Crystal & Fiona, I missed out your earlier posts. Think my eyes crossed liao.
Crystal, you are not mean lar, just that well, how your PIL treated you, you feel that its ok for my gal 'not to let' mine carry her. In fact, my PIL they are ok, only occassionally my MIL will come up with patterns, and hopefully she will not force me to let Vivienne taken care by her when she grows older (I have plans for her to go childcare.)
About Pri Alumni, yes, you will get higher chance if you opt for a pri which your hb was previously from. For me, it was only a thought that my kids can go my ex sch, but too far, no matter how good it is.
Fiona, thanks for sharing. I was SAHM previously to my son and like you, hb avoided me and did not bring me out meet his friends. I was when I was working, then he start to bring me out to their house warmings. But I dun think I can be like you, put on makeup,etc, coz I have sensitive skin, can only try to keep skin clean and myself neat with suitable nice clothes.