violetice
Baby Ian is sooooo cute & handsome!! Very "chik ark" to say this but the one where he's on his tummy crying very cute and ke lian leh. kekeke. Btw, it's actually good to let him sit more unsupported but monitored. No such thing as hurting his back, by letting him sit, u're strengthening his back.
First Teeth
I also got buy before i left Sg last time. Do we only apply on baby gums when confirmed teething ie got teeth sprouting out or can apply now to the gum oredi?
mom2nat
yah, my mom is here until end of July, then she's going back to Sg for 1-2months, up until we go back to Sg in Sept, then she'll return to HK with us. I'm having a little cold feet thinking about being alone with baby. Altho technically speaking, i am already doing almost all the baby care myself now, i rely on my mom for like "emergency" help and also companionship. It's a mind comfort sort of thing to KNOW someone's there shud i need any help. I have sort of mini anxiety attacks jus thinking about being alone. At first i tot i'm useless lo, but only now, after being pointed out by one of my la leche leader that these are the signs of PND. Come to think of it, it's not surprising to know i have PND, cos my history all indicate i have high chance of developing ie death in family, moving house, moving abroad, fussy baby, labour not according to birth plan, etc
kitsune
Yah, it's been a year but...sadly i dont feel any better...yet. I suspect i have just been burying the feelings by being busy with caring for my baby. They say time is the best med..i'm still waiting for time to pass but i suspect i will never fully recover from it cos how do u just forget the loss of someone so dear in your life and some more just prior to what is supp to be a happy event (welcoming his first grandchild)? Possibly never bah.
Ah well, sorry to be so negative.
