Pixie, haha, she's still adjusting lor. Got initiative but do wrong things. Tell her when she do wrongly, sometimes she cries. Alamak, never even raise voice or scold, just use different tone hor.

She does try to bond with RaeAnne but my gal too sticky to me. Somemore she got constipation since she came to Singapore, everyday tell me her poo poo problem. Let her eat prunes, papaya, apples, laxative from TCM, still no use.
Trying to teach her how to cook but it's not easy cos I'm not a good cook. Eg. you know I can't really fry rice mah. This afternoon, FIL going to fry rice cos yesterday left a lot of rice. Want to keep her there to learn, he also not willing. With my big tummy and no car, I can't be dropping RaeAnne off at ILs place and sending my maid somewhere else to learn cooking right? But as long as the maid is not independent (can't cook without supervision, can't feed RaeAnne alone), I can't bring RaeAnne back home after playgroup cos I can't manage cooking for RaeAnne, feeding her, bathing her and still have time to cook my own lunch and eat lunch mah. Vicious cycle. Sian. Today, my friend in the east wanted to meet me for a belated birthday treat also cannot go out to enjoy.
Lots more posts about my maid at my blog
www.anewpiggy.blogspot.com, don't want to bore those mummies with no maids.
