steph
it's ok not to gain weight @ 1st tri. in fact for my #1, i lost 2kg. This time round, the tummy big big, people think i fat lor.
i want to keep secret for as long as i can.. o'wise people say "Wah, 3 months only your tummy so BIG ah!" then i very shy ma... now just let them think i'm fat lor. hahaha. Only few close friends, closest relatives, and 1 colleague (who asked me outright) know abt #2. People who ask me directly, i don't deny. But few people ask. I think they scared to offend me.. "what if she's not pregnant and just FAT?" *hiak*
some colleagues glance at my tummy and ask me when i'm going to hv #2.. i tell them to wait lor. hahaha.