he okie.
I ask him abt tml, "he says I will be waiting at the sofa area and he will be in class"
But I know for sure he will start crying the moment I leave...........sigh
And the teacher when I asked when exactly D start crying when he went toilet with the class, told me he actually started alittle once they walked to the toilet but he still managed to wash hands or pee lah while still crying......hehe
And she was saying their age quite attached to parent and I was saying D's actually okie all along until he got lost once.
Then she said, "Oh, no wonder he was really terrified and keep wanting to rush back to the class"
sigh.........my heart is oh so wrenching when I heard that.
Really dunno hw to manage his this fear leh. Anyone got any tips I can try?
I always talk terms with D......hahaha
But sadly it didn't work ......cos ......sigh ....and I really blame myself for being itchy finger for buying tix and going to that bbprom. Cos he got really lost there and he has a phobia of that place now and everytime i mention it he will just keep telling me he doesn't wanna go there, he dun like the place. And he started this very extreme separation anxiety that has me pulling my hair sometimes.
I'll offer sweet or like last night, he kapo a chewing gum from his uncle so I told him he could eat it after sch today. And we'll be going to IKEA (next door cos we send van for repair as kanna bump by idiot so I go collect it back) And if I were to go into class with him, I will sit behind where all the mummies sit and he would sit infront and he's not supposed to come looking for me.
But well, he went toilet with the class while i wait in his classroom and he came back crying.....TWICE!!!! But he did pee the 2nd time while crying.............haha
So I'm gonna be the hardhearted mummy and leave him to class alone tomorrow since its gonna be 2 hrs this week.
And I was saying to him.... why he cried since he knows very well I am waiting for him in the classroom. There is no reason to cry right?
He tells me in his just sobbed voice, next time you give me bring handphone to class. When I cannot find you I can call u.
*faint man*
Yay for your positive thinking and yay to Mr C for thinking of u and the kids.
youpi
Was gonna ask you abt S's 1st day.
Sigh.....D always gives me all the politically correct ans so I really dunno hw to deal with it leh. Tell him I will not go into class with him he just ask "Why?". Then I explain its his sch not mine, I only go in to see hw his sch is like for the 1st 2 days. After that no parents are allowed in. Then he okie.
I ask him abt tml, "he says I will be waiting at the sofa area and he will be in class"
But I know for sure he will start crying the moment I leave...........sigh
And the teacher when I asked when exactly D start crying when he went toilet with the class, told me he actually started alittle once they walked to the toilet but he still managed to wash hands or pee lah while still crying......hehe
And she was saying their age quite attached to parent and I was saying D's actually okie all along until he got lost once.
Then she said, "Oh, no wonder he was really terrified and keep wanting to rush back to the class"
sigh.........my heart is oh so wrenching when I heard that.
Really dunno hw to manage his this fear leh. Anyone got any tips I can try?