for #1, i used to cook porridge for him, loaded with all sorts of yummilicious stuff, and he downed 1.5 bowls every meal.
now, the slow cooker is with my mum since she uses it Mon-Fri. Weekends either i stand over a pot on the stove for 1hr, stirring & making sure it doesn't overboil.. or i make instant 3min porridge which he doesn't like (maybe not watery enuf), or i give him cereal with fruit. The last option is the fastest and easiest on everyone. Husband busy with #1, or busy resting and can't help me watch #2 while he screams for me thru the kitchen gate... sometimes we go out on short notice, and i can't just leave the porridge half cooked etc...
surely, there are solutions - buy another mini-slow cooker, invest in those Thermos thingies that can continue cooking even after removal fr stove... maybe i'll be forced to do that if he gets sick of his weekend cereal feeds. Hopefully by then he can already take soupy rice.