linda,
yes, depends on gynae. my SIL who has natural delivery does not need to shave..
last nite read abt ur hb having to go out for entertainment.. ur hb so good, dun wan u to fetch him so late, and come back himself.. 12plus still early.. i remembered got one time, when i was pregnant wif my 1st child, my hb oso went for drinks with his customer.. he left ard 9pm plus and said he will be back ard 12am or so.. when i woke up at 3am plus, i dun see him, called him immediately and he told mi he is still stuck with them. i told him, he shd inform me ahead so i know mah, he said he din wan to disturb me cos i m sleeping.. i was quite angry wif him then..