Felval, My FIL's credit is Hubby sup for them one... That's why if don't pay, the one who kanna all the sh*t is hubby. No choice
I always think if they have savings, I still feel more secure, cos end of the day if they really cannot dig any more money from Hubby, they have no choice but to use their own savings. But if they really no savings, Jia liat liao, if really very bad emergency...
I also very sure if any money incurred for medical purposes, confirm hubby "tong" liao. If hubby cannot "tong", I can't possibly watch him suffer rite? That's why I hope, either nothing happen to them or if anything happen, don't end up dragging for long term one. Haiz.
My PILs bet on 4Ds and MIl play Mahjong. But they shop alot. Everyday come back from lunch outside, always "Da bao Xiao bao" one. They spend money like tap water, no supply, just stretch hands.
Icebaby, your PILs deserve to spend lah, since it's their own money. But for me, Hubby give them, I keep quiet cos afterall they brought him up. But for me, I don't wanna contribute to the family cos they gave me nothing. In fact, even cook some tonics, I'm not even included. Why should I come up with the money?
In fact, our Ang pows from wedding dinner already given them,even my share. Although not cash, but to pay off FIL's credit card bills. Imagine how much they clocked up? I think they only dare not ask me pawn my jewellery for them only, if I offer, I doubt they'll reject also. But I not that stupid lah...