just to share my personal tots
I think it is natural for a majority of us to feel the initial disappointment with the same gender in the next birth..it is human nature..so dun hav to feel guilty abt it
Compared to TTC mummies, we are very fortunate i noe..but most humans are greedy in nature, and I admit honestly tat i am too
I thank heaven that I can have kids and I appreciate that good heath is the most impt
If both criterias are met, i will then wish for a balance
if my 1st is a boy, 2nd is a boy..i will be disppointed as well..tat's me, but not all mums
but i will be sadder if it is all boys rather than all gals
tat's me again
so i m very happy i am not in my SIL's shoes
<font color="0000ff">venue</font>
hehe, i was very annoyed with him tat time
i was trying so hard to do total BF and he is like so scared his child will starve..i just went downstairs for a quick while and by the time i rushed up, the bb was having FM
at least my mum dun feed the bb formula milk in my absence
i nagged at him so many times in my confinement , reminding him tat it is a vicious cycle, if the bb dun suckle=> no stimulate => less milk
<font color="0000ff">Reena</font>
i feel comforted by ur post, i have become a Lipton Tea Addict and b4 preg , i never drank tea or coffee
I drank everyday and TRY my best to limit to 2 cups a day
<font color="0000ff">linda</font>
dreams are opposite of reality
so all should be well lah
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talking abt nitemare, last nite i dreamt of a little GAL who drowned ..it was so vivid..and so sad
HAIZ..i woke up thinking I better dun let my kids go near water
I shared with hb & mum the nitemare today..