(2008/06) June 2008

Today my boy refused to take any food. Last 2 days he only took few pieces of jelly and no other food throughout the whole day. Ored slim until bones and all. haiz.

we try to keep him hydrated by giving him water.
 


He finally took some food yesterday after 3 days of hardly eating.

He wanted to eat his fav food during the 3 days but the ulcers are too painful for him to swallow so he will cry whenever he try to eat, until he become so scared of eating tat he refuse to try any more food after 1-2 tries.
 
Today bring ah boy back to school after 12 days break. It is like his 1st day to school, cry and scream until the roof wanna collapse. No choice but to leave while he is crying.
 
ellysia
glad that your boy is recovered
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now avril's doing well in school, as long as its not me bringing her to school she's fine and happy
 
He recovered from HM but caught the flu bug last week. Bring him to see PD on Fri. He is not comfortable with the drowsy running nose medicine, keep cranky before he nap, and want to be carried and walk around like an infant.

dunno why whenever he is sick, his behavior is like back to infant stage.
 
Ellysia,
Did you try to clear his nose?
normally I will rotate my finger on the side of his nose to clear it. apply some oil on his chest. Will make him feel better.
 
<font color="aa00aa">Morning ladies, long time din come in here.
But seems like here now so quiet.

Last week, both of ger was sick, fever and flu. And yesterday i started to get sore throat, cant even talk, today oso. The haze really make my consider worsen. Quite worry for my YuJie as she had bronchitis and ezcema prob. Sigh...

Btw, can i know if kid is sick, can we still feed them with vitamins and scotts emulsion?

ellysia,
kid are like that. When YuJie was sick, i'll called her 'koala bear' coz she'll want us to keep carrying her oso. Maybe they feel uncomfortable and dont know how to express, feel more secure with us carrying them kua.</font>
 
Aiyo. Me also get infected by the flu bug. Voice become husky for 2 days, then cough really bad. Same, the haze make it worse.

Yest my boy took a meat ball cooked by my MIL. Then my MIL panic bec she uses egg to make the meat balls. But surprisingly my boy didn't have any allergic reaction. I really hope tat it means he is no longer allergic to egg, or maybe the Skin prick test result on egg is a false positive.
 
Felicia,

I oso call my boy "koala bear" when he become so sticky. anyway we stop tat med as we suspect is the med make him cranky more than the flu &amp; cough. after stop med he is better le. i tink next time have to tell pd not to give tat med.
 
<font color="aa00aa">ZuEn,
Congrats!

Ellysia, me now still coughing. Really sianz! The haze make me feel breathless too. Pray hard the haze quick quick go away.</font>
 
Congrats Zuen!
I jumped Q...was suppose to be a Nov mummy. End up my girl wanna chiong out...so I popped on 19 Oct... she is a 35+5 days old when she came out. She is now still in hospital while I discharged on friday. Hope she can come out tmrw.
 
Felicia

same my coughing haven't cure yet, still coughing n haze make it worse. Lucky during weekend got rain so its get better. Nighttime my cough is the worst. Wake my boy up few times in the night due to my coughing cos we sleep together.
 
Hi all...

ZuEn,
Congrats!! How u coping?

Janiviy,
Dun worry ya...she will put on more weight soon..Is she still in hospital? You must take care of yourself ya....

Felicia,
hi ya...I am also havign this dry cough lor, once start to cough, can cough quite sometime de..hiaz..
 
My boy is starting to cough again. Last nite vomited. Sian.
This sat flying to Penang, hope he get well soon but just starting. Wonder should I bring him to see PD before it get worst? Today already Tue and Fri he got performance. errrrrrrrrr.


Janiviy,
Is your BB still in hospital? Is it due to the weight thus cannot discharge?
 
Connie

wah yr boy participate in the cc concert.
I didn't let my boy participate. end up he is the only one in the cc tat didnt participate.. zzz.

jan

Tat is 2KG? need to reach 2.5KG then can discharge? 35 weeks is fine.. 37 weeks considered ok so only 2 weeks earlier.
 
Ellysia,
Thought it will be a good exposure for him.
Teacher say he refuse to wear the costume.
Hope his health condition don worsen else everything gone case. haiz.

Jan,
So how heavy is your bb?
 
Feifei,Connie,
She came home on Sunday.=)

Ellysia, Connie,
She was 2.47kg when she is born, but loss weight. She came home at 2.3Kg. She stayed at NICU for 3 days for obersavation. 2nd day she had an episode whereby she stop breathing when the nurse put a pacifier in her mouth, (i dunno why they wanna put a pacifer in her mouth?)thats why stayed another day at NICU. Then was trasfered to nursery to go under the light for her jaundice.
 
jan

2.4KG is a good weight ored i tink..
so she was in NICU bec due to born early? Cos i tot the wt is quite ok.

so when u can fetch her back home? u visit her every day at hosp?
 
