rachel...i know what u mean abt associating carrying with sleeping...i oso don't wish that.
the funnie thing is, before this, all i need to do to get her to sleep is to put her in the cot when she's sleepy, turn her to the side, give her pacifier, pat her and she will be able to sleep.
then, we moved back to sg from hkg. and after a few days in sg, when we did the same thing, she started crying and won't stop crying! sometimes can cry for half an hour type. then bo pian, heart pain leh, have to carry her. from then on, everytime must carry her for a while. before she "guai guai" lie in bed and sleep. best part is, she seems to only want either me or hubbie to carry her...anybody else, she also will cry. that day thought muz "train" her...let my MIL do it...wah jialat jialat, cry and cry and even after i carried her...she cried for more than half hour ...like protesting and complaining to me like that... until i step out of the door of my MIL place she immediately stopped crying!
well, i hope she will get over this phase and start sleeping on her own again sooon....