hi mummies,
Its been a long long time. How's everybody getting on? I seldom online these days (sigh, I miss the Sg's unlimited broadband), so only managed to come in here and read once in a while.
Wow, quite a nbr of mummies hv given birth to another baby. Congrats to all those who have another addition to the family. For me, love to have more but realistically, think 2 is enough.
Rachel, hang in there. I can understand how you feel. I'm still SAHM after quitting my job way back in 2006. I went back to work earlier this year for abt 2 mths, when I'm at work, I found that I think a lot abt the kids. Although I do terribly miss being financially independent and more capable, but I have grown to treasure every min that I can spend with my kids. Now, I find hands-on taking care of kids 24x7 quite pleasurable though frustrating at times. Once in a while, I do think of putting nbr2 into childcare so that I can work part time. Maybe its bcos I just want some "me" time.
Kaylen is going thru terrible 2s at the moment. Quite a nbr of times, I lost my cool and shouted at her. I even "smacked" her on the hand, thigh cos she just refused to listen. I feel so bad. Sometimes, I make her go inside the room, ask her to stay there to scream and cry all she wants. I'll leave her there for a couple of minutes (at the same time to let myself gather my cool) before I go in and try to calm her down and talk to her nicely.
Lately, Kaylen also been eating less. When my mum was here, she got so upset when she cooked porridge or rice for Kaylen but after a few mouths, Kaylen refused to eat. Her milk intake now is only abt 600ml a day. She snacks a lot on junk food (biscuits, cakes, chips, oats, fruits, instant noodle, chocolates, ...) Yes, I'm guilty of being a terrible mummy, letting her eat all the unhealthy food.
Kaylen is picking up things pretty fast these days. She wants to do everything by herself. So she often says "I do, I feed, I eat, I hold, I take, I wear, I fetch jie jie school, ...". She can say A to C, 1 to 3, call pa pa, ma ma, po po, jie jie, ko ko, auntie, uncle, ye ye, ... She now likes to say "shi shi" when she wants to wee-wee (even if she is wearing her diapers). She will go to the toilet and sit on her potty or toilet to wee. After she poo, she'll come and tell us as well. She can recognise most of the animals and when we point it out to her, she can tell us the names. She likes to sing and plays the piano. We are trying to teach her to recognise ABCs, numbers and colours now. We also trying to teach both kids Mandarin & Cantonese ( we regret not teaching my nbr1 these languages long time ago).