cheryl,
the hb is mcp. can't handle the kid and no intention to learn to take care of the kid.
pauline,
yaloh. that's what i always insist ppl to do - find me a solution before you object my proposal!!
find my friend very poorthing, no leave left and now slim down a lot
sunny,
i don't know how's their communication, but my impression about his hb is that he's a spoilt child.
if i were to have a mcp husband, i won't want to be SAHM too. without income, sure the hb will demand everything from her.
grace,
i am so irritated when she told me about it. feel like scolding him. that's why come here to air it out.
bluegin,
i can emphatize your situation of ppl smoke in front of you and channet, especially now your are pregnant.
my hb has a smoker uncle go their house very frequently for mj. and he doesn't feel anything wrong to smoke in front of pregnant woman or children. when i was pregnant, i always hide myself in the room if he's around. until one day i cannot tahan because he smoke in front of C when she's not yet 1 month old. i told him off immediately and now he never dare to do it again.
but he also 'bu zhi dong' one, he nipped the durian and stuffed his finger into C's mouth although we already told him C has enough durian. YUCKY!!! me and hb were very unhappy about that incident.
problem is that they are your pil, very difficult to tell them off and cannot forbid them to see channet. probably sending her to playgroup is a much better option.
channet so cute. i am sure will laugh if C do this to me.