ahcapp
i laughed when u say half naked...me too, during confinement time, perpetually walk around the house with top unbutton. My PJs is the one bought from Mothercare, u know those popping button, so, my hubby disturbed me say i'm like Superman now, every time baby cries, i have to pry the shirt open like superman to the rescue. Yah, totally agree with u...no more sexy wife, i also worried how hubby view me now...jus a cow milking. As for feeling not productive, yah, it IS a bit boring to be feeding, changing diapers at home..but think of it this way, taking full 3mths will enable u to care for child during the most important time of his life...he's developing so fast, before u know it, he's not an infant anymore and u will miss this stage of him soon.
When Icy said "tahan for 6mths" dats becos she mentioned her hubby going away for overseas assignment for 6mths, so she's alone handling this routine i think.
MomMe
me too got the MIM sling as a gift...but i think the adjusting the ring part like very troublesome, i also bought the Pupsik sling, but when put bb inside, bb seems too tight, dunno if i got the sizing correctly, sigh. Would really like to master the sling so i can nurse handsfree.
mcfluffy
i think u also have the "what to expect-the first year" book rite? I read it and it said by the time bb 3-4 weeks old, we shud have some demands of our own regarding the feeding. Shud slowly try to stretch the feeding interval. Also got some tips on how to wake a sleeping bb.
Blackbatz
Jialat, my leappad system kena shipped over liao...i didnt open it to test at all
I can totally agree with ur fear of falling off the bed..when i was alone in the room without my hubby, i also very scared of falling asleep and dropping baby. Last time a fren told me a joke, she said she latch and latch and latch until so tired, one day she woke up and frantically look for baby cos disappear from her arms! Turns out, she was so tired she doesnt even rem CL taking baby away from her and the feeding has long ended before then.
Steph
sorry forgot to answer ur question about insurance. Actually when the agent came to our house, my hubby was the one who settled all the decision on wat policies to buy...i jus roughly know got endowment and life policy. If u wan i can intro my agent to u, he's also a long time fren.