Tis week i have been trying to 'train' my boy to walk in CC in the morn without me carrying him and passing him to teacher while carrying. I also try to tok to him and tell him that big boy dun cry so i be happy tat he didn't cry when i drop him off at CC. Initially it works for a few days but yesterday he refuse to walk in but didn't cry. Today he walk in but he cry. Sigh, next year will be N1 and he still want to be carried in to CC. I see his classmate can walk in guai guai, no cries and sweet goodbye to her mum. how come he can't do it.. still so insecure. anyway to suggest to improve the situation?
 
Ellysia,
hope u can make it. Mine cos maid bring so he ok to walk. If I bring, must carry.

Today the show very funny. The PG1 kids are stun when the curtain are drawn. Some just stand there, only 1 boy kept dancing in the 1st play.

My son in the 2nd play, he laugh n dance. very cute. He was laughing away searching for daddy in the clowd while dancing. His make up dam thick and red.
 
My boy attended CC since Feb but he still will cry and dun want to walk in in the morning drop off though sometimes he is ok. I am trying another tactic now.. hope it works.
 
Morn mummies.
Ellysia,
maybe your boy want assurance more love n sayang from u before Hes left in school? So want u to hug n carry him lor. Hee

btw today is my boy 2nd day of cc.. Ah the morn is terrible.. Heartache parting part was the worse today pulled my hair so hard that I can't leave. Have to force to open his fingers. My goodness. Hope this phase is pass soon! Pray hard.
 
Ok yest he didn't cry.. but tis morn he cry until i leave the cc i can still hear his crying. sigh.

He ored attended CC for 9 months ored leh.. still behave like tat.
 
morn all mummies... gymboree having 30% off storewide... anyone want to share to save shipping? i have abt us$100 of orders myself... will order by tonite in case oos...


congrats janiviy and zuen!!
 
morning ladies...
its been a long time....

finally enrolled my gal in CC . Today is her 3rd day. wonder how she's adapting...
 
Tis morn ah boy monday blues, cry when i leave him at CC. Sigh.

We tried to toilet train him on Fri but failed. He get v stress using the potty. Guess he is not ready.
 
Any mommy tried Oragnic manuka honey from new zealand? There is offer from my son CC. 500g 15+ &amp; 250g 20+ as 1 set at S$62. Is it worth to buy?

Ellysia
First time tried on potty? Alternatively, you can try putting the child toilet seat on the toilet bowl. My son started with that.
When we tried to train him, he is only coperative for a day, good luck to your training. You must be persistant.
Although I still not successful after so long but at least now he will let me know if he want to poo. Think Roxy is success on the training.
 
Hi mummies,

How are all of your, being quite sometimes never log in this thread. It bring going very slow hor..
Me also did try to start my girl on toilet, but me too lazy to keep persistant.haha..
But will try for half a day first, else she dare not poo poo when she wanted too.
 
my boy fall down today while throwing a tantrum and he cut his ear lobe, went to KKH and did 8 stitches. Have to be on aesthetic bec he keep struggling. We waited for 4-5hrs in KKH bec he has to go w/o food for 3 hrs before can go for the op. now have to monitor n have to follow up with plastics dept. V traumatise for him.
 
We r keeping him from CC for this week just to be careful, cos sch say they worried abt his wound in sch as he may be playing with his classmates etc. Have to take leave again lor. I almost using up my leave for this year esp now is end of the year.
 
Hihi,
Long time never come in liao.
I m coping well with 2 but lil zuen is super sticky at times.

Re: toilet training
I started when I started my leave, which is abt 6 weeks ago. Lil zuen can now go w/o diaper entire day except night time. We tried to let her go diaper free when we go outside for short trips too. We still get accidents but see some results from our persistence.
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jia you.
 
Ellysia,
sorry to hear about the fall. I hope he is getting better now. U must be stressed too. U take care, okie.

