re: allowance
talking about bringing them to holiday. no way man...
our interest is totally different.
but coming CNY will go cruise with them. at least cruise is OTOT
sweetpea,
exactly. the burden is always heavier for elder son/daughter.
by the time i start working, all my brother and sisters are already have earning power.
and now, 2 of my sis who are having 3 kids already no longer brings money home because of the financial burdern that they have.
i think it's fair as they have already been supporting the family for very many years (they are 11/12 years older than me).
re: education
iso,
exchange is a good idea too.
tubao,
if stay in hostel, make sure she doesn't bring her clothes back home to wash.
my hb stayed in hostel for half a year, monday to friday. brought his clothes back home to wash and iron.
till now he can't operate washing machine and iron clothes!!
another disadvantage of being in singapore, it's so easy and cheap to find food outside. no motivation to learn cooking. (excuse for me for don't know how to cook.

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i shake my head when saw a gal whose parent came to hostel to help her clean the room during the holiday. hai.. spoilt child.
re: scholarship
nothing else more important as long as she's happy.
read so much about scholars being pressurised so much till suicide. scared scared..
breaking the bond is another thing. what if he/she really don't like to work in that company/government sector? must teach them to carefully consider when taking up scholarship (talk as if mine is so clever and can get scholarship like that

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re: long weekend
bkkgal,
my weekends spent at home taking care of the small one, and the big one!! i've decided that i can't make a good housewife.
i get angry when i see hb playing games and leave C playing alone while i busy preparing food.
worse still, my food is not appreciated and i've got to clean up the kitchen by myself.
hence, i told hb - forget about cooking. he pay $ and go and buy food back next time.
re: active toddler
when in supermarket, she will sit in the trolley till she buay tahan (maybe 1 hour later).
we can't let her run about in supermarket as there's always lots of ppl. when she feels frustrated, hb will bring her to toys section to entertain her with the soft toys.
re: sewing machine
tubao,
i am eyeing those can sew ABC and some disney character one. expensive..
currently no budget assigned. next year maybe?
re: throwing tantrum
i seriously feel that their terrible 2 is approaching..
don't know what to do with her too..
when not happy, she will just lie on the floor. hai..
re: toilet train
i've not yet started training. don't have the patience doing that.
same as tute, afraid that she will dirty the sofa, chair, etc.
see how, my mum coming end of the month. she has experience of training.. hehe...
re: 2nd one
there's a joey in facebook just delivered the second one.
is that joeey from feb?