Hi mommies
been so busy at work..thread very active ah
no time with bb
i think i'm very lucky. My MIL comes and stays overnight at my place on sunday night so that she can look after bb on monday and she oso supervise my helper to cook dinner. after dinner, PILs go home. From Tues to Fri, my mom comes over to take care of bb. mom lives 5-6 bus-stops away. She usually comes by 7.30am as I leave for work by 7.45am. So far, the arrangement is good cos it gives me max time with bb without having to shuttle between 2 parents' homes.
Minute bb wakes up sat 6.30, I latch and then pump and eat at same time. after that bathe, dress up, play with bb 5mins, take her pic with my hp (i always take 1 pic of her b4 leaving house so i can look at her while i pump at work) and leave. at work, like berry said, i usually eat a sandwich abt 5pm so that i won't be so hungry when i get back. minute i reach home, i latch her or if she still good mood, i take quick shower and latch and play with her 20-30 mins. after that, me and hb put her to bed. then we have dinner.
after dinner, i nap until midnight, wake up and pump and then when bb wakes up 3-4am, i latch again.
i would LOVE to have more time with bb but i think this is the best i can do already. I just make sure that I play with her every minute i have. Surprisingly, she seems to know every evening that mommy is coming home and she will stay awake for me.
bcos time is so precious, i feel like i've become a MUCH MORE productive worker. Every minute I have I squeeze double the amt of work in so that I can knock off on time and rush home to be with bb. On weekends, I bring some work home so that I can spread out the time abit and not stay late on weekdays.
SS
surprisingly, my ss seems to have increased after the initial dip when i started work. dunno is it cos my pumping technique getting better or cos i take goat's rue 4 times a day or wat...but very happy cos nowadays i get 160ml each pump.