Toilet training:
i am really a lazy mummy. My mo and maid had trained my boy. He will tell us when he needs to pee. On weekends, outings and nights, kyler is still on diapers. I will have to train him to go diaperless on weekends too
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Zuen,
hope to hear you are coping well. Jiayou
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hi mummies.. sorry to disturb

i have 2 tin of 1.8kg Gain IQ to let go at $52 (NTUC selling $62) and 1 tin of 900g Gain IQ to let go at $28 (NTUC selling at $32.95). All expiry is Oct 2011

letting go as my boy has changed to pediasure

collection will be at buangkok mrt.. pls pm me if u r interested.
 
ellysia, oh dear, hope he get well soon


connie.. not ah, i haven train isaiah to sit on potty yet... he still poo inside his diaper but he'll tell us go away when he want to poo cause he paiseh to let us see... when he wants to pee though, he'll tell us "ssh sssh"


im going to withdraw isaiah from ichiban, duno right thing to do or not... cause he already blend in already, very happy to go school and dun cry already.. can even walk into school himself... but since attending this school, keep falling sick and worse of all, learnt alot of bad manners like spitting and playing with saliva, beating and pushing us and even got the cheek to tell us he pushed a poor little 18mth old boy who was new in school. We are pretty upset with his behaviour and wonder whether he picked up all these bad habits from school and according to reliable source, the school chef cannot make it, always give milo and biscuits to kids.
Somehow we feel the school dun care abt kids, my sister in law tried to pick him up from home and the teacher dun even bother to ask her ic no, and whenever we dun send isaiah to school for a few days, NO one, not even teacher or principal will bother to call me and ask y isaiah never go school... when i call and tell them he's sick, they say ok. And no one bother to sms or call me few days after that to ask whether is he better and coming back? which was what cherie hearts did and i felt they were more caring
school fees was 380 and they are going to increase to 480 after subsidy faint so exp!
 
im going to sign him up for st andrew cc, went there for visit, the teachers are quite stern, we saw a notti boy misbehaving and the teacher was very stern with him ask him sit one corner and be the last to go and the boy guai guai sit one corner. Saw the kids all very well behaved, say grace etc . The teachers are all singaporeans taught at the same place for 20 over yrs n pretty stern. It a spacious place but dun really have toys inside also...tink isaiah will surely cry and wun enjoy himself so much but i tink its time he learn some discipline also. Duno whether teachers too fierce will stifle his learning or not? wat do u all tink?
 
roxy,

The CC which my boy attended is quite strict too. When i visited during trial, I noticed the kids are quite well behaved. My boy is quite rebellious. sometimes i go to CC to fetch him i saw him throwing tantrums also. Usually the teachers will ignore when the kids throw tantrums i tink. But i tink if most kids are well behaved, they tend to copy each other and so overall will have good discipline and is true my boy is more disciplined since attend CC. Whether it stifle learning or not, i am not sure but its v strange got no toys at the CC.. most impt is u feel comfortable with the place.
 
When my boy didn't attend CC, the teacher will call even before we call them. When he had HM that time, the teacher also call twice to ask how he is and give advice on treatment &amp; how to take care of him. Usually when someone else is fetching, we need to call school in advance.

My CC is going to increase fees to $580 by $100 cos they just change hands to Kinderland. I hope the discipline and everything still remain.

I tink most CC give milo and i feel is ok. Biscuits shd be fine i tink, the usual teabreak stuff.
 
Tis weekend we let ah boy tried soy milk. We tot since he ored clear the recent SPT for soy, shd be fine. although KKH ask us to go back in Jan to do the food challenge test for soy. He seems fine but seems to have a few spots of eczema. Have requested for free sample of soy formula, hope he can tolerate and will like it. he is not taking any formula for 5 mths ored since i wean off BM.
 


Roxy,
Is it located at 511 Jurong West St 52? So it will b near to ur parent place.

The first time my HB went to fetch him, noone ask for his NRIC too. Normally they will look at the child reaction ba. If the child don seem to recognise him, they will not let him take him away.

Is Teacher Maria the one who SMS you? I always received it from her only. She left and another malay took over. Z miss sch for 2 days n no sms , I will see when they start asking.

Falling sick for first few months are quite unvoidable. My frien told me that no matter which one I send, definitely need at least 6 months to stabalise. So even if u opt to change now, be prepared for the 1st 6 months.

I relying a lot on CC to guide my boy, cherrie heart are quite good although my boy are mischief there. He is following well with the studies and understand a lot of things now. Can see the teachers are caring but the air ventilation are not very good there. Maybe because the place are small. My HB comment that their flr are sticky and don't look very clean. There is once when a twins drop out due to cleaniness according to my maid.

My son do beat n push peers. They definitely learn both good n bad things in CC. I some how suspect cc that can keep tobble v descipline. How do they do that? Is there something that they do to make them scare n obey rules? If they have a naughty area, make sure it is not dark. Some CC put the notti kid into a dark room.

I finally decided to withdraw him starting from end Dec and putting him to New Life pre-nursery next yr. The teacher will be sad n so will Z but his health condition did not improve after 9 months. I do not want to take the risk and regret in future. I taking the Pd advise to withdraw.

I told the principle if he cannot adapt to the new sch, will consider to bring him back.
 

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