kitsune
balcony is not a good idea for notti corner cos it's not safe! The place shud be somewhere safe where u can see her cos what if she climbs up?? Doesnt have to be consistently one corner. What i did was just to simply ask her stand one side/corner, ANY corners in the house, and that she's supp to stand and NOT do anything (fiddle, sit, jump) while i meddle or rather pretend to meddle with my things. When u initially start, make sure u are nearby cos she will definitely attempt to walk over to u.
Pixie
i can give u a lift if u want cos shud be renting a car and driving around town again haha!
Chaye
Here're a few good books i read
1)Setting Limits with Your Strong-Willed Child : Eliminating Conflict by Establishing Clear, Firm, and Respectful Boundaries
2) I Brake For Meltdowns
3) The Secret Lives of Toddlers
4) The Emotional Life of the Toddler
5) Parenting a Defiant Child
All nice readings and make u understand more...often, when i read i will go..."oh, so like my child!" hahahaha
Tongtong
Eh, i'm also interested leh. But ever since i sold my nail spa away (losing money cos i wasnt in town to manage), hubby a bit sceptical of letting me invest in a biz anymore