<font color="aa00aa">morning gers!
M so fuming since last nite wif my current maid whom I co-share wif my SIL. She had been getting more & more insubordinate since couple of mths back, knowing tat her contract is ending.
The last straw for me last nite was when I happen to go to the kitchen to wash my hands @ ard 9pm, I saw her washing bb’s bottles & within the bottles,
1. there is yellow liquid detergent with lots of bubbles. It caught my suspicion tat she might or might not be using the pigeon washing liquid which I bought specially for gwen’s stuff & using my MIL’s mammy lemon detergent instead;
2. for each 150ml of the breastfeeding bttles, she had it filled wif 50ml of detergent (not including all the bubbles)!
So I questioned her: -</font>
<font color="119911">Me: which detergent u using to wash bb’s bottles?
Maid: the one you & sir bought.
Me: how come the liquid is light yellow? (noting tat the pigeon liquid cleanser is white in colour)
Maid: I dunno. You dun trust me is it?
Me: when it comes to bb’s stuff, I m very particular. I dun care how u wash our stuff (adults) but I pay attn to bb’s things.
Maid: then you wash them yourself since u dun trust me.
Me: because I do wash them myself when I at hm over wkends, tat’s y when this is different, I will question.
Maid: then you can also wash them yourself when you are here lar (meaning at my MIL’s plc on wkdays).</font>
<font color="aa00aa">hence last nite onwards, not oni she didn't bother to wash my bb’s bttles – she left them in the sink, she also didn't bother to sterilize my pump tis am nor bb’s bttles used during the nite. So nvr mind, I do everything myself & pack my own FTG (which usually she is suppose to do), etc while my hb rushed ard making our coffee (usually she is suppose to make for us but tis am she hided in the toilet on pretext of washing clothes).
I m so fuming mad & kept asking myself where I go wrong? I cant even qn a maid when I think something is fishy concerning my bb? Whereas all these while I didn't even bother to take offense when she qn me y on some occasions I ve lil BM or more BM & why I cant produce more BM, etc. told hb & MIL, both of them tell me to ignore the maid. Dun understand y I m paying someone $ but I still ve to stand her non-sense. Now wishing my new maid come soon (scheduled for 1st Nov) but if my new maid gives me such non-senses as well, she will jolly go hm! The last thing I need is in-subordination from maid at hm!
Sorry for the venting early in the morning but I reai cant tahan….will burst….</font>