missylan,
k I'll remember that
Ankh,
I started training my boy using the 'cry it out' method in March.. Think took us 1 month for him to be able to settle himself to sleep by a bit of crying.. Then along the way, changes our method coz we don't really like him to cry to sleep...
We stick to the same routine for night sleeping.
1)Bathe/wipe him
2) change into PJ
3) Switch on Air-con & Music. Off lights, switch on dim lights.. (while carrying him around the room)
4) Talk to him and slowly show him his cot
5) Lay him down on his cot, look at hime and smile and kiss his tummy..
Now add one more step, pin his hands and legs down so he doesn't get to move them about and can't get to sleep..
I must agree sleep training is very tough. My boy got confused at one stage when my mother and mother-in-law kept carrying him to sleep. Now my MIL really follows my method so things are better.
Guess the key word is consistency and be very calm if baby cries...
Anyway, my boy got this toy which he likes and I place it near him. At times I'll use it to calm him down if he refuses to sleep.
For naps, I'll just pin his hands and legs down..
If I don't, he'll end up tucking at his shirt, suck his t-shirt, suck his toes etc etc and won't sleep